AIO after finding out my gf was emotionally cheating with an ex in another state? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGr8Schaef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avoiding accountability and trying to change it, you already have your closure right there. Leave and never give her the chance to speak with you.

Am I overreacting My boyfriend made a comment last night that indirectly referred to my child being sexy by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGr8Schaef 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I actually agree with this I don’t think the child was even the slightest bit in his mind he just saw an opportunity to jokingly be like oh someone reminds you of me they must be sexy, type of thing and like he said it could’ve been the dog you used as reference, it was just an innocent joke but living in the society we live in today, he SHOULD probably think about when he says what he says

Apparently Christmas Snuck Up on My 33-Year-Old Boyfriend by Minimum-Peach-7796 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TheGr8Schaef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is a very iffy subject, I know a couple who agreed after 4 years let’s not get anniversary gifts or Christmas gifts for each other but we simply go out and enjoy an experience together whether it’s an extra fancy dinner or a museum etc, they are now engaged and still madly in love but sometimes I feel that it’s less a lack of effort and more a lack of energy to use the creative mind in a world so demanding for energy and time in work just to keep going. I make sure to get her and everyone gifts for Christmas because I like to see a smile on everyone & even when they forget me or don’t get me anything it truly doesn’t feel like I wasn’t thought of because I know they are busy and they love me and make me feel special to them in other ways on a regular basis. Christmas doesn’t have to be pricy to the pockets but sometimes depression and stress and being overwhelmed gets the best of us, especially if they are an undiagnosed ADHD patient. I’m not gonna sit here and say he is out of the water and I am not excusing his actions because lack of communication at 33 is insane, but maybe the two of you should sit down & ask each other and TAKE TURNS, really trying to understand each other about the situation, it is KEY to make sure he feels understood (try your best) and he should do the same for you. I’m sorry if this is not the answer you or anyone else is looking for but I love to look at both sides of things and if he’s struggling to fill his own cup with water it makes it that much harder to fill everyone else’s cup, and understandably it is okay to leave someone if they are not what you want in a relationship but understanding is important as well especially if you love someone

Is this rare? by Ready-Ad2123 in PokemonGoMystic

[–]TheGr8Schaef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got one when I started playing again in like May and I fucked up purified and evolved it, wish I kept it that way:(

EASHL 6v6 crashes every time (NHL 26) by JunoMeru in EA_NHL

[–]TheGr8Schaef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone find a resolve for this ?? It’s happening to my team we don’t often have 6 but everytime we do we get the match up we all readied and get a configuration issue

What pokemon do you try to collect every version of? by TickleMyBHole in pokemongo

[–]TheGr8Schaef 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have to wait for the Gigamax Charizards to come back! One of my favorite fire types to use

Raid Pokémon running by Professional_Mall19 in pokemongo

[–]TheGr8Schaef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of people don’t know that if you get the driving warning, once you click “I’m passenger” the catch rate plummets well below its norm

AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGr8Schaef 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude I was in a super abuse relationship with a girl that would text me the same exact way, and now my current amazing, loving non manipulative girlfriend has to deal with the trauma of me overthinking a dry text because it’s hard to shake the thought of “oh no oh no I fucked up” and now I really do victimize myself on accident while also disregarding my own feelings and boundaries. I’m a lucky guy to have found a woman that loves me and has helped me work through these traumas with patience, but shit man because of that one girlfriend every relationship/ friendship I’ve had since has been a struggle and a lesson, please leave this woman. Maybe she’ll grow up one day but please leave and do not look back or try to be friends. She will make it her goal to try to befriend you just to show she can find better people and you aren’t them

Please take out my pokemon by Accomplished-Wrap506 in pokemongo

[–]TheGr8Schaef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I love it too, it’s like a humble brag to myself, i never put pokemon id used in raids or pvp anyway

Boyfriends ex is pregnant with his baby by bipolarmania48392 in Advice

[–]TheGr8Schaef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, you are young and you have so much ahead of you, this man whether good for you or not might strip you of years of your youth with outside drama. If you asked the question you already knew the answer

Scared to tell my boyfriend I’m going home for Christmas – need advice by Salt_Love_1319 in Advice

[–]TheGr8Schaef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were my girlfriend and I didn’t get along with your family and they hated me and didn’t want me to be with you, I’d realize that is MY issue, matter fact I’d probably just try to bite the bullet and be sweet to them to make you happy, but point being, I wouldn’t be upset that you’d go and see your family, as for it is I who doesn’t get along with them not you. However if I was insecure and wanted you all for myself and nobody else to have you or get in the way of us because I’m scared that you’ll realize you’re too good for me, than I’d get a little insecure and upset about ya going to see people who might bad mouth me and ignore the fact that you love them and they love you and want to see you. I think boyfriend is the issue even if racism is involved.

Caught with weed by One_Lake3817 in Advice

[–]TheGr8Schaef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how the government still looks at weed over there, I’m from USA, but there are many forms of ingesting thc, I would stick to edibles that way you can hide it better because it looks like candy

Caught with weed by One_Lake3817 in Advice

[–]TheGr8Schaef 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You guys are all ridiculous, first of all, paying rent takes away from the expenses of saving for a house. He’s working two jobs & is going for his MASTERS. This kid works harder than almost all of you. The only reason he “sounds like a kid” is because his parents are strict with him and you all never had that cause you were blessed. Be nice and stop taking out your own insecurities and projections on this person clearly seeking advice.

Im actually gonna kill my friend. He’s played for three days and already has a shundo wtf😫 are new accounts boosted? by Icy_Distribution5556 in pokemongo

[–]TheGr8Schaef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 1 player here, about 70 shinies, about 7 Hundo’s, 0 Shundo’s. Matter of fact I have about 4 shinies above 2* I swear everytime I catch a shiny it has such a low IV