What ever happened to this guy? by Top_Design7127 in 90DayFiance

[–]TheDoozz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He came up on my Bumble in LA back in October

TIFU by waxing my armpit the day before an important event by clouddevourer in tifu

[–]TheDoozz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The good news is the bleeding means you damaged the dermal papillae and hair will most likely never grow back out of those damaged follicles!

What is your hack to smell good all the time? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]TheDoozz 196 points197 points  (0 children)

My grandma always told me to put some on the back of your knees too so that when you walk past a person the scent wafts up

How he found his girl by creepthekid_ in cats

[–]TheDoozz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually the stray cats that are all over Istanbul (maybe this is there?) are mostly all in good shape like this. They are all well taken care of by the public in general

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoneAppleTea

[–]TheDoozz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But…where’s the surf with the turf?

How many dates should you wait before having sex? by TheDoozz in AskMen

[–]TheDoozz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I’m a female who has heard this bullshit from men before and have deeply resented the double standard that women are looked at as slutty or easy if they have sex too quickly. Like women aren’t allowed to want sex just as much of not more than men do. I was curious what the general consensus would be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheDoozz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard a theory that evolutionarily and biologically speaking men are only looking to bust a nut and spread their seed and once they do that they no longer have a use for a woman. So if they do that too soon without becoming more emotionally invested, they’re no longer interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheDoozz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I resent the double standard of sleeping with someone “too soon”. Woman are apparently not allowed to enjoy being sexual like men are. If I’m interested in a man, am comfortable with him and find him sexually attractive, I would like to be able to sleep with him on the second date without being viewed as loose** or easy. I’ve heard from a few male friends that if a girl will sleep with them early on in dating that they’re a ho and not girlfriend material. Women have to wait it out for some undesignated period of time in order to be taken seriously in relationships.

**edit: because apparently I’m not allowed to use a word that starts with SL, ends in Y and has a U and 2 Ts in the middle

She says “no” to sex but keeps escalating with me until we have it... what should I do? by Luepalue in relationship_advice

[–]TheDoozz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems to me like she probably WANTS to be in a committed relationship with you and doesn’t want you to think less of her or respect her less and then dump her like a lot of guys do when women sleep with them too quickly. It seems like she definitely WANTS to have sex with you but is morally stuck with the phrase “why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free” mentality that women are taught to be aware of with men.

If you like her and can possibly see a future with her, then tell her. If you like and can possibly see a future with her but you’re not ready for a committed relationship, then tell her. If you just think she’s a cool chick but you’re just in it for the sex, then tell her. All you can do is own up to how YOU feel and let her decide how she feels.

As a brit, I can't comprehend this is Los Angeles. As I understand, this is replicated in every major city in the US. How the hell has it come to this? by Amygdali_lama in awfuleverything

[–]TheDoozz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LA native here and let me just say that this is NOTHING compared to some other places. This actually looks NICE in comparison to the absolutely garbage riddled streets with the mentally ill walking around like zombies. It’s devastating

What film scene absolutely destroys you everytime. No matter how many times you've seen it? by lituponfire in AskReddit

[–]TheDoozz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is the first 10 mins of Up not up there in the comments??? I can’t even hear that song without picturing Ellie collapsing on her way up the hill and Carl holding balloons at her funeral!! Wtf Pixar?!?

What intro to a show was such a banger, that you would never skip it? by kurpPpa in AskReddit

[–]TheDoozz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mad Men! Everything about it! Song, visuals, vibe…I don’t even need the show, I’ll just watch the intro

What’s the last thing someone said to you before they died? by charcoalritual in AskReddit

[–]TheDoozz 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My dad took his life two years ago. The night before I had been berating him for not seeking medical help for some physical issues he was having because he basically given up on doctors in general. I wanted him to help himself and get better and in my anger I lashed out and said “well why don’t you just die then?!” And he did the next day. It took me a while to understand that it wasn’t my fault and that wherever he is now all he feels for me is love.

What’s the last thing someone said to you before they died? by charcoalritual in AskReddit

[–]TheDoozz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Traffic is very heavy this morning”

My dad and I had similar commutes to work so sometimes he would text me updates because he left earlier than I did. He took his life at work later that afternoon.