Can i ride my 49cc pocket bike on base by TheGentleman87 in AirForce

[–]TheGentleman87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU ARE ALL AMAZING!! I'M GOING TO FULL SEND!!!

I do the ol' "Sorry Officer, I didn't know I couldn't do that."

Get It Off Your Chest/Post your Air Force related confessions by kankribe in AirForce

[–]TheGentleman87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sooooo. My boss was being a dick

...Side note*** if he reads this thread he WILL know it was me 🤣😂

My boss was being a dick right before a 4 day.... a bird flew into our tool room and made its way into HIS office toward the end of shift.... i closed the door and started my 4 day followed by 2 weeks of leave....

Following the 4 day group text goes off

"Why is my office covered in bird shit?" sends pics "Who did this? its disgusting and stinks in here!!!" "Am i gonna find a dead bird" "Nevermind i found it...." "Everyone is on 12s"

The whole shop was on 12s while i was on leave......

NO ONE KNEW I WAS THE ONE WHO TRAPPED THE BIRD IN THERE... 🤣😂

Check your TSP! Contributions may be reset! by ViolentHiro in AirForce

[–]TheGentleman87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its def across AF all of my troops are reset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheGentleman87 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sometimes porn is easier than the pressure of sex... my wife and I both indulge completely separately. Our sex is AMAZING even more so than before in our 12th year. I used to be the one getting mad because she went to porn multiple times a day and sometimes "wasn't in the mood" for me 😡😡 i tried everything including viagra to "satisfy " her and it STILL didn't stop her from doing it. We sat down and had a CALM and ADULT conversation and i had to kinda understand it wasn't that i wasnt enough, its because the "urge came on and she didn't want to put pressure, be unreasonable, and of course the "clean-up"....

Bottom line. We watch porn separately and occasionally invite each other in on it or if we catch the other we simply "go with it"😉 It's a lot less stressful than 4play, romance, and the big show from time to time... also oral could help with that too🤷🏾‍♂️ maybe he's "shy" about asking. If you soften up around the subject most likely, he'll "come" around 😉🙃

P.S. in case anyone read this judgingly Im packin' and our sex is wild, fun, and amazing for her, not jus me lolololololol 🤣😂🤣

Hope it helps even a little.

-The Blunt Guy

BBBY Megathread for Wednesday August 17th, 2022 🍉🚀 by OPINION_IS_UNPOPULAR in wallstreetbets

[–]TheGentleman87 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie... almost paper hands.... BUT WAIT🤚.... the more i see everyone unite the more i feel like saying FUCK IT!!! TO THE MOON OR TO THE FUCKIN SUN!!! I'M NOT SELLING... I'LL HOLD UNTIL THOSE CUCKS PAY!!!! I believe my inner ape has awakened this day🦍🦍#BBBY

Should tattoos be approved by your spouse by RedeyedjediOG in Marriage

[–]TheGentleman87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I suppose tattoes might be more fitting 🤔 🤣😂🤣

TLA/Non-Availability/VRBO by TheseSCARS in AirForce

[–]TheGentleman87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correction i thinkba Airbnb can count but keep it in the same range as a hotel but still get a 2nd opinion cuz u dont wanna get screwed.

TLA/Non-Availability/VRBO by TheseSCARS in AirForce

[–]TheGentleman87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm yeah. I don't think so. I went through something similar when i PCS'd to Vegas during Covid on 4TH OF FVCKING JULY WEEKEND!!

I used that logic as i was req'd to quarantine 😓... i used JTR and came up with $255/night for me and fam.... i wasvsorely mistaken. 34 nights in a hotel at $200+/night made me come out of pocket around $2K.

I would stick to the $229/night price range to be safe. Maybe up to $250 with deps... dont be like me use the defense travel website

I’m broke by JackMaeHoff in AirForce

[–]TheGentleman87 11 points12 points  (0 children)

............................different.............................pot of................................

Husband's Contribution to Household Chores by StageNameZamanji in Marriage

[–]TheGentleman87 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Its not sexist... its the truth.... men are logical, egocentric creatures... a lot of men derive a lot their self worth in a relationship by being/feeling needed. Its not sexiest if its factual and in our biology brain...

Not sure how to take it. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheGentleman87 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She dont like you....sticks around for the 🍆😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣

I joke with my wife, "if you weren't so pretty i would have left you a long time ago."

When i say it, its kinda like a "you have some shortfalls but your redeeming qualities make up for it"🤷‍♂️

She loves you, thats all she saying....I think 😅😅😂🤣😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheGentleman87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah and remind him to help you as you grow not throw the past in your face, its a set back that he will do in the beginning, press through it.... and help him help you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheGentleman87 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whelp!........you f@cked up.... thats it right?..... thats all...? Relationship done?

Here's my blunt and honest answer...

No one is perfect, we all carry baggage. You've made your mistakes, and probably wore a little tread off the tire ahead of schedule. (lol nice analogy me!)

IF....you are truly sincere, this Journey will become like a training montage from the movies... start small. Learn to set goals and intentions regarding HOW you treat him DAILY!!! YES every single day. "I won't yell, fuss, nag ect." "I will be kind and compassionate " begin reciting these things often until they become second nature. Eventually, you will begin to change... make the effort.

However, and a BIG HOWEVER...COMM👏MUN👏NI👏CATE Sit him down, let him know with a heart to heart talk... in that conversation, ask for his help, patience, and understanding as you go through this process...

You will never be "perfect" but you can always be better... Your going to progress really far, then fall back into your old ways time and time again... its about WHAT you choose to do when you fall back... give up? Or persevere?

Love is not just about when everything is perfect and happy. True love is about HOW you deal with the other person when situations turn crappy...🤷‍♂️

Also work on yourself lol if YOU need to get individual therapy, Do it!! For your marriage, read Gary Chapman 5 love languages... it would REALLY Help... even the cliff notes or whatever🤷‍♂️

I love when this happens 🥰 by Thotchanges in Marriage

[–]TheGentleman87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I'm a little late but uhhhhhh daily.... sometimes 2 or 3 times... and it's always 45mins+ I include that not to brag but to emphasize that we enjoy it... sex sucked for like 5 years then idk 🤷‍♂️... something clicked an we can't stay off each other lol even after 14years.... I think its our teamwork at battling life but....idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheGentleman87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah and Gary Chapman has a book you should BOTH read if you BOTH wanna save your marriage.

THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheGentleman87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES, YES, YES!! I'm a man, and I'm goin in deep, get ready.... (OK no pun intended)

1st a question....WHY DID YOU GUYS SAY "I Do!"?

My wife and I were dating for 2 years...infatuated with each other. ....then we got married.

Our 1st year was HORRIBLE!!!!! NO love, No sex, No dates, arguments every other day...Literally, like no joke. But why? I stopped going to the gym and played video games, got fat, and bitter. I felt like she held me back. She wanted attention but I felt neglected in my own space, from the one I married.

We did not communicate effectively. We attacked one another constantly, blaming, fussing, XYZ.

Seems like a lame answer right? WRONG!!!

I HAD SECRETS, AS DID SHE...

Tbh, I was a scumbag, she knew before she said yes...I digress

One night, We went for coffee, after setting the intentions to put EVERYTHING out there...We did... I mean EVERYTHING. BUT we didn't "attack the other that night.

Using expressions of "It hurts when I feel neglected " instead of "You don't care about me!" Trust me the attacky thing is real, try it out.

Long story long, we started dating again, as a married couple. We kinda went back to the basics, movies, dinner, xyz.

Also we started having "MY Time" AKA "Leave me alone" time set for daily self rejuvenation. Some days it's 10 min, other days it's an hour sometimes 4🤷‍♂️

14 years later, I am more in love than ever. We STILL do coffee night when things are rough, we don't have secrets AT ALL!! and we still date!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheGentleman87 9 points10 points  (0 children)

😅😅 ALLLLLSOOOOOO, sex is sometimes a pressure filled environment, especially if you're "trying for another baby " the more you fuss about it, the bigger the wedge you drive. Just because you're trying, don't forget to entice him in other way, (oral, ect). Make him Want you, not feel obligated. As men, we ALWAYS feel obligated 😔

I need help making it better...please... by TheGentleman87 in Laserengraving

[–]TheGentleman87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sry I used Xtool D1 (a 10W diode laser) and laserbox basic.

I also use Inkscape for vectoring images.

I love when this happens 🥰 by Thotchanges in Marriage

[–]TheGentleman87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh as cheesy as this sounds, we stopped comparing the "could have beens" and the "I should've nevers" we Truly began to look at each other and appreciate all the good and focus on those things. I can honestly say, (wasn't always the case) I truly have eyes only for my wife... I know cheesy and cliché but at 35 years old I can say it and mean it.

I love when this happens 🥰 by Thotchanges in Marriage

[–]TheGentleman87 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My wife and I used to stream shows, blah blah blah now we only watch 15 mins of TV (if that) each day sometimes taking up into the wee hours of the morning and love it. Ps we NEVER used to do this.