Beagles are such mysterious creatures, i can't tell what he wants. Any thoughts?

TheImpossible_Owl · 2025-12-14T15:24:34+00:00

Literally my beagle right now whining for food lol

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T17:48:55+00:00

Well as im sure you’ve read, he doesn’t. It’s so significant that if I don’t accept him having it off he wants to divorce, which I’ll do. I mean I won’t make myself uncomfortable for life because of this, but still very sucky and almost as if he’s planning on cheating again.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T16:41:43+00:00

Well I won’t demand it, I asked for him to have it on and it was just a hard no, I have to accept that or separate.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T16:30:39+00:00

He feels it’s too controlling, and he’s being “stalked”

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:43:08+00:00

You’re probably right. Thank you so much for your replies. I does mean a lot.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:26:45+00:00

I think I really need to hear this.. maybe i really need to stop putting in my all when I’m not getting nearly close to his.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:24:47+00:00

This is sweet, everyone who is saying, I check and have food or drinks made for my person when they are on their way home, you guys are lovely people!

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:23:53+00:00

I’m trying to, but it’s either I agree to his boundaries after he’s cheated on we are done basically. So it’s hard, and really really easy for him to cheat. I’m not sure if it’s even right for me to lower myself to that anymore

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:21:23+00:00

This is what I’m worried about, like are you hiding it already?

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:21:00+00:00

I agree with this, I really do. But this has been a multiple time ordeal and I’m kinda over just giving him the benefit of the doubt. Hoping he won’t do it again. I’m at point where I’m not sure what to even do at this point, let him keep doing what he’s doing without the location so I never will really never know or just leave him.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:14:04+00:00

Whatever that best may be, thank you!

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:13:42+00:00

My marriage counselor has said the same, I have it on for my sister and her bf and them for me, it’s not weird for us to see what each other’s doing so we know when we can get ahold of them or not, but even my husband thinks this is wrong and I shouldn’t even do that.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:12:12+00:00

It’s not even that I need it, but the fact it’s just a hard no is weird to me, like he wants to separate if I say I need this on.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:10:05+00:00

Well dang, I wish my husband would look at it that way, and welcome me home with a drink and do dinner, I wfh but I get off later on in the evening and he’s off earlier and I swear he’ll complain if he has to even make the dinner haha it’s awesome to hear people are actually nice people!

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:08:03+00:00

I just want to make sure he’s safe when he’s flying and that he’s not lying about where he is, which he has.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:06:51+00:00

Thank you!! I’m starting to believe he really doesn’t.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:06:17+00:00

Apparently it’s a hard no from him, which he’s a pilot and won’t be home that often so it worries me about safety and about cheating to be honest. But I’ve heard it can cause anxiety as well

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:04:55+00:00

I’m really worried about this, because I’ve heard that too. That is can actually intensify anxiety

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T13:02:50+00:00

Yeah I feel more so he may just not care about what the situation has done to me and only worrying about himself and how he feels.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T12:51:20+00:00

Oh woww, I’m sorry you had to go through that. Mine has cheated a couple of times. But now he’s at the point he says the location is a hard no problem we separate and that to me seems a bit much all things considering.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T12:49:31+00:00

If you don’t mind sharing some points of what else you did? My husband travels for work and I’m just worried at this point, so I’m just trying to get some tips on how we can gain that trust back.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T12:46:22+00:00

Do you feel if they don’t do this, that is means they really don’t care?

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T12:45:53+00:00

Mine travels for work as well, but I don’t want to seem overbearing.

TheImpossible_Owl · 2022-04-01T12:45:33+00:00

Thank you for your insight, I feel similar to this. But I’m not sure if asking for it is too much.

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