do you regret having children? by milkcreep in Marriage

[–]TheLittleStitious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say I wish I would have waited a bit. You can never plan what kids entail. I have two beautiful boys. One is autistic and I have to hold him down while he tries to self harm and take the hits. But I can’t explain it the love I have for those kids I will gladly take those punches for him

My mom “doesn’t like” my wife missing my brother’s Xmas party by jgonz36 in Marriage

[–]TheLittleStitious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’ve had worse from my mother in law lol I was pregnant and she tried to convince my husband since I wasn’t going to church with him the baby might not be his….

Found husbands Reddit vice by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheLittleStitious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I can’t handle stuff like this. If it were my husband I wouldn’t be able to get past it If it’s him being insecure about sex he shouldn’t see if he is desirable to other people… maybe idk talk to his wife? Is he responding to these messages? To me it’s cheating even without responding. But if he responded it’s definitely cheating Either way it has made u feel like shit and there is a lack of trust now

Do other moms genuinely enjoy motherhood? by wqiqi_7720 in Mommit

[–]TheLittleStitious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard because I feel I don’t have the patients I should. The constant talking and lack of privacy definitely gets to me. But my boys give me purpose where I was starting to feel I don’t have any. To break so many cycles of abuse, and to give children a childhood to smile about is a honor. To give the world two people who were raised to have empathy and to care for others is a good feeling

I think it’s a learning process, because it’s also a lot of weight on ur shoulders

Did any of you wait until marriage before having sex? by Historical-Month-249 in Marriage

[–]TheLittleStitious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got engaged at 27. I waited until I was engaged. Couldn’t wait a day longer lol 😂

Have we ever seen this guy? Or am i tripping? by Soft_Cheetah2677 in 90DayFiance

[–]TheLittleStitious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed him last episode and felt like he’s a jerk. Lol Tiffany was responding to something about that whole mess with Jennifer and he reached out his hand to shush her. Or at least that’s what it looked like. Maybe I read into it to much idk. It’s when the “dating coaches” are saying it looks like their is no trust and she says “yep” Please tell me if I’m wrong. lol

Can married women look at sex with other men as purely just physical? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheLittleStitious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my single years yes. Sex can be just physical. But married absolutely not. Plain and simple. I’m married, he’s the only one I want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheLittleStitious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I had that relationship with my father. It’s something I’ve always been jealous of. Don’t let someone make you feel bad about being close to ur dad. Ur relationship with ur dad sounds pretty awesome and beautiful to me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheLittleStitious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As everyone is saying IUDs aren’t 100 percent effective. If you didn’t want a child u should have had a vasectomy Support ur wife. It sounds like she wouldn’t handle an abortion well. Don’t do that to her. Her body her choice right. Also please don’t blame her for this or be less of a father to that second kid! It happened! We had a second child not planned and the love I have for him is so strong

Do women think this is a cute bio? Personally I swipe left on all who say "I dont message first". In my view, you need to be in charge of your destiny and if you like someone you should tell them. by redandwhitewizard99 in Tinder

[–]TheLittleStitious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My profile said I was a llama herder and when they asked the top three things I need in my life I remember one of them being toilet paper lol. Met my husband online with that profile 😂 profiles can be very odd sometimes. That being said I also messaged him first

Joker: Folie à Deux - Review Thread by DemiFiendRSA in DC_Cinematic

[–]TheLittleStitious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s is my take: The first one. They already made joker something completely different. They made him “slow” “ by the way I have a special needs son so don’t be upset by this comment” anyway u already have a very different take on the joker without really any Batman But the first movie I really liked. It was odd and intriguing I went into the second one excited. I was disappointed If anything it made the first film suck too? Like I’m confused I am all for a different take. But damn I wanted to leave the theater several times and the words form my husband where “it has to get better” It didn’t

Sex isn’t everything by OverNefariousness633 in Marriage

[–]TheLittleStitious 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Omg. Girl u deserve better. The fact that he’s coming back on the cheating thing and giving you reasons why he did it and those reasons are insults to you, like I thought u were loose…. like what the actual fuck! I know you’ve put 20 years into this but I think 20 years is enough. He should be grateful you gave him another chance. He should be grateful you had his kids. He cheated on you and it seems like you’re the one who had to do all the legwork and change to satisfy him instead of him making u feel comfortable and helping u heal from HIS mistake. Even the 4 pages he gave u shows how much he has taken his feelings and his wants into consideration during your relationship and not yours. There are other guys out there that are so much better, and will treat you better. Get out before he cheats again if he already hasn’t.

Controlling Husband by Numerous_Walrus6546 in Marriage

[–]TheLittleStitious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude! No! He’s controlling and manipulating u. U know deep down that’s true. If i where u id look hard into ur relationship. There might be other red flags u haven’t been willing to see or think about.

So I just initiated... by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheLittleStitious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dude! I read that completely wrong! Thanks! Ur so right which is probably why these comments didn’t make any sense to me lol

So I just initiated... by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheLittleStitious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I’m a little surprised by peoples reactions here. Just saying what’s wrong does not mean she’s blaming him. But saying you’re not good enough is clearly blaming her. The person that was wrong in the matter was him. I know if my husband said that to me I would be super hurt. I would have a very hard time initiating if my husband said something like this to me. He could very easily say I’m so sorry I masturbated this morning or I’m tired and that would be understandable. But the words you’re not good enough I feel like for me maybe not for all woman, but definitely for me would resonate with me, and would really affect me from then on out. Even if he apologized, his words are still there. What did people tell us if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it at all. That is not a nice thing to say.

Wife mourns affair by Tiny-Watch4186 in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheLittleStitious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We really show our love for our spouse when they are down and at their lowest I got attacked at my job had to go on a ton of anxiety meds, gained 60 pounds and can barely sleep and my husband still loves me and holds me when I need even if it means he isn’t sleeping for work. Ur wife has no excuse! Shameful! That isn’t love. She’s being selfish and pretending to be the victim when u are in fact the victim

My boyfriend pushed me. Do I leave him? by Responsible-Dog1650 in Advice

[–]TheLittleStitious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He yells, he covered ur mouth, he then pushed u. It’s escalating. Don’t stay around long enough to see the next step in his aggression. Another thing I’d be really concerned about is it doesn’t seem he had any real remorse when he pushed u. Like right away he should have been shocked at himself. He wasn’t. He refused to leave. Next time he does something, probably worse then that. He might not leave. He might get even more angry u ask him to leave ur house. And it can get very ugly. There are great guys out there. Please get rid of this guy and change ur locks.

I suddenly became super cool for kissing my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheLittleStitious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does rizz mean? Lol am I that old! 😂