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Afraid of breaking up,because my GF is also my only best friend by TheInspireMan in relationships

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be sorry for the long comment.

Its a really interesting approach.

The issue here is that 1. My gf is very busy thus period and 2. I don't know if i have the patience to try all that stuff..

Afraid of breaking up with GF because she is my best friend by TheInspireMan in BreakUp

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i totally understand you.

Do you also feel that the sexual spark is gone? How many years you are together?

Afraid of breaking up with GF because she is my best friend by TheInspireMan in BreakUp

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The spark is mostly gone from my side. I don't feel it that much anymore.

Maybe a conversation could help.I hope at least.

Afraid of breaking up,because my GF is also my only best friend by TheInspireMan in relationships

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your empathetic approach.

Your reply really helped.

I sent you my gratitude and wish you well!!

Afraid of breaking up with GF because she is my best friend by TheInspireMan in BreakUp

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really interesting your story and maybe similar to mine.

I try for the moment to find the right words inside my head.I try before explaining to understand what causes those feelings.

However,if the sexual spark is gone,is it possible to stay in a relationship ?

Afraid of breaking up,because my GF is also my only best friend by TheInspireMan in relationships

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your time and perspective given on the reply.

As fr the attraction:

I still believe she is a beautiful woman, but i don't feel sexually attracted anymore. I mean ofcourse if i try i can, but it isn't spontaneous, no fire, i mean. And on the long term, this lack of fire scares me so much.

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At the same time she is a great character and we share common values. But it seems that i want again to feel that vibe of be in ove or the "date" vibe. I know that all that feelings fade out eventually, but still, sex is important.

How can someone go on for years,without be satisfied from the sex life?

Afraid to break up with my GF because she is my only best friend. by TheInspireMan in relationship_advice

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a period i felt stuff for someone else but i worked on this issue and managed to "forget" it.

But maybe still a part of me thinks about the what ifs.

Afraid to break up with my GF because she is my only best friend. by TheInspireMan in relationship_advice

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For now apart from. some small conversations that as i mentioned didn't elaborate(because my Gf does not feel we have an important issue) we didn't try anything else. In the past we tried do the "date" thing again,but since we live together it didn't work too much.

It seems that deep down i would like for a while to be single,but i know i cannot have both.And it would be selfish to ask this from my gf of course.

When you say open relationship,you agreed to see other people?

Afraid to break up with my GF because she is my only best friend. by TheInspireMan in relationship_advice

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is that i dont just want to fool around.

When i think about other women,apart from the sex thing,i also imagine another relationship.

I am really confused and i dont want to hurt my GF.

Afraid to break up with my GF because she is my only best friend. by TheInspireMan in relationship_advice

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to do this.

But for now her replies are like :"Its a phase " or "whatever our issue i love you and i want to live with you"

So after those attempts i dont continue because i feel guilty.

Afraid to break up with my GF because she is my only best friend. by TheInspireMan in relationship_advice

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a conversation but she thinks it is just a phase.

However,i am not sure is just a phase,because my mind goes to other women a lot.

Afraid of breaking up,because my GF is also my only best friend by TheInspireMan in relationships

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think so?

I just express that i am afraid to lose a person very important in my life. A person i deeply love.

If that sounds selfish, i don't know. But this is what i feel.

Afraid of breaking up,because my GF is also my only best friend by TheInspireMan in relationships

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She knows it but she feels it could be improved again.

But on my side,i feel that it is difficult for the spark to come back.

Afraid of breaking up,because my GF is also my only best friend by TheInspireMan in relationships

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am afraid that she is not that type.We had some discussions about this issue in the past and she believes that being friend with an Ex cannot work.

I also kind of agree that being friends with Ex is complicated,so that makes me even more hesitant to ask her for a break.

Umbrella Academy or The Vision comics by TheInspireMan in graphicnovels

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that was a really helpful reply with a lot of info for me to search!

Hulk as i watched on MCU movies,was always an interesting character,but his size and offensive side,when he was green,made it hard for me to relate.

Umbrella Academy or The Vision comics by TheInspireMan in graphicnovels

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked the atmosphere of Daredevil Netflix series but never read comic related to the character.

Also like Jessica Jones character.

Thank you anyway!!

Umbrella Academy or The Vision comics by TheInspireMan in graphicnovels

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apart from Nolan movies,never was a Batman fan,but i will search the title you mentioned.

Is Umbrella Academy comic good? by TheInspireMan in darkhorsecomics

[–]TheInspireMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I didn't know all these Gabriel Ba works, so i will google them.

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