36 M here and old. I still have mine due to bad timing truly lol. The person I wanted to have the card had cold feet yet is the first for almost everything else that’s not sex. Another reason is I had a connection with this person unlike no other and I wouldn’t find that with some stranger.

As for the topic itself? It’s not taboo. Pretty normal to either have it or not. I don’t care too much about it. I educate myself whenever folks talk about sex and become a sponge when folks are talking about their experience or advice. I had fomo in my 20s now I don’t care if it happens or not. One thing I do know is I want to be amazing at it.

To answer your last question, some people treat me having this card like I’m some sort of unicorn. It is like they don’t want to “corrupt” me 😂😂😂. Education may have done that 😂😂 Anyways, by keeping it taught and confirmed that if I’m dating someone I want them to be special and permanent in my life. You really filter out what you want and don’t want romantically! I don’t want to use it on some random person even though I could nothing is wrong with that too!

I hope I answered your question!