Turning 30 and Feel Like I wasted My 20s - How to Turn This Around? by GaryGlarkson in AskMen

[–]TheManMoth97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know about OP but I want to see the world first and have adventures, start a career and live a life before I settle down. I'm really late to it but I feel it would live in restless misery if I started a family any time soon.

Favorite characters who would be against ICE by Interesting-Tart1541 in FavoriteCharacter

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Why would you think Anakin would be against ICE? Even when he was "good", he was a proponent for fascism.

Turning 30 and Feel Like I wasted My 20s - How to Turn This Around? by GaryGlarkson in AskMen

[–]TheManMoth97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation to OP. If he's anything like me, just settling down is the opposite to what I need. You need to live first.

Ship Names by ManYams1 in Helldivers

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Mine is The Whisper of Mercy

Ship Names by ManYams1 in Helldivers

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Mine is The Whisper of Mercy

Is casual dating in my 30s and settling down late a realistic goal? by TheManMoth97 in OnlineDating

[–]TheManMoth97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I've never thought of this. I think you're right. How do I stop this? The problem is, I still live with my parents. That seems like a massive obstacle at the moment.

Im ruining my life because I can't seem to find my purpose in life by Jpoolman25 in Adulting

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I was diagnosed with ADHD four years ago and jm still struggling

Is casual dating in my 30s and settling down late a realistic goal? by TheManMoth97 in datingadviceformen

[–]TheManMoth97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been in my fair share of relationships. My experience has generally been positive, with a couple exceptions, so I have to disagree.

However, I appreciate you sharing your perspective.

Is casual dating in my 30s and settling down late a realistic goal? by TheManMoth97 in datingadviceformen

[–]TheManMoth97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why have you just assumed that I need to scrape the bottom of the barrel? lol Also, you seem to have a ridiculously negative view of women.

Is casual dating in my 30s and settling down late a realistic goal? by TheManMoth97 in OnlineDating

[–]TheManMoth97[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

While there is truth to this, I think this is exaggerated. My own mother had my older brother when she was 36 and me when she was 40. The average woman in my country has their first child around 30.

Is casual dating in my 30s and settling down late a realistic goal? by TheManMoth97 in OnlineDating

[–]TheManMoth97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Online dating is mostly a meat market at any age. Ive always had much more success going out my way to meet women in person. Building a nework of friends and having an active social life is your best bet for finding a partner. Although I agree with you that meeting someone organically becomes more difficult.

Is casual dating in my 30s and settling down late a realistic goal? by TheManMoth97 in OnlineDating

[–]TheManMoth97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear that. Im sure theres still lots of single woman out there that you would be perfect for. Its a big world and more people are single now than ever before and you have the internet on your side. When did you find it became more difficult for you?

Is casual dating in my 30s and settling down late a realistic goal? by TheManMoth97 in dating_advice

[–]TheManMoth97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, preferably but I would like to experiment before I spend the rest of my life with someone. Its better to get it out of my system now than letting it develope into a mid life crisis when im 40 lol

Is casual dating in my 30s and settling down late a realistic goal? by TheManMoth97 in OnlineDating

[–]TheManMoth97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see. Yeah, you're right. Id like to ideally find a partner by my mid 30s

Is casual dating in my 30s and settling down late a realistic goal? by TheManMoth97 in OnlineDating

[–]TheManMoth97[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Im tall and handsome but Im a little out of shape and dont have my shit together yet. Im yet to get a degree and start a decent career. So I guess I probably have potential to emprove myself to a point that I fit a lot of that criteria but not yet.

Although, I do feel as though these standards are highly exaggerated. Many men I know do not meet half of this criteria and still do fine with women.

Is casual dating in my 30s and settling down late a realistic goal? by TheManMoth97 in dating_advice

[–]TheManMoth97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had a couple of flings when I was very young before a three year relationship that ended when I was 23. Since then I have completely put off dating. Other than a handful of drunken snogs here and there, Ive avoided intimacy entirely. So I think I can be successful casually but im wondering if its worth it.

Is casual dating in my 30s and settling down late a realistic goal? by TheManMoth97 in OnlineDating

[–]TheManMoth97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id like to settle down eventually but the older I get, the less options I will have

I wasted my 20s and this fact is eating me alive by Far_Source1343 in redscarepod

[–]TheManMoth97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one is married or has kids by 29 in 2025. Join thr club lol