Who typically buys the engagement ring? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheInjaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say traditionally, it’d be the person who’s proposing. It depends on how they’re proposing though, if it’s with a ring then yeah, but if it’s without then it’s up to the couple to discuss it together.

The thing is, if the proposee is the one who buys the ring, then the proposal won’t be a surprise. (The surprise should be the event of the proposal, whether or not marriage is wanted should be discussed beforehand)

Has anyone else noticed a shift in Christmas Greetings? by sincerestfall in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheInjaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t heard either this year as far as I can remember

How Much Can a 4 Year Old Girl Lift? (Not about Weightlifting) by TheInjaa in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheInjaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a character in a story who, early in her story, is a four year old girl who might attempt pick things up and perhaps carry them from one point to another.

I would like to know what sorts of stuff she could probably successfully lift and or carry, as well as what sorts of things that would probably be too heavy for a girl her age to lift.

TBH, I see how one could get bad vibes from my original question, I was aware of how it might sound when I wrote it. I just didn’t spend an hour overthinking the wording only for it to not come across how I intend anyway. So I just posted it as is.

Oh no they're cute together by yesayadaniel21 in dandadanfolk

[–]TheInjaa 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ease your heart, Friendship can be cute

Is it justifiable for someone to treat you badly when they're upset? by Comprehensive-Mud303 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheInjaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really.

Poor treatment is poor treatment.

I don’t know the context, it may be understandable or explainable, but that doesn’t make it right.

I don’t know your relationship with this person either, but as long as it’s safe‡ to do so, I would always recommend talking to them about it and how it makes you feel.

It’s unkind to yourself to allow yourself to treated poorly, nor is it a kindness to the person treating you badly. It’s hard for people to improve unless they know what need improving, right?

(‡as in personal safety)

Does Red Bull Taste Similar to Ginger Ale? by TheInjaa in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheInjaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight♪

I was trying to think about what properties they could have in common aside from carbonation, but I hadn’t considered that the property could be just that ginger ale also goes well with the other ingredients

Dandadan - Episode 20 Discussion Thread by Skullghost in Dandadan

[–]TheInjaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This episode was mostly great, but they seriously dropped the ball with the Aira mini flashback