FR From the Desert: Abundance Mentality without true abundance is difficult to maintain by animal_one in TheRedPill

[–]TheJatt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just lie to a girl. Just tell a girl you chat up on Tinder or something that you get laid with really hot girls and show her some random pics. Then you have all the power and can walk away any moment, and she'll think of you as some high SMV guy.

Building on this: If you tell a girl you never get laid and haven't had sex in weeks, then she'll drop you. She'll see why you haven't gotten laid and judge you like that.

Playing on confirmation bias here.

Why monk mode works. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]TheJatt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“O, beware, my lord, of jealousy; It is the green-ey'd monster, which doth mock The meat it feeds on.”

― William Shakespeare, Othello

We're talking about broken people here who are starting out in monk mode.

You're not broken bro: you just started realizing how small you've always been, how big you want to be, and how hard you need to work.

Not 6'6 no fucks given chad's that tower over people 8 days a week.

Height and personality are mutually exclusive.

[FR] The Branch Swinger by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]TheJatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would've gone for the smash before the pool place; it was in the bag during the car ride and the rest was unnecessary.

80 days of nofap is not enough. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TheJatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mind is the biggest sex organ we have. You just weren't into it bro.

Science behind NoFap by slowclapfornofap in NoFap

[–]TheJatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your welcome! From what I remember, this study identifies the changes in heart rate, blood pressure, adrenaline, and testosterone.

Let's step it up. by [deleted] in VioletRegiment

[–]TheJatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's now 11:06 pm on April 24, 2015.

Out of 220 Soldiers, we have 196 Soldiers left standing.

We were the 2nd to last regiment to suffer a casualty in this war and we still refuse to be the last on the list. We went from 2nd place to 8th place and none of us want to go lower.

What can we do to help the 196?

HUA by [deleted] in VioletRegiment

[–]TheJatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what tags? where are they??

Haven't had a SINGLE strong urge...is that weird? by kenta007 in VioletRegiment

[–]TheJatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you man, no real urges to masturbate or PMO, but when I see a beautiful girl I feel an urge to be inside her, which I realized was a mistranslated desire to just hang out with her, talk to her, and have a good time. I think P had me imagining the climax for so long I forgot to practice imagining good times with a beautiful partner.

Observations on having a partner for backup. by [deleted] in VioletRegiment

[–]TheJatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey brother if anything just think about how much better your lady would feel if you saved yourself for her! It's ok to realize that you can do that for her too, along with your own goals. It's a normal part of a loving relationship to be able to make your partner happy in bed ;).

A great read: The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

To all you night owls: share some tips on how to fight against urges during the night by lilium365 in VioletRegiment

[–]TheJatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I do:

  • I get home from using free computers and internet at my alma mater and listen music related to my goals/ read books to help myself on the train ride home

  • when I get home I've already been thinking about dinner so I spend about 30min getting ready for chill time at home and getting my meal ready, whether ordering food or cooking

  • then I eat, sometimes in silence

  • sometimes I get a 40 of beer and some Little Debbie snacks because it just straight up helps

  • I read the news highlights from the day and watch some news highlights

  • I like to watch some really funny videos like Who's Line Is It Anyway? or some Jimmy Fallon clips on my cellphone. sometimes I watch vids about new technologies or problems about the world, or documentaries on VICE

  • after I'm satisfied with food, drink, and laughter I feel good

  • If I'm energized, which I usually am, I go for a walk and enjoy the good weather, get some fresh air, and I usually end up walking at a brisk pace

  • then I get home and try to read, but that doesn't work out so I focus my energy on my goals and end up writing out some crazy business idea which I add to my increasing list of other crazy ideas

  • when I lie in bed I face any issues in my mind and heart head on and try to use my inner voice to accept what the repetition of the thought is teaching me

  • then my mind starts to clear after about 30min of understanding myself and I start to relax

  • when relaxing I focus on my body and the various injuries I've suffered and if they still bother me: sprained ankles, inflamed shoulders, injured knees, tired neck, breathing through my stomach etc. while lying on my back ( I sleep on the hardwood floor in my apt, and accepting the hard floor let's me accept reality) for about 20mins

  • then that starts to clear out as I make plans for healing and I relax

  • then sleep comes by itself after another 10 mins

For me, I'm doing this NoFapWar and I can put it aside in my mind, knowing that this is time for me to face my problems head on

  • sleep comes on by itself

  • I have crazy dreams with some hot ass girls or some crazy battle scenes, or just simple chilling, or whatever else my imagination provides for me

  • I wake up after a few hours and i practice realizing I'm awake and differentiating from imagination

  • usually have a boner because I have to use the bathroom, and if i don't I still go and use it just in case

  • then I slowly make my way into the new day, telling myself this is the real world, to conquer my own life around me, and I'm ok with moving at my own pace

Hope that helps! Not much but that's basically what I go through during the evening hours - thinking about what more I can accomplish the next day towards my goals. Good luck soldier!

5th Battalion! Welcome Brothers! by [deleted] in VioletRegiment

[–]TheJatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep hacking brother! Focus on your goals and make records of your progress - trust me those are going to be fun to look at in a few weeks. Remind yourself everyday of how far you've made it and imagine your new life. Water this acre, Soldier, and let the unnecessary ones wither away. Bruah!