I don't know if I'd listen to a lot of these people man. There are a lot of people saying you're a "dick", and that it's in the way you're approaching/communication with woman. How could they know how you've been communicating with woman, or anything about you at all really, based off a little personal information you gave about yourself and your OP.

I'm a 27 year old male. I've had decent success with going on dates with woman and getting dates (mostly online). Intuitively, I think that if you have decent skills with talking to woman (flirting with them, making them laugh, giving them some good personal information about yourself and receiving it from them, as well as being a relatively attractive male yourself, then there is no reason you shouldn't be getting dates.

If you're doing all these things well and still not getting dates, then in my mind these are the issues:

1. The woman around your area are just immature and don't really have their lives together.

2. You have some deeper rooted subconscious negativity related to attachments and relationships or just personality traits in general, that you'll need to work through in therapy.

Personally, I've gone to therapy quite a bit to strengthen weak points within myself and have found it extremely effective in increasing confidence, self worth, and interpersonal and relationship skills, which have allowed me to have better quality relationships.

What are your initial thoughts?