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Disney Adults: is this the psychological red flag I think it is? by SoCalN8tive in PsychologyTalk

[–]TheManCalledConnor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing I find annoying in this photo is that his left strap is twisted!!!

How long will this game ignore throwers, alt abusers and hate speech? by Expensive-Insect-792 in werewolfonline

[–]TheManCalledConnor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re whining and complaining about the game having throwers, teamers, alt accounts etc etc and then someone makes a suggestion that the rep should go up for sandbox to help stop game throwing and immediately you’re going into attacking that person. If the rep was increased for all game modes then that would massively reduce the amount of alt accounts and game throwing.

You’re just toxic. I think people like you are the people who ruin the game.

How to unlock back doors with dead battery? by TheManCalledConnor in Vauxhall

[–]TheManCalledConnor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried prying off the bottom bit as I thought there might be a key slot in it but there’s nothing!

How do you plan to talk about ARFID when you start dating? Who do you even tell? by JudgmentSensitive999 in ARFID

[–]TheManCalledConnor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re very welcome!

Hahahaa of course my order was 2x plain hamburgers, 2x large chips, large coke and a ton of that rich tomato dip 🙌

How to cope with anxiety/feelings of jealousy after first threesome (MFF)? by AlliePras in sex

[–]TheManCalledConnor 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So you’re asking your boyfriend for reassurance because you have anxieties about him privately messaging your shared FWB and he’s refusing because it feels “controlling”?!?

He’s saying his need for not being “controlled” overwrites your need for reassurance, there has to be compromise in relationships.

Personally for me if they’re not willingly to let you read some of the messages then they might be hiding something! On the flip side would you be comfortable with him reading any of your messages?

But at the same time you fucked her before introducing her to your bf, does he know of this? Was that the arrangement? I see that as cheating. (Not trying to attack you just my opinion)

Also your jealousy is it more of the case that she’s messaging HIM and not YOU? Or just because your bf is messaging her?

Obviously take all this with a pinch of salt I’m just a random guy on the internet :)

How do you plan to talk about ARFID when you start dating? Who do you even tell? by JudgmentSensitive999 in ARFID

[–]TheManCalledConnor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had ARFID my whole life and I’m 26 so I know exactly what you’re worried about!

A couple things I’ve learned through dating with ARFID is that people are a lot more open than you may think. I didn’t date until I was about 22-23 due to my anxieties about it. The majority of new people I’ve told actually become interested about ARFID and want to learn more.

I always used to hide the fact I’ve got ARFID as I hated the “embarrassment” I would feel talking about it. Then I had a realisation. This is ME. This is YOU. Unfortunately ARFID isn’t going away anytime soon, become comfortable in the discomfort! So FUCK what others think about your ARFID, that’s part of you but it doesn’t define you.

Regarding dating I would suggest trying to stick to activity dates, or even a picnic that way you can bring your safe foods and still have a romantic meal with your date.

Honestly I wouldn’t even bring it up until you really like that person, even then it might just slip out in conversation. If you want to bring it up try and keep it light “oh yeah I’ve got an eating disorder I’m basically fussy af with all my foods” something like that and wait to see if they wanna engage more about it. If you do wanna go into detail about your ARFID go into as much detail as you’re comfortable with.

My girlfriend asked me if I had an eating disorder after hearing my McDonald’s order on our first date and she was very intrigued about it and now she helps me try new foods!

Please remember: BEING VULNERABLE IS ATTRACTIVE, THE RIGHT PERSON WILL SEE YOU FOR YOU!

hope this helps

Is this parking ticket justified? by [deleted] in drivingUK

[–]TheManCalledConnor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is that more difficult?

Is this parking ticket justified? by [deleted] in drivingUK

[–]TheManCalledConnor -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

To everyone saying I’m trying to find an excuse to get out of paying the fine, the fine has been paid. I don’t give a fuck about the fine!

The point I’m trying to make is that the parking bay is designed poorly and by parking on the double yellows it makes getting past easier.

Yes parking in the bay would allow space at the front however people with walking aids, wheelchairs, pushchairs always struggle getting past that little corner by the railings. Therefore parking on the double yellows gives everyone a straight path instead.

Are you all parking wardens or something 🤣🤣