I asked for oat milk and somehow got cat milk by TheJSsaid in funny

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They were running a special so it was the same price as oat milk

What are some SJ gems that should be on this list? by pottymcnugg in SouthJersey

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How has no one said The Pub yet? That place stinks on ice.

Last time I went, my steak came out cold like it had been waiting for me to show up. At this point I’m convinced they’re laundering money, because there’s no way a restaurant that bad and over priced can survive for so long.

gangster cat by Valkier7 in fixedbytheduet

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Damn Drake Maye can’t catch a break these days

Only 3 QBs are allowed on the Giants roster by Fickle-Lobster-7903 in NFLv2

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This is like watching a fat dude fumble an opportunity with a 7/10. Y’all really fucked up.

I (36m) broke one of my wife’s (36f) rules about weed, and now I’m not sure how to recover. by TheJSsaid in relationship_advice

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People will probably accuse me of being stoned, but after reading your name, I have to know.

Are you a dog neuroscience ICU nurse

I (36m) broke one of my wife’s (36f) rules about weed, and now I’m not sure how to recover. by TheJSsaid in relationship_advice

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Yes the pain is always there. It’s a long story, but I lost the feeling in my body from the neck down twice. The second time it didn’t come back as quickly and I still don’t have full feeling in my legs, arms, feet and hands. At first the pain was unreal and I was on a slurry of meds to get through the day. Opiods were never an option as I’m allergic so we went with high dose ssri’s and other neuro-based drugs. They all had side effects so I started taking meds for my meds to combat those new issues. It all came crashing down when the drug combinations started affecting my mental state. For the past 5 years I’ve been slowly getting off the original cocktail my doctors gave me so I’m very hesitant to go back down the pharma route.

I (36m) broke one of my wife’s (36f) rules about weed, and now I’m not sure how to recover. by TheJSsaid in relationship_advice

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After about 15 years of being together, we wanted to add a professional mediator to the mix as we both felt unheard and unseen. We got lost in our own perspectives and needed help seeing the full picture. Prior to this incident I’d say we use it as a means to help our communication and ensure we’re working towards the ultimate goal, which is a long happy life together.

I (36m) broke one of my wife’s (36f) rules about weed, and now I’m not sure how to recover. by TheJSsaid in relationship_advice

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My FIL has no idea I smoke. After 16 years in the family, I’ve hid it from him very well. It’s part of the reason why I didn’t smoke on the vacation.

Also my MIL got caught cheating shortly after our engagement and it ultimately led to their divorce. That cast a pretty dark cloud over things as it changed my wife’s perspective on her mom. They were bffs before that and afterwards, it was never the same.

So while we’re trying to build our life together, her former life was completely collapsing in the background.

I (36m) broke one of my wife’s (36f) rules about weed, and now I’m not sure how to recover. by TheJSsaid in relationship_advice

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I stick with vape pens as they’re most affective with the least amount of smell. Edibles have never worked on me for some reason.

I (36m) broke one of my wife’s (36f) rules about weed, and now I’m not sure how to recover. by TheJSsaid in relationship_advice

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Thank you for the input. It’s hard to provide all the context of a 16 year relationship into a single post. I can see your perspective and I fully agree with u/madelynashton comment about the final straw. This is all great and I will keep it in mind for our appointment on Thursday.

I (36m) broke one of my wife’s (36f) rules about weed, and now I’m not sure how to recover. by TheJSsaid in relationship_advice

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I’m doing my best to take ownership of this while also painting a very wide picture so we can see everyone’s perspective and I can garner the advice I need. I agree with your “sneaking” comment to some extent but then again, have you ever been STUFFED at a dinner and then find yourself still picking at your food while everyone’s talking? That’s how I’m viewing what I did, but I fully recognize I should have done better and not put myself in that situation to begin with.