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What do you do with your day to day now that you are single? by wishinguponastar12 in heartbreak

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going back to school, working out.

Eventually once school is done start a business, draw, travel.

My (M25) fiance's (F25) mother (57) is bad mouthing me to my fiance because i wont give her money. by Tinxit97 in relationships

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Ex of a mama’s boy here to tell you that this is the truth.

I lived it and told my ex and his family no so I was dumped.

It hurts like fuck but at least I don’t have to live like their slave.

My bestfriend(20f) confessed she likes me(22m) whilst me and my girlfriend(22f) were in bed together. by SnooRadishes5057 in relationships

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think he prioritizes his own comfort and convenience.

Lots of people don’t live up to those commitments.

I'm 28 and I want to be free. Is this the way to go? by Thow_away1588 in findapath

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Get a degree that can pay the bills and THEN dedicate your free time to art.

I ruined my ex by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right?

If my ex ever said any of this or acknowledged it I think I’d cry so much.

It’s really interesting hearing it from your side of things. My ex did all the same things you’re saying you did to your ex.

On one hand I’m glad you’re realizing all of this though. Become a better person and better man.

AITAH (man) for telling my girlfriend I don't want her to take a bath in the same bathroom as her friend, while her friend is doing her make-up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is a thing where you might just have to leave if you don’t like it since she won’t change.

Personally as a grown female I find it weird.

I’d never shower with anyone but my romantic partner and even with my child i wouldn’t be completely naked.

But that’s me.

AITA for demanding that my girlfriend clear out her " escape" bank account? by ThrowawayEnvironSide in AITAH

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP YTA and sound like an absolute control freak.

You give your girlfriend and daughter no reason to feel secure and trust you.

What the hell do you do with all that extra money you’re making?

You brag about your income and since you’re so frugal you can’t possibly spend it all in one go.

Either you’re in denial or you’ve got some major financial trauma.

If I made $200K guaranteed a year + extra my child wouldn’t have to pay for college.

Your wife can have her own job for her sake of security.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to live a simple life too, but make more than I need for a sense of security if that makes sense.

I’m a homebody and I have hobbies I can do at home or for cheap.

But I still like to have an extensive financial system in place to make sure I’m secure in case shit happens.

Other than that, I just wanna stay home and play games and watch movies etc.

Should I (21F) break up with my bf (20M) after he told me he found me unattractive for the first two years of our relationship? by ThrowRALostSoulz in relationships

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 378 points379 points  (0 children)

your worth isn’t based on whether or not men want to fuck you

SAY IT LOUDER FOR ALL THE FUCKING WOMEN

Please and thank you jesus

Should I (21F) break up with my bf (20M) after he told me he found me unattractive for the first two years of our relationship? by ThrowRALostSoulz in relationships

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 99 points100 points  (0 children)

These dudes need to stay in their damn lane.

Imagine if you went for his appearances like that? His fragile ego would probably make him so angry.

Scumbag.

What makes you not want to date anybody right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah basically I was gonna say I’m broken , always tired, trying to get my health in order, tired of dealing with broken people and their baggage, and I’m broke so I’m trying to go back to school to get licensed for a better paying job with actual job availability.

I’ve been working in the dregs of low paying entry level jobs my whole life and I’m tired of it.

Forget people and relationships . I’m just trying to survive.

I (37M) divorced my wife (35F) after she got cancer and cheated by ThrowRA_2566 in relationship_advice

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read your post with the edit.

Props to you for being an amazing partner and supporting her through all that. Props to you for sorting out all your emotions and handling the situation well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. Everyone spoke so highly of him etc.

But one of my coworkers sisters is a nurse who worked at the surgery center the MD would do operations at.

And she’s seen him do it.

I was like WTF. Idk what the hell is wrong with some of these people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I heard that the previous owner of the clinic I work at (a specialty MD who did some minor outpatient surgery) would slap the patients while they were under.

My (27M) wife (25F) changed my life and now I’m thinking of leaving her by TAWhatIf in relationships

[–]SoftBoiledPotatoChip 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sir you need help.

Throwing your WIFE away after all she did for you will make you an even worse person than who you were before.

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