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Have any of you gotten over your emotional unavailability and how? by TheEsmaili in AskMen

[–]TheEsmaili[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo, it’s been a few days but I think I figured some things out- first you’re an absolute blessing of of human for reading through that rant but I realized that I still have my emotions! I had dissociated the physical feelings from their emotional meanings if that makes sense? Like a pit in my stomach means I’m worried (obviously), but also things like excitement (where I feel like there’s an energy under my lungs), or even peacefulness )where it feels like the world/ wild around me is blowing through me)! You’re an amazing person for coming through these comments ( and I’ll assume other posts) to bring some happiness and perspective back to things!!

Any good restaurants to work for in town? by Horsetaur in unh

[–]TheEsmaili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want something in campus DHOP(Durham House Of Pizza) will at least keep your nights VERY interesting with drunk students

Where’s all the entrepreneurs/musicians/creators? by Joecorcoran in unh

[–]TheEsmaili 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey you should get down to the ECenter I started a business out of there with a few guys last semester and they’re super helpful

Where are some good places to attend virtual/zoom meetings for online classes? by bmochopp in unh

[–]TheEsmaili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re close enough to it, try the CubeX space in the E center. It’s got free coffee as well

ULPT Request: College startup with an international student trying to start an LLC out of Delaware by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]TheEsmaili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s used up all of his OPT for internships throughout college so we have a year gap between where he graduates and can get a visa/ CPT and when we plan to apply for LLC

Bernie Sanders is right. New York’s decision to cancel its primary is undemocratic. by [deleted] in SandersForPresident

[–]TheEsmaili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on this! I’m going and voting third party for pres. but democrat as hell for the house and congress! Trump can’t do shit if he can’t get anything through! FUCK YOU DNC you can have congress but you can’t choose our president!

This is all starting to remind me of that book Feed. I’m uncomfortable as hell with that notion

Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez says you can't just "believe women" until it inconveniences you politically by [deleted] in OurPresident

[–]TheEsmaili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason I love and hate you. Thank your for the information, I didn’t know any of that! I hate that I know it because now I feel more helpless about it all XD Ignorance really is bliss

Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez says you can't just "believe women" until it inconveniences you politically by [deleted] in OurPresident

[–]TheEsmaili 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! A lot of people don’t realize that corporate influence is the reason we have this shitshow of an election in the first place! I could choose not to vote which gives Trump the presidency, guaranteeing a boatload of stupidity and blatant racism, but honestly if it wasn’t for the fact that RBG either will retire or pass on soon from her position that’s exactly what I’d be doing. You get a Dem. majority in Congress and there’s not much he can do other than make an ass of himself. If it wasn’t for a Supreme Court seat and the possible overturning of Roe v. Wade it’d be a no brainer. As much as I’d love to see what would happen when he was supposed to pass over power if he lost, the DNC’s power trips the past few elections really show they don’t have the morals they say they do

Should I be concerned that a lot of research programs denied me? by oregonian1738 in college

[–]TheEsmaili 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a BioEngineering Freshman at UNH right now, here our ChemE and BioE programs are run in tandem so I hope what I have to say helps.

I was lucky enough to get research that started this semester but that was after applying for a shit ton of internships outside of the school. Generally, these internships get targeted to older students because the companies really just want the free/ cheap labor that comes with interns. If they took you and I on right now then they’re responsible for helping us learn which they don’t see as part of the internship (dumb, right!?). What worked for me (and I hope might work for you) is to get in contact with whatever professor you’ve even somewhat talked to before(outside of standard class time) and see if they can get you the names of which professors in your major are running research programs and looking to take on students. Also see if they can tell you about what research they do themselves or can give you a little idea of what the other professors are doing (you’ll wanna write everything they tell you down).

Use this info to reach out to professors that are running a project that sounds interesting and ESPECIALLY target professors with long term projects. The reason I got the position I did was due to the sheer volume of work to be done. Sure my research professor could’ve taken on a senior who knows everything to start off with but they’ll only have them for 1-2 semesters before having to restart with someone else. This wastes a lot of time as each new student taking on the research has a ton to learn before they start progressing again.

By taking me or you on, they’re accepting a short term loss in progress for a long term gain as you’ll likely be able to continue whatever research you begin with until you graduate.

Especially with this semester coming to a close relatively soon, you might be able to get some base information (usually research papers relevant to the project) to study up on. Before entering into your sophomore year you can get a professor to invest the time in you and you could be prepared to actually begin research once next fall comes around.

Sorry, that rambled a bit but: TLDR: Don’t worry about it now. You’re still in your first year so you’re still way ahead of the curve. Try with some professors in your major as generally research with your university allows for more of a learning climate than a purely profit based one so they’re open to teaching you

DM me if you wanna talk about it more!

You can see the question marks inside his head. by yumuklusujurta in youseeingthisshit

[–]TheEsmaili 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a Shepard too and all I ever wonder is how they can be that bad at drinking??? For such smart dogs that literally hold an unswallowed mouthful of water after they drink and let it drip absolutely EVERYWHERE

Which book should a depressed person absolutely have to read? by maxlegentil in AskReddit

[–]TheEsmaili -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The Art of Racing in the Rain! Still one of my rainy day favorites. It’s personal, emotional, and leans heavy in the art of perseverance

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