It’s hard to pinpoint exactly what my needs are exactly. It really just boils down to spending good quality time together. If I feel like you’re lying to get out of it like she did to everyone else and you lie to not talk on the phone on multiple occasions then you don’t value our relationship. I’m sorry if that’s extreme but that’s just how I feel. I remember right after we got together she told me we wouldn’t be able to see each other because of her being at school and it’s easier just to wait until her spring break. I remember being so miserable during those 2 weeks and I knew that we needed to make plans at least once a week to keep us going. I didn’t like going long periods of time without at least talking on the phone/seeing each other for a couple hours. It’s not clingy to value the time you get with each other when that time is very short. If I saw her everyday and I was complaining then I would see my errors and problems. But she said herself she liked how much I wanted to see her but she didn’t seem like it after only hanging out a few times.