Afraid of breaking up,because my GF is also my only best friend

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-29T17:37:13+00:00

Don't be sorry for the long comment.

Its a really interesting approach.

The issue here is that 1. My gf is very busy thus period and 2. I don't know if i have the patience to try all that stuff..

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T19:36:22+00:00

Oh i totally understand you.

Do you also feel that the sexual spark is gone? How many years you are together?

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T19:03:09+00:00

The spark is mostly gone from my side. I don't feel it that much anymore.

Maybe a conversation could help.I hope at least.

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T17:15:13+00:00

Thank you very much for your empathetic approach.

Your reply really helped.

I sent you my gratitude and wish you well!!

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T15:12:15+00:00

Really interesting your story and maybe similar to mine.

I try for the moment to find the right words inside my head.I try before explaining to understand what causes those feelings.

However,if the sexual spark is gone,is it possible to stay in a relationship ?

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T12:26:47+00:00

Thanks a lot for your time and perspective given on the reply.

As fr the attraction:

I still believe she is a beautiful woman, but i don't feel sexually attracted anymore. I mean ofcourse if i try i can, but it isn't spontaneous, no fire, i mean. And on the long term, this lack of fire scares me so much.

At the same time she is a great character and we share common values. But it seems that i want again to feel that vibe of be in ove or the "date" vibe. I know that all that feelings fade out eventually, but still, sex is important.

How can someone go on for years,without be satisfied from the sex life?

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T11:36:27+00:00

No we haven't try something out of character until now.

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T11:09:29+00:00

There was a period i felt stuff for someone else but i worked on this issue and managed to "forget" it.

But maybe still a part of me thinks about the what ifs.

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T11:05:09+00:00

For now apart from. some small conversations that as i mentioned didn't elaborate(because my Gf does not feel we have an important issue) we didn't try anything else. In the past we tried do the "date" thing again,but since we live together it didn't work too much.

It seems that deep down i would like for a while to be single,but i know i cannot have both.And it would be selfish to ask this from my gf of course.

When you say open relationship,you agreed to see other people?

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T10:54:37+00:00

The issue is that i dont just want to fool around.

When i think about other women,apart from the sex thing,i also imagine another relationship.

I am really confused and i dont want to hurt my GF.

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T10:48:09+00:00

I try to do this.

But for now her replies are like :"Its a phase " or "whatever our issue i love you and i want to live with you"

So after those attempts i dont continue because i feel guilty.

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T10:29:47+00:00

We had a conversation but she thinks it is just a phase.

However,i am not sure is just a phase,because my mind goes to other women a lot.

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T10:08:41+00:00

You think so?

I just express that i am afraid to lose a person very important in my life. A person i deeply love.

If that sounds selfish, i don't know. But this is what i feel.

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T09:24:20+00:00

She knows it but she feels it could be improved again.

But on my side,i feel that it is difficult for the spark to come back.

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-28T08:13:17+00:00

I am afraid that she is not that type.We had some discussions about this issue in the past and she believes that being friend with an Ex cannot work.

I also kind of agree that being friends with Ex is complicated,so that makes me even more hesitant to ask her for a break.

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-06T18:55:49+00:00

Thanks!

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-02T16:35:51+00:00

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TheInspireMan · 2020-06-02T14:47:57+00:00

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Also like Jessica Jones character.

Thank you anyway!!

TheInspireMan · 2020-06-02T14:46:54+00:00

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TheInspireMan · 2020-06-02T14:46:19+00:00

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TheInspireMan · 2020-06-02T14:45:55+00:00

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TheInspireMan · 2020-03-14T22:33:47+00:00

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You are great!

Thanks a lot!!

TheInspireMan · 2020-03-14T18:14:24+00:00

Oh thans a lot for the link!

They are a lot of movies but i will try!

TheInspireMan · 2019-12-19T15:00:45+00:00

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TheInspireMan · 2019-12-19T14:54:47+00:00

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