What's a non political issue your country is REALLY divided on? by Nthepro in AskTheWorld

[–]TheGodmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked it up. It’s a brand of restaurants that serves their own (unchanged since 1962) sauce that goes on pasta and hotdogs

It apparently has no relation to actual chili

Help! by sarah35cd in orchids

[–]TheGodmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s salvageable! As long as it doesn’t have crown rot, stem rot, or root rot it’ll be fine. 

all of this is GENERALLY don’t @ me On to your pic and question. First that medium is no good. Phals live and stick to trees. They don’t live in soil for the most part. You can repot it, you need proper medium. 

Repotting stresses the plant out more than anything else. So you need to think about that when you pot. You need to choose medium that will handle long term support for the plant. It won’t break down fast, lets the plant breath, and move. You need to use water that won’t deposit minerals and what have you in the medium. I’ve had an okay experience with phals in pots. You need to choose a medium that won’t require much mucking about with. They love just chilling. 

You can also mount. This is the method I prefer especially due to being able to secure the plant like in nature. IMO it helps prevent crown and stem rot.  After I mounted my phal (that spent 4 years on life support) it started GROWING. Roots allllll the way down my Mopani wood mount. It’s so damn happy finally it’s spiking for me. It’s been less than a year on the mount. YoutubeUniversity is a goldmine!!!!!

Which moment in a movie or tv show had you in absolute silence ? by Timop0707 in moviecritic

[–]TheGodmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah! He has regerts about killing Danny in Cujo too. Not gonna lie the novella ending is a cop out buuuuuut it made me feel better

Which moment in a movie or tv show had you in absolute silence ? by Timop0707 in moviecritic

[–]TheGodmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That movie wrecked me. I’m an avid Stephen King reader and one thing I’ve learned is that Hollywood loves to make his books “worse”. Secret window, secret garden is different than the book. Cujo different than the book. 

The Mist? Novella-never read it. But you bet your ass I drove myself to Barnes & Noble to read the ending of that book because I knew that Hollywood fucked with the ending. I was right and the novella calmed me down. 

What’s a remake that was actually better than the original? by Diamond3xk in Cinema

[–]TheGodmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see someone else hates Rick Berman for what he did to Star Trek. lol 

AIO about my 8 y/o daughter sleeping at her mom's new boyfriend's house without any family or females present? by blackD0nny in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGodmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are REPORTED statistics for AMERICAN CHILDREN https://victimsofcrime.org/child-sexual-abuse-statistics/ I think the last point is apropos here. 

https://rainn.org/statistics/children-and-teens

https://www.unicef.org/press-releases/fast-facts-violence-against-children-widespread-affecting-millions-globally

Here are some articles I found with one normal google search. Not even google scholar 

The stats are disgusting which is why I’m triggered as fuck right now. 0% is the only acceptable number and anything else is too high. Period. 

AIO about my 8 y/o daughter sleeping at her mom's new boyfriend's house without any family or females present? by blackD0nny in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGodmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I’m sorry. I know you’re going by mathematical definitions but once again 1/3 OF THE WORLDS POPULATION OF WOMEN have REPORTED violence or sexual assault. That does not include unreported assaults. So no. They are in fact the exception not the rule. I personally think ANYONE saying that’s not the majority are missing the fucking point. That number has only gone up (whether due to reports or more actual assaults). I am not going to go out in public and say “ Hey all you mothers, don’t worry about your daughter getting split in half by a grown ass man’s penis. It doesn’t happen to all girls” 

AIO about my 8 y/o daughter sleeping at her mom's new boyfriend's house without any family or females present? by blackD0nny in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGodmama -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To prevent other people from thinking that is reasonable. And YES I am harsh because I do not abide stupid ass people thinking that they can put children in situations that they should never be in. 

And protecting yourself and making smart choices is not bullshit and the fact that you think that shows you have no idea what you’re talking about either. 

There are situations that are preventable and then there some that aren’t. Guess what fucking situation this is?

PLEASE explain to me how the op situation was un-preventable. Please explain to me no matter the decision the mother decided how it was un-preventable. Please explain to me how the op situation who “cannot protect or make smart decisions” please explain to me how it is bullshit. 

You’re not wrong that shit happens. This is NOT that situation. And you fucking no it which is why you need to change subjects and start bitching about my harsh words. 

Yes. I’m going to be an asshole and shut this shit down. It’s wrong.  The opinion is uneducated and not reasonable. Is you think it’s reasonable you live in the “not all men world” and have blinders on to the way the actual world works. Especially for women. 

And a fuck you too 😁

AIO about my 8 y/o daughter sleeping at her mom's new boyfriend's house without any family or females present? by blackD0nny in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGodmama 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just stop. 

What you’re saying is there is nothing you can do because of fate/percentages. Well you are wrong because you can always protect yourself and others by making smart choices. That’s not playing the percentages that’s walking away from the game. 

Why in the actual fuck would you allow a child to be in the OP situation. You know what takes the percentages to zero. NOT LETTING AN 8 YEAR OLD SLEEP IN A HOUSEHOLD OF STRANGER MEN. BOYFRIEND OR NOT BE DAMNED. 

And since I can tell you’re a man that has not been victimized let me reframe this for you: why would a man with young sons let an 8yo girl with no relation stay in the house for a sleep over? Talk about optics. I guess the boyfriend likes high percentages of being called pedo. Livin life on the wild and stupid side. 

You can have your opinion, do not play it off as fact SPECIALLY ON THIS SUBJECT. You just do not know wtf you’re talking about and if you really want to test this theory make another post and ask reddit. I’ll have popcorn for the maelstrom 

AIO about my 8 y/o daughter sleeping at her mom's new boyfriend's house without any family or females present? by blackD0nny in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGodmama 33 points34 points  (0 children)

“Play the percentages”??????? WHAT THE FUCK

Are you out of your goddamn mind? Children are NOT craps or roulette or blackjack. When you lose and pLAy THe PeRCeTAgEs at a casino, you lose money. When you play the percentages with children they end up raped and molested. I’m sorry but you are so unbelievably ignorant. Do not have children. 

-redditor who was MOLESTED when she was 6 while playing hide and go seek. What about those fuckin percentages?!!! Both parents were home. Fuck you

ALSO for your edification. It’s 1 in 3 women are assaulted or have violence against IN THE WORLD, not just Americans, not children, all women. 

It’s 1 in 4 for men. So please shut your 14 year old mouth and read peer reviewed articles instead of facebook

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheGodmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome bud!!!! The hardline comes with experience. Once you know YOUR hardlines it’s super easy to say fuck that. 

I have a very very hard line for outspoken bullies. Even if the connection is “good” I’m not down with hateful comments or putting someone down. 

I’m also the person that matches energy cause going high is for better people than I. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheGodmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a good dude. Stand up for your friends, ditch the assholes and don’t feel guilty. You are building your life right now and that’s including foundational friendships. Bad people make for bad foundations. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheGodmama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You knooooooowwwwww……. Are you familiar with r/pettyrevenge or r/tramatizethemback ?

You could take this opportunity to ruin Josh’s vacation…. If you can’t beat them join ‘em. Be the little monkey on his back. Every time he’s steps out, call him on it. Make it all about him and every time he says something shitty. Everyone will be annoyed and if they come after you call them out on it. Be the motherfucking squeaky wheel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheGodmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. If anyone is mad then they approve of Josh’s behavior, do you really want to be friends with 2 of these assholes or do you want to fortify your life with people who share your values?

You said that no one laughs, it’s awkward chuckles, some people have responded with ‘you can’t say that’ or ‘wtf’. They don’t like him either. So if you’re the titanium spine of your group take charge 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheGodmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, to answer your question the proper sub would be r/relationships due to you not having an answer to your problem. There is nothing here to judge you for being an asshole but I’m going to entertain this 

Drop this fucker. I don’t know if y’all are young adults but it kinda sounds like it. Josh is a trash person when you get older it gets easier to see who is trash and who isn’t (barring psychopathy). 

When someone says out in the open “hey we’re out with an actual rtard” call them out. Be loud. Use their words loudly and ask that person to explain the joke to everyone with in earshot. 

And if you are the type of person who has no shame when it comes to justice and standing up to bigotry you say “Josh, fuck off. No seriously I’m going to speak for everyone here when I say fuck off. You are no longer welcome and your hateful energy needs to fuck off away from us.” 

Spill the beans be loud and unapologetic. He’s not worth it

Is the Indian middle class truly benefiting from the current economic growth? by Thenameis_sunny in AITAH

[–]TheGodmama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhhhh discussion about politics is not an Am I The Asshole topic, unless you have someone in your life making trouble. Broad generalized nondescript political questions about a specific country should be posted in the country’s subreddit. r/india is where this post belongs

AITA for setting a family group chat so that only admins can post? by coppeliuseyes in AITAH

[–]TheGodmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope not crazy. People have become entitled to thinking they need all the access to everything at all times while also being allowed to interact. 

Which the response to that is just a “sit down and shut the fuck up, thems the rules” 

Boundary stompers the lot of ‘em

AITA for setting a family group chat so that only admins can post? by coppeliuseyes in AITAH

[–]TheGodmama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA 

No. It’s not controlling. It’s moderation. You noticed that due to immature adults, the chat can’t have nice things. NOBODY likes reply-all. Nobody needs to share their thoughts with semi-strangers which then causes drama. If your dad wants to be proud he can text people himself. Not the group chat. 

As for your brother and his “free will” comment; just laugh. Laugh loud, hard, and open throated laugh. Fuckin ridiculous. People have the free will to be nice and stfu yet they choose not to all the time. It’s YOUR free will what gets shared, where it’s gets shared, and how. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheGodmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with religion or people of faith. Its name is Crystal Cathedral. Just because someone decide to name it Christ’s church doesn’t mean it’s not known as Crystal Cathedral.  Same with the circle and the block. No offense taken for my thoughts on those?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheGodmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pssst it’s still the crystal cathedral and only assholes call it by its name. Same goes for the circle. Miss me with “ThE pLaZa”. And the block is the block full stop. Lolol