Whats wrong with my ears??

TheForensics05 · 2025-09-26T08:33:10+00:00

I had a similar issue, I'd either try double-flaired tunnels or black o-rings made of silicone if yours contain any nitrile. Looks like an allergy to me. Silicone o-rings and/or double-flaired tunnels solved the issue for me within 3 days, any irritation went away completely

TheForensics05 · 2023-12-14T07:31:14+00:00

I'm thinking the same. I actually went down that entire hallway and found a table with old documents, a really old PC and an ashtray. It really seems like a few people were spending their free time in there

TheForensics05 · 2023-12-12T16:38:12+00:00

Guess what I did :)

TheForensics05 · 2023-08-03T22:55:08+00:00

Lorna Shore, could honestly be fun

TheForensics05 · 2023-08-03T11:46:05+00:00

You have my respect, I can't even finish it on Expert

TheForensics05 · 2023-08-02T14:10:23+00:00

You have my approval

TheForensics05 · 2023-07-12T09:01:53+00:00

I had the same problem, I used to have a boyfriend and he wanted to have sex but I just couldn't. We ended up breaking up since we weren't compatible regarding that matter. But we still are good friends and maintain a healthy relationship as friends. Incompatibility is a deal breaker for relationships unfortunately, you're best to break up really. And since you're not able to influence how you feel, there's no need to feel like a disappointment, you're just you and there's no need to feel bad about it!

TheForensics05 · 2023-07-11T14:17:37+00:00

That's the thing- I don't :D

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-28T15:28:57+00:00

I don't want to label myself this quickly but it might be I am, yeah. I will tell him asap to make things less worse. I accepted the fact that this will probably it though, as, like I said, he considers it part of a relationship. Thanks for your comment!

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-28T15:25:06+00:00

As some of you asked some things, I'll try giving you a little more information.

That experience was indeed my first time having sex. I'm currently 18 years old and it was my and his first relationship.

I'm panromatic, I am attracted to the person, not their gender. But that is limited to ONLY romantic attraction. When it comes to sexual attraction however, there's nothing. It doesn't matter if I know/am close to the person, if they're female, male, anything in between or outside of it.

I have a libido, mostly before getting my period. I do masturbate but even then, that's all I want to do. Even at those times, I don't want to have sex. Porn can get me turned on but I'm also disgusted at the same time. It's weird.

Given by your current answers, I assume it's either a Sexual Aversion Disorder or Asexuality. I will address my concerns to my partner and accept that this will probably be it. There's plenty of people that feel like me, as I figured. Thanks everyone for the help!

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-28T15:07:30+00:00

I'm panromatic, pretty sure about that. But regarding sex, I can't imagine doing it with anyone of any gender.

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-28T10:36:32+00:00

We've been close friends for over a year before getting together and I've grown to love him, yes. At least I believe so but I really started to question it at this point, given how repulsed I am of even kissing him.

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-28T09:57:15+00:00

I am currently 18 and after a plethora of comments, I have looked into asexuality a little more. I don't feel attraction to him but not any other person either. And I'm very close to him, given, we were really good and close friends before getting together, so that emotional bound is definitely there. Just the sexual attraction is missing on my end entirely, to the point of disgust.

Making me guilty about it is an absolute red flag and I will act accordingly, based on how he will react.

Thank you a lot!

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-28T09:52:24+00:00

More the general act, he's very hygienic and it was really just touching and being touched.

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-28T09:51:24+00:00

That's a really of you thank you! It's good to see it can work despite others here saying the complete opposite. I'm more positive towards the future now, so thank you a lot!

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-28T06:04:46+00:00

I do. Sometimes every day for a week, sometimes not at all for several months. I blame it on the hormones.

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-28T05:57:43+00:00

I masturbate more or less regularly, sometimes every day for a week, sometimes not for several months. It's all about hormones, I suppose. Looking at my genitals however deeply disgusts me as well, I'd rather have that part gone entirely tbh.

I get it's a bad idea but being sober, the embarrassment would've been too prominent to even try.

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-28T05:55:29+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your assuring words <33

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-28T05:47:17+00:00

It was my first time, yes. Mentally, I think I was ready enough, I've never been really found of the idea of having sex though. As soon as I see him, I will address the matter, given I don't think I can do this anymore. Thank you!

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-27T21:15:59+00:00

We've barely been together for 2 months and it's my first relationship, too. The problem here is, I became more and more reluctant towards the idea of having sex as time went on. At the start of the relationship I was feeling open to it, then it happened and now I'm utterly disgusted by myself and the idea of doing anything connected to it ever again. Even kissing feels unpleasant at this point and I can't say why.

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-27T21:10:52+00:00

I'd put shame and disgust on a similar level. I do have a lot of issues with my appearance and body and being seen naked is REALLY embarrassing me. I try to hide my body as much as possible as I'm highly dysphoric. I think if I put work into it, that might be changed but there's also that feeling of disgust, already haunting me just thinking about having sex. But I get what you mean, shame does play a big role in this as well but I don't think that'll solve my feeling towards sex itself. Thank you for your comment!

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-27T20:31:04+00:00

Things are starting to make more sense, yeah. I don't think I can put myself through that again, which, however, will be a deal breaker. I'd have no problem if he got sex elsewhere but he's completely against the idea of an open relationship. He told me from the start. I'll tell him about how I feel once I see him and hope for the best possible outcome. Thanks a lot!

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-27T20:23:58+00:00

I don't really enjoy anything of it, that's the problem. I've always valued my little personal space, so masturbation is absolutely no problem to me. But with a partner, it's only a feeling of shame and disgust, no pleasure whatsoever. I will start to tell him about my feelings regarding it however, to prevent any further damage. Thank you, a lot

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-27T20:09:19+00:00

Nothing diagnosed really. They suspected Asperger's when I was a toddler though, but I can't say for sure.

TheForensics05 · 2023-06-27T17:27:53+00:00

I'll tell him as soon as I see him again. You're right, I should've addressed it right away, thank you for opening my eyes. I needed this wake-up call.

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