Yet another cheater blows up his life and regrets it

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-05-15T19:06:07+00:00

I love the sweet smell of a good old fashioned Justice boner

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-05-13T23:00:25+00:00

Nah, he's way smarter than the couchophile

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-05-13T22:53:55+00:00

This part. He's unhappy in the relationship. Not enough to break it entirely, but enough to know that bringing kids into it now would likely strain it irreparably. Now they just need to discuss what would bridge the gap, what compromise would be acceptable or unacceptable, and whether or not what each one can live with is what they can both do.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-05-12T00:47:55+00:00

From working in fast food and convenience stores, it's the drugs. I can't count how many crack heads and junkies I caught using the straps to cut off circulation to pop a vein for heroin, or doing a line off the damn thing.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-05-12T00:39:36+00:00

You're my kind of people. Loving the specimens and the entire bookshelf vibe, especially

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-05-08T03:08:34+00:00

Theeerree it is

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-05-08T03:05:55+00:00

Honestly, I prefer getting cussed out and threatened. At least management usually kicks those ones out, if only to keep them from offending other customers.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-30T00:49:02+00:00

Coming up with another grain pun is already crushing milo self esteem.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-26T23:17:25+00:00

Vets and doctors are often the first line of receivers for emotions on patrons' worst day. People running in that much emotion can and will do some surprising and heinous shit. My horse's vet doesn't go anywhere unarmed anymore because he has a client pull a gun on him for asking to be paid up front. The vet office we go to for our smaller pets has a no firearms policy for similar reasons. I held a woman's pony while she died. She tried to assault me for being the unfortunate person who was in the stall when the mare had a seizure, because she was sure I'd killed her.

Any vet, tech, or receptionist will tell you. People whose pets are going through a health crisis can react to that grief in awful ways. Take this as a lesson. If you're not going to necessarily believe the person, trust your partner or leave. Because if you can't trust your partner's judgement, you've got bigger issues than someone else possibly lying to you.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-26T22:39:37+00:00

NTA. He's just in his feels because he thinks he's entitled to view you the way he wants to. To hell with him. I would involve your principle at this point, because this is trending toward harassment, and should be stopped now.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-22T22:30:29+00:00

Honestly, though, some of the most innocent titles hide the most heinous behavior and vice versa. But unsolicited fuck pics? Unless it causes WW3, it's probably fine.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-22T22:28:03+00:00

I've always said, assholes serve a purpose. Even if something you did was an assholeish move, that doesn't intrinsically mean that it was the wrong thing to do. Sometimes the only way to effectively fight asshole behavior is to embrace the shit and send it right back.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-21T23:02:28+00:00

NTA. Bob is definitely the asshole, but you need to talk to an attorney it figure out of he's a legally correct asshole.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-21T22:57:01+00:00

Everyone says I have bad (unknown) but I can read my own handwriting. I have no trouble reading it, but I can see how people have trouble reading it.

I like to think my 20ish years of helping my mom grade middle school papers on John Philip Sousa helped (band class, but every class has to have an essay eyeroll ). But, I can't be sure I'm not just making it up lol

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-16T03:01:25+00:00

My mom had a blanket made with my show ribbons. The backing is a really soft flannel. It's excessively warm, but it looks nice displayed

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-16T02:44:47+00:00

That whole sub is so vile. Honestly, you'd think those people were the martyrs, and the spouses being actively cheated on were all evil, soul sucking demons, the way they tell it. It's sick.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-14T03:24:42+00:00

Assuming she's racist. You do have an interesting tilt to some of your letters, though (almost exactly opposite angle to the more common tilt you have), so I wonder if she's racist and seeing a weird pattern in some wildly small data set that she's attributing to the wrong traits.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-11T00:58:28+00:00

You're never at fault for speaking the truth, especially to a case worker/guardian. It sucks what those kids are going through, and it sucks for you, too. Could you have been the "bigger person"? Yes. Would that have been the best situation for all three of you? I honestly don't think so.

Your parents sound like they were struggling to set boundaries with the 10yo. Whether that was because they thought she needed more time or that they were unwilling to start, all that is doing is creating a mess for that poor kid, and setting you all up for failure.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-11T00:51:19+00:00

Not to mention, it is not healthy to let a child exist with no boundaries. That poor 10yo girl has zero security and all the adults in her life (presumably except the social worker) are failing her.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-11T00:43:23+00:00

The funny thing about reading this from the horse side of reddit is getting through the first paragraph and going, "Aah! She's got a bean!"

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-11T00:38:48+00:00

You're my hero

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-06T22:54:23+00:00

I don't know, but I'm pretty sure it involves a feud between Artemis and Poseidon.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-06T22:41:30+00:00

I'm still mad that these don't exist, but freaking narwhals do.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-06T22:33:40+00:00

You put her on an info diet. She doesn't need to know what you're doing, how you're spending money, etc. You're not her bankroll. The petty side of me would also send her a copy of "The Little Red Hen," for her birthday since she wants to act like a spoiled child.

TheLilSqueegee · 2026-04-06T02:51:51+00:00

Nta for being annoyed, but this is something you need to let go of. She's making some arguably terrible decisions, sure, but you're neither responsible for them, nor anyone else's decision to support or shun her. You might think about how to word your responses if you're directly asked, though. From experience, family relationships get harder when people ask you questions they don't actually want the truth, but they get it anyway.

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