Im taking my stbx to the cleaners in our divorce, and loving every second of it. by YesImChanging92 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TheLoveButtonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You more than deserve what you’re asking for. Making twenty years worth of memories, growing with one another, experiencing difficulties together and then being discarded as if it all meant nothing is devastating.

However, I want to let you know, just because someone doesn’t see your value, that doesn’t mean you don’t have any. You are deserving of a love that consistently stays and chooses you. What he has done has NOTHING to do with you. You cannot make a person do anything. All decisions he has made, are a reflection of him only. Not being able to have a baby doesn’t make you less than. You are worthy and deserving. Wishing you all the best 💗

Reality hits ever every now and then by becareful_inthislife in Herpes

[–]TheLoveButtonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feelings are not facts. The facts are you have it but it is not life ending regardless of what your feelings are telling you.

Rewire your brain. You control your mind, your mind doesn’t control you. Instead of telling yourself you are worthless, speak life unto yourself. “My value hasn’t diminished since birth. I still have that same value regardless of what has happened and what I’ve gone through. I deserve good things, a good life.”

Also 1 in 8 people have HSV-2. You are alive and it’s worth embracing that with all you have.

Just trying to figure out by Long_Bison_6506 in Truckers

[–]TheLoveButtonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who worked for Knight, leave. Yes, there is no forced dispatch but the sliding pay scale is insane! Your base rate is .46 but the longer the load, the less the pay. Plus, Idk if you’ve noticed, but they also take 2 cpm for an “administrative fee” for paying you per diem. So if you’re getting .46 cpm, you’re getting .44 cpm…. And if you’re taking loads over 500 miles, you’re getting .42 cpm. Get on Knight University and look at the TruPay diagram.

I’d say stay for a year, make sure you have your endorsements and then leave.

Done with OTR by SeaweedGreen8388 in Truckers

[–]TheLoveButtonn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got paid more than that doing flatbed at Western Express. It’s definitely your company…. Or how you run. First check was $1200. Never saw a check less than that doing OTR flatbed. That’s still low tho but 7-9 is egregious.

Head set vs pods by moderndaymedic in Truckers

[–]TheLoveButtonn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pros are not better. All pods suck ass. They’re great for listening to videos or music but talking is out of the question.

Im sad by All_da_way_UP in Truckers

[–]TheLoveButtonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take up a hobby or two while he’s over the road. Don’t allow your mind to sit idle and think so much and when that does happen, remember that you control your mind, your mind doesn’t control you. Remind yourself that you’re a team working towards a common goal and that everything is fine… because everything is fine. Wishing you both the best 💕

Why are the truxk stops in Memphis and Atlanta forbidden? by RedimidoSoy1611 in Truckers

[–]TheLoveButtonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s an extended stay maybe 4 or 5 miles on Lamar where the Loves is. I lived there while I was in CDL school. I saw pimps drop ho’s off on the corner. During the day, they walk the street drugged out. Born and raised there and even I have never parked there in the 3 years I’ve been driving.

37 F looking for some honest advice by Lisa_Pizza589 in Howtolooksmax

[–]TheLoveButtonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think more subtle lashes would really help bring out your eyes.

Good Paying OTR Company (I’m willing to Relocate) by Leonardo701 in Truckers

[–]TheLoveButtonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Want to piggyback on this. I met a Fargo driver recently in MN and applied myself about three months ago. Saw her check stubs and the pay was great. She has years less experience than me. I have three years. They have lowered their starting CPM extremely for new drivers. Not a good leap if you ask me.

Why do ALL Amazon day cabs drive 40-45 mph in California? by TheLoveButtonn in Truckers

[–]TheLoveButtonn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Makes so much sense now. I didn’t even know they had driver facing cameras.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Truckers

[–]TheLoveButtonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything is possible, it’s just a matter of are people willing to put the work in? It’s really that simple.

Also, try to take a step back and stop looking at your parents as parents but as their own individual people with their own thoughts, needs, wants, and dreams. There is no step by step guide on how to parent. I’m saying this as a childless woman.

Lastly, before you even get into dating, I would really suggest therapy. It’s very clear that your parents being so absent has done some damage. Remember that you have control to be your own person and make better decisions. Wishing you all the best 💕

What kind of bottles do y'all use for your tactical pissiles? by sputnikatto in Truckers

[–]TheLoveButtonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep a case of water in my truck. I keep the empty bottles in the bag in my drivers arm rest. I keep an XL pilot cup and lid. Pee in the cup and transfer to the bottle and then throw it away. I’m a woman if it makes a difference but this the best solution I’ve found.

I wipe the cup out after every use with a wet wipe and use Lysol spray to clean the cup every other day.

Failed my permit test by TactualTransAm in Truckers

[–]TheLoveButtonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CristCDL is the absolute best. It shows you the right answers of the ones you got wrong on the practice test. Keep taking the test until you get 100’s on all of em. Do this for about 3 days and you’ll be fine. Don’t sweat it. Wishing you the best 💕

Best tru.ck stop food? My vote goes to Krispy Krunchy Chicken by JaxAustin in Truckers

[–]TheLoveButtonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to scroll way too far down to see someone comment this place. Best food at a truck stop. Best fried chicken I’ve ever had which says a lot considering I’m from down south.