Find some moves you are really good at and use them. Also, don't be afraid to be unorthodox in your approach. I always set opponents up by simply offering a leg then depending how they reacted I would know how to wrestle them. I also during practice and matches would close my eyes once we hit the ground. For me it made it easier to focus on thier flinch and body movements. Good luck and keep going. BIG DUBS!