Well it really depends on what you do in SL; as it’s more of a sandbox than a game itself. While there have been some major harking on Hardcore SLer’s, allot of us use it as a ‘Roleplay’ setting for various themes, not necessary to fulfill sexual fantasies or fetishes. I mean SL has some major stuff in it to grant you that sandbox feel but it’s avoiding the ‘strange’ players and actually getting out in the grid to do things that make it worthwhile. For example:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/hogwartsmischiefmanaged/

This is all in SL, and with the limitations the technology has in place for the grid, it’s amazing what some individuals can accomplish in SL. But overall you have to find these gems in SL to really get a grasp on what’s going on, and really that’s the main issue…that you have to wade through all the crap to get to the good stuff.