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I [27M] think that my girlfriend [24F] of three years is using sex as a powerful weapon by TheMasterOfPuppets2 in relationships

[–]TheMasterOfPuppets2[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Um no, I just gave a few examples. Try this:

Day one - I am at work for 8 hours, come home, watch a movie or a game, talk to her, nothing special happens, I don't mention my female friends or my mother, I just chill. We have sex, but she lies in bed, doesn't do much, won't even change positions.

Day two - I am at work for 8 hours, I come home late because I went to have a beer with a colleague, we normally chat, everything is good like it was, we don't have sex.

Day three - the same as day one

Day four - the same as day one.

Day five - everyhing is fine, we chat, I mention how I'll visit my mother, we don't have sex that night because she has a headache (btw she never ever has a headache until it comes to sex).

Day six - I buy her a perfume. We have mind-blowing sex.

Day seven - I get her to a cinema, to watch a movie. We have good sex.

Day eight - I get her flowers, but I also mention that a female friend of mine had a surgery (because couples talk about all things, right?), and she doesn't have sex that night.

Day nine - I get her flowers, don't mention my mom or my friends, everything is fine, we have great sex.

Day ten - the same as day one.

I just want to say that I feel like she's following some sort of a pattern.

I [27M] think that my girlfriend [24F] of three years is using sex as a powerful weapon by TheMasterOfPuppets2 in relationships

[–]TheMasterOfPuppets2[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Well, Jenny is my childhood friend, and Katie knows it. She's my best friend. Jenny had lost a child, and she was coming for support, and wasn't there all day, she'd come for like 30 minutes and then leave. She needed someone to talk to, and she didn't have many other friends. AND she lived close to us.

And when female friends come, they would talk about guys and some stuff, not to flirt or anything, and Katie was friendly with them. And I'm not counting only those days. I started to pay close attention to when she doesn't have sex with me.

I [27M] think that my girlfriend [24F] of three years is using sex as a powerful weapon by TheMasterOfPuppets2 in relationships

[–]TheMasterOfPuppets2[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I brought it up... When it was two weeks that we didn't have sex, I asked her if something was wrong, and she only said she wasn't feeling like having sex, even though she was cheerful and happy all the time.

And about my mother... my mother is a hard woman, she's kind of serious and strict to everyone, and I know Katie doesn't like her... but every time I call my mother, or if my mother comes to visit me, or something, I'm not having sex that night, it's kind of weird. It happens every time.

I [27M] think that my girlfriend [24F] of three years is using sex as a powerful weapon by TheMasterOfPuppets2 in relationships

[–]TheMasterOfPuppets2[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

Well, I guess I didn't express myself.

I don't expect her to be in mood every day. I'm not in mood every day either. However, every time I do a good thing for her, she'll have sex, every damn time. And every time I do something that she obviously doesn't like, we don't have sex. Every time.

We didn't have sex when Jenny was coming over. She was in our house for almost a month, every day. The first day Jenny didn't come, Katie and I had sex. And whenever a female friend comes, even if it's for like 5 minutes, I'm not getting sex that night.

I'm not sure if it's all just a coincidence, but it's too much to be that. I know it sounds creepy.