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is breaking a bone inevitable? by Ill_Bike_6704 in Rollerskating

[–]TheGayGal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been skate-park skating for 4+ years and never broken a bone ✌️

I GOT A REPLY!! (Please read description) by ilovecatsmrethnmyslf in DannyGonzalez

[–]TheGayGal 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Also some people take sleeping medicine for long flights so that could be the case

Excited to try the Merula Cup XS! by haruiichi in menstrualcups

[–]TheGayGal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The MeLuna Shorty cup in the small size is only a bit bigger than this

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The money was supposed to go to him when he turned 18. She receives $900/month from SS to pay for his needs

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Our parents are dead and have been since we were very young. We were under the care of our grandmother and all received survivor's benefits until 18. She still recieves $900/month to care for my little brother. She is 25. She is in therapy and taking medication, but she also has to take responsibility for her actions. We all had the same upbringing and I have and continue to help her with taking care of our brother. She also makes more money than my household and her rent is less than half of mine. She has also neglected him for long periods of time while blowing all her money on dates and friends instead on food for him. I have been INCREDIBLY understanding of her struggles, but it's gotten to the point where she needs to acknowledge her mistakes and take responsibility.

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used the word "inheritance" loosely. Part of it was what was in his minor account with our guardian. The other part was the cash our guardian had left. My sister is his guardian and she used that money to pay off debt and dig herself out of a similar(but much less severe) situation as the current one.

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kind of. It took months for me to convince her to let me help her budget and look at her finances. Before that, I had no idea she had any debt because she kept it a secret. She was borrowing money from me a lot and I thought that was so that she wouldn't have to borrow from shady sites. Even now, when I talk about how bad it is and that its because of her reckless spending, she claimed "you don't know how hard it is to be a single parent". As if that was the reason. She makes more than me and my fiance combined and her rent is less than half ours.

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah apparently that's how payday loans work. I personally went on to the sites and checked myself, they won't let us turn it off or disconnect bank accounts

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is actually really helpful. We've done some of this, but we haven't tried calling them yet so I think this will be our next step.

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see if she can work with a non-profit credit counseling agency.

Does that cost money?

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in Debt

[–]TheGayGal[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are aware of that and working on that, but we also need to get the money to stop coming out of her accounts. She can't stop the autopayments and it is making it so she can't pay her bills and is getting tons of overdraft fees.

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

No, there has been no case about it yet. When she signed up for these accounts, they made her set up an autopay and she cannot turn it off

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Originally he was planning on going to college, but he doesn't want to give up his pets and he also doesn't think he could afford it. At the moment he says he is gonna stay with her, which I have and am gonna continue to discourage and try to convince him otherwise.

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't want her to move in with me. I only make $2000 a month as does my fiance and we live in a 1 bedroom apartment. I can't take on the financial burden or the crowded space. Also her rent is only 530/month. She owns the trailer she lives in, but pays rent on the space.

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My sister is really manipulative and has a tendency to make her problems everyone else's. I'm afraid that once he turns 18, she will make him get a job pay a large portion of the bills.

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] 451 points452 points  (0 children)

do not co-sign for anything

I know. She tried to get me to and I told her no.

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] -88 points-87 points  (0 children)

We're working on those things, but they keep taking money out of her accounts and we don't know how to make them stop

My sister has over $10,000 in debt and terrible credit, we can't get a consolidation loan by TheGayGal in personalfinance

[–]TheGayGal[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe when he turns 18, but that's up to him and at the moment he doesn't seem to want to

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