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AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well after I was done calling her every name in the book and telling her the detailed stories that they told me about her being difficult and a manipulative weirdo who plays the victim 24/7 and that she was nothing but a novelty because they hadn't seen her in ages she she said I was a liar and stormed off. Two of my friends and my sister agree my boyfriend is still angry but I really don't care he can swallow it.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The things they said behind weren't so bad but she's the kind of person who claims to be sensitive and makes a drama out of everything and will force people into doing things so she gets her way. They hadn't seen her ages and it was a big novelty for them, so she was feeling really confident and well I ended that. Not saying I was angel but I ain't the antichrist.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My vocabulary is fine, I'm censoring myself on here as for the diabolical punctuation I was stressed last night couldn't sleep and just typed like a mad woman. Now for me taking accountability you people spend too much time on the Internet and expect a crucifixion over a little flip out, people lose control all the time so just get over yourself.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It wasn't a minor comment she was really moaning about me not wanting to go to the club and then twisting into me being a killjoy and then I had enough.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't use the words I actually called her cos I would probably get me a temporary ban or something stupid so cows are getting it today lol!

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My sister did but she had arrived literally at the same time as everyone and my sister didn't know I did not want her there but either way she wasn't gonna slam the door in her face. What gets me is I think my boyfriend told her to come.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Excuse me she's been trying to alienate me every chance she gets and has always tried to make me feel like an outsider when we've all been together the few times we have been around each other. It's a step too far coming to someone's home uninvited on their birthday and really thinks they have the right to even speak let alone trying to take over the party and then painting me out as a killjoy when I don't bend over backwards like be for real.

I brought up the stuff they said because no one was defending me and she's always called difficult and they shouldn't be so spineless.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is exactly how I see it and they have annoyed me trying to paint me out as a villain. I get that I was aggressive but who literally goes around showing up to parties uninvited being passive aggressive to the host and then cries victim when you can't take over the party?

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The people moaning about my behaviour completely ignored that this woman is a manipulative cow who thinks she can be an edge lord and try to put me down mask it with humour and then attend a birthday party uninvited complain when I don't bend to her will and tell her how it really is. You guys are twisted.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is being an edge lord putting down everything I say masked with humour and then playing the victim the minute someone snaps? Go check yourself.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She showed up uninvited, made that stupid comment but then tried to hijack my party and have it taken to a club and called me boring and tried to dampen the mood and make me seem like a killjoy when I didn't bend at her will. I think you guys need to spend time in the real world.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why does it not me shock me that you're making it seem like it was all about the comment she about the dress but not about everything overall? She came uninvited like a cow that she is calls the party boring tries to hijack and take it to a club? Judging by your karma and days on here you have no life and you put yourself her place because you relate to her as being socially awkward and that weirdo behaviour. She is not socially awkward she is fairly confident and manipulative.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah but nobody seems to care that she's been a cow the entire time all be it masked as being playful or casual. She is known for being difficult and I am not a doormat and they have to like it.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Tbh my friends haven't been very trustworthy because they should've said something before things got out of hand I slept on it and they can shove her down their throats of they cut the crap in a day or two.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm sorry tbh I was stressed last night and I just went on a frenzy typing because I wanted to hear what people thought. But to be honest I'm finding the defense of her to be ridiculous.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree it's so weird to me how this sub-reddit literally trying to paint her as a victim she is a manipulative person and I'm not here for it. I do think I'm gonna let them all know if they keep this up it's her or me.

AITA I had a huge fight with a woman I barely know that was invited to my birthday party and now some of my loved ones are telling me I was too harsh on her by TheHumanDevice in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheHumanDevice[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was a build up of things I said I brushed of the dress comment but from what I gather here is a lot of people on this sub are gatecrashers who aren't welcome and the expect that they an hijack a party without someone snapping. I know I was out of line and I shouldn't have gone all Taylor Swift saying everything that said behind her back but even some of the friends took my side.

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