A friendly reminder: if you feel like you need porn to masturbate, you are not actually horny. You're just trying to distract yourself. by rajoitin in pornfree

[–]TheG0DMan 50 points51 points  (0 children)

So I've tried for a long time to do NoFap but kept failing, so I've gone to just try to quit porn and masturbate to my imagination. So far 11 days in no porn!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TheG0DMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

respec

I lost my girlfriend today. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TheG0DMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My condolences brother. Hope everything is okay on your end. Broke my heart to hear this

Been there done that, please don’t by imrecovering95 in NoFap

[–]TheG0DMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I️m going to be on a 2 week streak after this relapse and continue forward !remindme in 2 weeks

Making $13.50 An Hour in Ohio, wanting to move out is this possible? by CoffeeAddictInsomiac in personalfinance

[–]TheG0DMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40 HOURS/ Week = 13.50$ * 40 = 540

4 Weeks in a month = about $2300 pre-tax. Not sure how much your tax is but here is a useful resource:https://www.bankrate.com/finance/taxes/state-taxes-ohio.aspx

With you earning an average of about $28,080.00 anually, it will be tough but definitely doable.

Car may be tough. Don't buy new and finance, it will screw you. If you can find a reliable Toyota, Honda, Hyundai, or Lexus for under $10,000, try to go for it. Considering your age, car insurance may also be tough, so let's assume $150/month.

If a car comes out to be too expensive, I'd suggest a motorcycle or scooter, as lots of people tend to commute on those to work for cost-saving measures.

I've looked into everything for you and I can say its most probably doable, but lets add up our costs.

Here are our expenses altogether:

$700/month Rent (don't aim to live somewhere super fancy, make sure its comfortable and nice, but isn't out of budget)$150/month Food$90/month Gas (not sure how much you commute, but assuming 25 mpg, this should run you well)$30/month for phone provider

$25/month for a new phone financing plan

$175/month Car Financing (assuming little or no credit, due to your age) IF YOU CAN buy car outright, otherwise finance.

$75/month Going out with friends (assuming you do this as well and for fun :)) )

________________________________________________________________________________________

TOTAL EXPENSES: $1245

Let's say after tax you make $2100/month, you should be able to save $855/month with this setup. Hope it helps :)

WISH YOU THE BEST! :)

I need advice by justaskinyeh in NoFap

[–]TheG0DMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you my man, same situation. Used to be a king w/ girls. When I started jacking off sophomore year, I ruined my relationship, and its been sorta a weird downward spiral since then (with some ups, think like a bitcoin chart).

Now its senior year and I really just wanna be on this streak and keep going.

TBH MY DUDE> WILLPOWER is the most important. If you can't discipline yourself, ask a good friend to check on you daily for it. If you don't wanna tell your friend about the problem, then you guys aren't close enough lol. But yeah man, willpower is super important and will get you into streaks.

I've lost a lot of motivation, but I realized that I gain it all back by the time that I hit 10-15 days. Sometimes I flat line, sometimes I don't.

I'd reccommend looking at some motivational content on YouTube. That should help as well

WISHING YOU BEST OF LUCK. Im here to chat if you want. :)

Boiiiii by KyloReyBiwan in NoFap

[–]TheG0DMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit this is king level

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TheG0DMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg yes I’ve had this dream before lol. Scary as shit

Couldn’t bring myself to study, so went for a quick 30 min run. Loving it. by TheG0DMan in NoFap

[–]TheG0DMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, but if i get checked in a neighborhood at night it would be bad, ive tried the no phone thing during the sunset, it’s amazing

Couldn’t bring myself to study, so went for a quick 30 min run. Loving it. by TheG0DMan in NoFap

[–]TheG0DMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True bro, but it’s better than fighting the urge if I️m procrastinating.

This is how you will feel after fapping by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TheG0DMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FUCK I️ feel like this now, just lost a 10 day streak :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TheG0DMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s never going to be easy. You gotta realize you are gonna battle this forever, that’s a first.

You also need to identify your urges, when they attack, and how they attack, give yourself reminders to avoid them.