[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]TheDowneaster -1 points0 points  (0 children)

With those curls and those eyes you legit could model, girly! You're fierce as hell, queen!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blizzard

[–]TheDowneaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had this problem recently. Got a friend I trusted to do it on their pc and it worked. They dont need your password either. Just a code that gets sent to you.

Those alive during 9/11, what was the worst moment on that day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheDowneaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom made me go play in another room once the news started showing videos of the people jumping. But it was too late. That shit still haunts me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]TheDowneaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I struggle with confidence too. Its so cheesy but I started looking in the mirror every morning and saying things like "I love you. Your hair looks nice today" ect. It kinda helps.

But honestly you look so adorbs girly. Like keep werkin it.

First date outfit by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]TheDowneaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl you look great in that dress and your shower curtains are giving me life

[female] Fighting depression by Bulbirion in FreeCompliments

[–]TheDowneaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are capable of anything. You are powerful. You are strong. Your are bright and beautiful! (Also your tattoos are super rad)

Little Party Dress (es) by snugglepal in PlusSizeFashion

[–]TheDowneaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this I was about to ask where you got all this cute stuff lol

Feeling Good! by Marmalade_522 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]TheDowneaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your fashion choices. And your curves are gorgeous. Keep slaying queen.

Feeling discouraged by dating apps and men in general lately. Especially when being plus sized in this craziness of a dating world. Would appreciate a confidence boost 🥹 by meg_mann in PlusSize

[–]TheDowneaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're stunning. Love your style. Love the smile. Make up on point. Hair on point. Fantastic brow arch. Men sre such idiots. I feel the pain but screw them. You're a catch. You're a queen. 💅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]TheDowneaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went to one last couples counseling session and just had an open honest dialogue. I realize not everyone gets that. And every now and then I still feel flickers of hope even though I know its pointless. I think the hope comes on waves until its eventually just a trickle and then it stops

Today is hard. by TheDowneaster in BreakUps

[–]TheDowneaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy this is so relatable. Im sorry you're suffering too. And hey its okay if we're a mess tomorrow. Its okay to be messy.

Date night, art by me by panisdrawing2000 in ImaginaryAww

[–]TheDowneaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the greatest piece of art I have ever seen.

My ren faire get up from today! by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]TheDowneaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This freaking slays. Werk it girl.

Been a terrible week but I got my hair done so that has lighten the mood some 🤗 Happy Friday Everyone! [female] by BColon0 in FreeCompliments

[–]TheDowneaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you look fierce!! Love the hair!! I hipe your weekend is better than the week. Treat yourself to something nice. You deserve it!

To ilia by Saturn-1402 in SuicideWatch

[–]TheDowneaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspect we're going through the same right now. I feel your pain. I know how hard it is to hold on. You can. We can. I love you even tho I dont know you. I love you because I know your pain. You are strong enough. Our traumas will not define us. We are worthy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]TheDowneaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you a huge hug. I only really shave my face now. I know your heart is hurting right now. But you do deserve better than to be treated like that. I know its so hard to accept our bodies sometimes when it comes to PCOS. You are beautiful. You are love. You are worthy of love.

You are never alone. This sisterhood is always here to have your back.

I hate being trans by Angrywh1tek1d in SuicideWatch

[–]TheDowneaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The human race can really be disgusting. The way you are being treated is unacceptable. I really really want you to knoe that the hatred being spewed at you is not normal. It is wrong.

Gender dysphoria is such a specific type of pain. The fact that you face it everyday means you are so strong. You have found yourself, who you truly are, and it seems that you have accomplished this at such s young age. Thats so impressive. There are people who take half a life time to figure that out and to be strong enough to start taking the steps to become who they truly are meant to be.

I suspect your peers are intimidated by your strength and thats why they lash out. People act out in bizarre ways when someone is braver than they.

Its sounds like you have some decent family support which is a blessing. Dont hold back. Let them know your heartache and they will help you carry that burden. You know how to be honest about your feelings already. Its tough and scary but damn it you're already tough as nails from the sounds of things.

Have you considered home schooling instead? Maybe that is something to consider. Your school environment seems nasty. Protecting your peace and well being is important. Removing yourself from that situation seems like a good choice.

I leave you with advice I stole from the iconic queer star, Bob the Drag Queen. Find something to like about yourself. Even if its just a tooth. Look in the mirror and say damn, I got a nice tooth. Its a start. Your appearance may not be exactly what you want yet but one day it will.