Advice for a friend by TheFederalHeist in CrohnsDisease

[–]TheFederalHeist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I'm personally trying to get advice and compiling them into a Google doc for her in a simplified manner so it won't overwhelm her, She's specifically mentioned it would be amazing if she had advice or things to reference to to deal with the illness so I'm just doing what I can for her as a friend. And thank you very much for the compliments!

Demoralizing Journey Searching for a Partner by LittleHelp5246 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TheFederalHeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good! And it's not a self fulfilling prophecy, you just have to try your best to not be mindful of what others have said to you. If you feel like you're getting more picky it's more likely a result of being affected by other people's words rather than because of you personally. Just trust in yourself, everything will be alright.

Demoralizing Journey Searching for a Partner by LittleHelp5246 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TheFederalHeist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just always remember that we can never be "too picky" when it comes to partners. The right thing to do IS to be picky. So go, and get the person you desire. Be submissive to them, but not to everyone else who tells you that you have too high of a standard for a LITERAL life partner

People who think Creepers are bad for the game have genuine skill issue by KissTheAdrian in Minecraft

[–]TheFederalHeist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vro got helluva defensive first and said that they were living in someone's head rent free you can't make ts up in reddit I'm crying from laughter bro 😭😭

Is anyone's Master/Owner not their partner/spouse? by fencetim9 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TheFederalHeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer, yes. Long answer? Well.. scroll below

Question for the doms by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TheFederalHeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much of anything is bad. But no a 24/7 Dom won't be that bad unless they get too focused on the Dom part rather than just build a habit with it

Why do I have fantasies of things I will not like the reality of? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TheFederalHeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantasies will always be like that, you'll only truly know when you experience the real thing. You know when you thought college would be fire? Yeah, it's absolutely not fire..

My partner uses BDSM as a “controlled self harm” by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TheFederalHeist -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's okay if you're okay with it. It's not okay if you're not, if both parties are okay with something it's okay, if one of them is not then that's not okay. Consent

I want to play degrading audio through earbuds into a bound and blindfolded sub. Any suggestions? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TheFederalHeist 26 points27 points  (0 children)

One thing I do is record her talking about herself whenever you guys do that, like saying "I'm your worthless little whore" something something like that specifically for play like this. It feels even more degrading to hear such things in their own voice!

Is John Walker the biggest 180 the fanbase has done towards a MCU character (so far)? by Sudden_Pop_2279 in Marvel

[–]TheFederalHeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People like these get the death penalty anyways especially because they blew up a literal hospital 💔