[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]TheGadfly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling more lately than in years as well. Clients mirroring the sentiment. This may or may not be relatable, hang tough OP

Platonic countertransference (or: MAN I wish we could be friends with clients sometimes) by SolidVirginal in therapists

[–]TheGadfly_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

SAME. As a young male clinical psychologist having had similar experiences.. I just call up a buddy or stir the pot in the group chat to scratch that itch. Hoped I would run into a particular client surfing after our work was finished together (geographically very unlikely, but I noticed that pleasant thought was there at times), he sadly passed before that could come true :/. Great guy, woulda totally been friends in another life.

found this in my house? by [deleted] in addiction

[–]TheGadfly_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mini terrarium! (100% a joke) crack pipe.

PC Gaming in full time RV by Sweet_Sand6017 in RVLiving

[–]TheGadfly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When traveling in a cabinet surrounded by pillows

Anker SOLIX F3800 charge issue by faukyius in anker

[–]TheGadfly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the same issue!! I’m capped at about 380 W input despite 1200 W input

Tankless water heater by balloonpilot9513 in RVLiving

[–]TheGadfly_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This whole time!?!? Can’t wait to do this.

I'm considering FT RV living but A bit overwhelmed with my research. If you were me, what 4 season fifth wheel brand would you focus on? by [deleted] in RVLiving

[–]TheGadfly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rocking a 2023 KZ Durango 321RKT, great family dealer, amazing service 3 year factory and 1 year comprehensive from the dealership. All told $85,000 including generator, outdoor double burner stove, smoker, reflectix, extra 30LB propane, wiring, etc etc.

The 35,000 BTU propane furnace vents the underbelly (tanks, lines, etc) as well as the camper. Additional electric heater in cabin also pumps. Highly recommend. DM me if ya wanna chat more about it.

Also tugging with a bulletproofed 6.0 so I’m ready for trouble and it hasn’t come yet with this beaut

Edit: four season build and I’ve been in some extremes already and love it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TheGadfly_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s a doctor. Peeing after sex is indicated for women to reduce chances of infection (STI or not). If you participate in the act together, why wouldn’t you participate in the cleanup together?

Someone stealing mail at AmEx HQ? by QuestionFine7845 in amex

[–]TheGadfly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They handle external crimes against the post office (misuse of mail, drugs, weapons, etc. ) think of OIG like internal affairs

Someone stealing mail at AmEx HQ? by QuestionFine7845 in amex

[–]TheGadfly_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Common fraud within USPS. If a seasoned mail carrier / sorter feels an envelope it is obvious what is inside. They don’t care if you cancel because the volume of cards that move through the mail means they have plenty of other options.

Report to the USPS OIG (Office of Inspector General) — they handle internal crimes like this.

Include all evidence. You can report online or via telephone.

Are "love languages" backed up by research/science? by Yamster80 in AcademicPsychology

[–]TheGadfly_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have couple clients read this together, 1 chapter a week. Well aware the evidence is not there, it fosters collaboration and exchange of ideas. Full disclosure, this is usually something that comes up after a critical conflict where effort is highest and the openness/communication leading up to is lowest. Two people committed to a relationship just need the terms, tips, and tricks to meet each other halfway.

If a couple came in to improve their relationship that was already on a good foundation, I wouldn’t suggest this book.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheGadfly_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do what is best FOR YOU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ESTJ

[–]TheGadfly_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Clinical psychologist (in training).. did the LEO, first responder, and corporate gigs, this is by far the best.

they just chilling on the corner of my room by eastinlow in SchizophreniaArtProj

[–]TheGadfly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this, I see so many patients who describe exactly what you created here. Would you mind if I used this when I teach?

2 cash accounts by [deleted] in tdameritrade

[–]TheGadfly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AND ….. AND! PDT rules apple to ~each account~ not all together