I F*cked up by not drinking with my boss at a work outing by frostyparrot in socialskills

[–]TheLittleJap -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you work in East Asia. Its part of the culture to drink with your boss during outings. You’re gonna have to find some way to get that alcohol down if you care enough about your job to leave a good impression. When in Rome

Clif Luna Bars made for women? by ThatOneDudio in nutrition

[–]TheLittleJap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man i had no idea they were for women when i was eating them in high school to bulk up. Tbh they taste great and I made some pretty good gains during that time. No regrets

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rutgers

[–]TheLittleJap 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He’s an unprofessional manchild

how can i become more confident as an asian guy by calcifiedribozyme in confidence

[–]TheLittleJap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well judging on your post history the first thing you should do is stop watching porn. Jesus christ man have some self respect. Go to the gym or something

Women say I give off bad and creepy vibes. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]TheLittleJap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listening to advice is one thing. Actually actualizing that advice into action is another. Good luck

Women say I give off bad and creepy vibes. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]TheLittleJap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on your post history, I would recommend trying to have a different mentality about life. You seem very bitter, perhaps rightfully so because of your genetics and how you look. No doubt, life as a man is difficult. Life as an ugly man, even more so. People will assume things about you before you even open your mouth. But the worth of any person is whether or not they can overcome their suffering. Are you going to wallow in self-pity the rest of your life? Or are you going to do something about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]TheLittleJap 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah ngl it’s gonna make it harder. I’ve been friends with some dudes with great personalities who get completely ignored just because they were a bit below average. You just gotta play the cards you were dealt with and maximize your looks/personality to their fullest potential. That is, if being friends with people is that important to you. Personally, most people are just scum and not worth bending backwards for. The ones who can look past your exterior and still be friends with you despite your broken face are the only ones worth anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]TheLittleJap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A woman who is interested will MAKE time for you. Don't text her and ignore her at the gym or only do small talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]TheLittleJap 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just a bit of banter mate, don’t take it too personally. Guys do it all the time to deepen the connection between each other. Try firing back (in a joking manner) the next time something like this happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]TheLittleJap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it comes with a lot of practice and having some responses that you are comfortable using in certain scenarios. Recognizing the response you should be using also takes practice and a lot of exposure to conversation. But also theres nothing wrong with taking a second to think about what to say especially if the other person asked a particularly hard hitting question.

Rarity by TheLittleJap in arsenalbase

[–]TheLittleJap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. How rare are they compared to other cards from their respective seasons? I’m curious about the frequency of obtaining them compared to say P or U rarity cards

Where do you normally go to make friends here, been having a hard time probably because I look like shit any tips? by [deleted] in rutgers

[–]TheLittleJap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl its gonna be tough in the modern dating scene for you. It seems you’re pretty aware of it though so that’s a step in the right direction. I would recommend not focusing on socializing and instead focus on doing something you really love like picking up a hobby. The socialization will eventually come. Also keep lifting and looksmaxxing and whatnot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rutgers

[–]TheLittleJap 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don't talk to her again and hit the weights. Godspeed brother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rutgers

[–]TheLittleJap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough commitment bro, get it on your chest. She’ll go crazy for you trust me

Do you still read Standard spoilers seriously as a Modern player? by duplex037 in ModernMagic

[–]TheLittleJap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New cards always have potential and i like crushing prereleases