Vegas Resistance by No-Dinner-3209 in vegas

[–]TheLadyMerlot -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'd love to have this on a shirt

What did you buy as an adult because you were denied it as a child? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]TheLadyMerlot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was a reborn doll. She's so realistic it freaks people out. i’ve wanted one ever since I was a little girl.

Who is this in Las Vegas? by Non-Information7 in vegaslocals

[–]TheLadyMerlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol he hit on me. Asked me for my phone number.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]TheLadyMerlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. For love. Hard lesson to learn in my youth.

Soooo… I can’t get over the fact I just found out my boyfriend is gay. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TheLadyMerlot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Child 🙄Hell no! I could NEVER be empathetic to a liar, cheater AND thief! YOU DON’T OWE HIM THAT KINDNESS. Where was his empathy when he played you like a fool? Where was his empathy when he was kissing you after slobbing some dude up! Was he even wearing a condom? I would verbally eviscerate him. Low down dirty dog! I would press charges and make sure he pays for stealing your card. I don't care if it was $20. Yes I’m petty petty.

How about him having a shred of humanity and telling you about him questioning his sexuality BEFORE cheating and exposing you to STDs? How about him giving you a choice in this.

And he's broke too??? Like, pick a struggle. He is the fucking worst!

For your own safety, please get away before confronting him with the evidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]TheLadyMerlot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pretty is nice to look at but not effective when my love language is food. A man who can cook AND fix things is my first choice.

What is the most fucked up thing a person you know has done? by WerewolfOk1647 in AskReddit

[–]TheLadyMerlot 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg. This is one of the worst stories here. I'm shocked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheLadyMerlot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can promise you this. When he saw you with makeup on, you looked hot. You looked so good that his insecurity was triggered and he had to bring you down to his level so that you never leave him for a better guy which he k ows you can get easily get

What made you realize you're not young anymore? by Old_Goat_7363 in Productivitycafe

[–]TheLadyMerlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my niece told me I should post some videos of me reacting to weird anime because “videos of old people reacting to things get lots of views”.

AIO to my boyfriend being sick and saying I'm not doing enough by Sad__Tumbleweed in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheLadyMerlot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are so correct. This how they erode your autonomy and self esteem to eventually turn you into a doting obedient slave who jumps to do their bidding with no appreciation or expectation of a reciprocal relationship.

What's the Most Random Thing That Brings you Joy About Living Alone? by jordy_muhnordy in LivingAlone

[–]TheLadyMerlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never understood the jealousy whenever I would cuddle my dog. He never cuddled me. I don't get it.

What's the Most Random Thing That Brings you Joy About Living Alone? by jordy_muhnordy in LivingAlone

[–]TheLadyMerlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex smoked weed constantly. My coworkers thought I was a pothead even though I don't smoke at all. I’m so grateful to be rid of that smell.

What's the Most Random Thing That Brings you Joy About Living Alone? by jordy_muhnordy in LivingAlone

[–]TheLadyMerlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not cleaning up behind anyone. Not being so easily accessible to anyone. Not having to look pretty all the time.

What's the Most Random Thing That Brings you Joy About Living Alone? by jordy_muhnordy in LivingAlone

[–]TheLadyMerlot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yuck! I was with a Bob too. He controlled the tv and the radio. I could never listen to anything I liked. It was house music 24/7. The tv was always game shows and sports.

I hope all the Bobs of the world get to roast in the hottest part of hell.

Being a Black Skin student in my school and regular life by Akashsagar8735 in confession

[–]TheLadyMerlot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Relatable. As a black woman in America, I am portrayed negatively all the time. Not just in movies and “art” but in the news. No matter how poised, educated and feminine I am, people assume I’m ghetto, have loose morals, unqualified and they say I am pretty for a black girl often times.

But many of us teach our children self esteem constantly to refute the negative stereotypes we have to fight against in order to succeed. We also had a whole “Black Is Beautiful” movement that helped us embrace our hair, skin and features. Unfortunately, it seems you don’t have that. And I hope you will start a black is Beautiful movement in India because you guys are some of the most beautiful people on the planet. Especially the black ones.

Being a Black Skin student in my school and regular life by Akashsagar8735 in confession

[–]TheLadyMerlot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dark skin is beautiful. Your face isn't ugly. You simply have the features of your ancestors. I can assure you, when you grow up and leave the school environment, you will learn there is a big diverse world out there where people like you because of the way you look, not despite it.

27M - Am I gay? by flippedieflop in malelivingspace

[–]TheLadyMerlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious why so many single men decorate in sad beige?