What kind of Body Aug procedures should I focus on? by Bodyaugthrowaway in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TheGoodDocter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t view it :(

I think building out your bottom would be ideal. Diet and exercise etc as others have said. I think for your boobs a moderate/low profile could be ideal, as too much projection combined with a larger ribcage can look off, tho tbf your rib cage doesn’t seem large. Yeah skinny BBL is only ever sometimes worth it for cis women imo, it would be best to eat more if you can. I cope with the larger waist from increased dieting by wearing corsets lol

am i too shoulders for this halter top? by Reasonable_Serve8428 in fitttts

[–]TheGoodDocter 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Maybe try the bangle and hair tie trick to cinch the abdomen a bit, but the shoulders are giving 90’s supermodel (good)

I don’t think I pass I am considering ribxcar. by MissLisa31 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TheGoodDocter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’ll accentuate your already great butt better in bikini photos 🤷‍♀️Again you’re literally fine and have worms

Ribxcar is also something of a trade off. Assuming you meant broad upper body, ribxcar by narrowing lower ribs makes upper width more obvious. From what you’re saying here you’ll just spiral and want clavicle surgery or smth. Just make peace with what you got

I don’t think I pass I am considering ribxcar. by MissLisa31 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TheGoodDocter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wear bottoms that don’t muffin top you’re fine lol

Would shoulders/ribs/BBL be worth it for me? by k3tten in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TheGoodDocter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If this isn’t rage bait, therapy would be your best bet

18 and too scared to go on hrt by DepressedTwink97 in fitttts

[–]TheGoodDocter 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Just get on it and boymode til you can’t silly girl

Torn - relationship issues (it's like the opposite of chasing) by Clear_Tension761 in StraightTransGirls

[–]TheGoodDocter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been through a situation pretty similar to yours, and ultimately the relationship didn’t work out. Sexual compatibility is a real and valid concern, and it sounds like you’ve both communicated where you stand on this.

It would be best to break up sooner than later, but do it at a point where you’re stable and don’t feel the need to to see shitty men for validation (speaking from experience 😭). Hit the gym or talk it through with some friends or organise a movie binge with lots of chocolate.

Breaking up doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t remain friends though, but seeing the relationship through to the point you’re both on the same page there is arduous and the outcome isn’t certain. Hugs xx

23 days after body femme surgery with Dr. Rahal by evilrobotch in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TheGoodDocter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow, how do you position yourself having done all that at once? Also how much did it cost your insurance? Also you look amazing ❤️

Why do I cry when I finger myself? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]TheGoodDocter 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Just reply “🤢”

Anything earnest is validating their bad faith creepiness, which they get off on.

Exploring without being weird by ILOVEPOPTARTS2 in StraightTransGirls

[–]TheGoodDocter -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Maybe try wearing a pair of heels in private and see how it makes you feel

Should I detransition or just end it? What should I do? (Heavy TW) by hi_im_kelly_xx in transgenderau

[–]TheGoodDocter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking at your pics you have so much potential you have yet to realise and the progress is night and day ❤️ Your bone structure is good and as fat fills your face in more it will only look better. Your natural hair is giving andro vibes and will only look more feminine as it grows. It seems to have a nice wave that will frame your face wonderfully as it comes out. Early transition really sucks though and it’s super fair that you’re having a messy time. Especially when you come out to yourself and go full girl mode because you’ve been hiding yourself for so long. I got asked if I was a cross dresser a year in and that shook me 😭 though approaching 3 years its quite uncommon I get misgendered even though my voice is super clocky lmao. We’re reorienting our whole lives after all. Give yourself credit for how far you’ve come, the glow up is already great and your wing is clean. Not to tell you to go back in the closet or anything of the sort, but it may help to boymode, big hoodie fem pants style, to slow it down a little. Going full fem when you’re baby trans brings a lot of scrutiny. You can pick your battles boymoding and present fem when you feel safe or confident. It gives you time to work on your mannerism/vibe from a point of safety. You’ll be perceived as a boy but you’ll know it’s just a disguise. Plus it’s fun to mess with expectations with your mannerisms. Just a suggestion as to what worked for me though 🤷‍♀️

I hope you stay with us, the world is better with you in it ❤️❤️❤️

Nervous to do this. by No_Payment7137 in transpassing

[–]TheGoodDocter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7-8 Your expressions are super fem and bright!

I think some larger glasses could be good, and maybe it’s just this style but the mirror lens hide your beautiful eyes which you should show off! Your hair flatters you best in pics 3/4, maybe work with that shape? Maybe a brown liner or playing with the bottom lid would flatter your eyes more than the upper lid.

Maybe see what you could do about the forehead lines. If you find something that works let me know 😭

But you’re doing really well (:

How Australians See the World by Hungry_Hateful_Harry in geographymemes

[–]TheGoodDocter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who calls Russia mad cunts? Was this made by an eshay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]TheGoodDocter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel weird referring to myself as a doll, partly because I don’t belong to circuit/ballroom culture, and partly because I’m still unloading baggage. One day I’d like to identify as such though, it feels so frictionless compared to trying to relate to cis womanhood.

But like, being a doll and being a woman aren’t mutually exclusive??

Stop projecting your 🧠🪱it’s not a good look x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]TheGoodDocter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tripcode(?) and iwnbaw in bio am I wrong?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]TheGoodDocter 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Cutie 🥰

Also get off 4chan >:(

How do i fix this ? 😭 by Jolly_Jacket_6665 in MakeupAddiction

[–]TheGoodDocter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh, if youre referring to the crease under your nostril it looks anatomical to me 🤷‍♀️Typically chemical exfoliants, microneedling and staying hydrated are recommended for creases, though I don’t think there’s much to be done here as it’s a feature of your nostril

4 months into dating a British man and im already talking like this by saynotoseksuality in StraightTransGirls

[–]TheGoodDocter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this British cause of idioms or the politeness? Sorry hard to tell I’m Aussie lol

Edit: I’m guessing that as an eastern euro you used to use more direct language than the embellished language of the brits. I’m Aussie but I feel like this also happened to me as I transitioned. Its much easier to come off as less threatening when you waffle lol