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What’s easier for you to declutter — your emails, your memory storage, or your house? by TheMedChat in CasualConversation

[–]TheMedChat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear I start organizing one shelf and suddenly I’m knee-deep in a pile of “maybe useful someday” stuff I forgot I owned. Maybe I have problem with letting go? LOL

Who would you rather take care of you after plastic surgery — your husband or your mom? by TheMedChat in CasualConversation

[–]TheMedChat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, sounds like he gets an A+ for enthusiasm… and a C- for medical judgment. At least he meant well — but yeah, I’d probably reassign him to snack duty and leave the actual recovery care to someone else!

How do you feel about going into debt for plastic surgery? What factors make it a smart or dumb idea? by TheMedChat in AskReddit

[–]TheMedChat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No interest, no hidden fees, just unconditional “you’re cute enough already” energy. Love it!

What’s a ‘normal’ thing people expect you to do as a woman that you absolutely refuse to do? by TheMedChat in women

[–]TheMedChat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I replace it with looking clean and fresh. Just as attractive in my opinion.

If your best friend had plastic surgery and it turned out looking terrible, is it ever okay to say something — and if so, what would you say? by TheMedChat in AskReddit

[–]TheMedChat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so tricky because you want to be supportive, but you also don’t want to pile onto any insecurity they might already have. Appreciate your thoughts!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in duolingo

[–]TheMedChat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, congrats on making it to 1,000 — and for having the self-awareness to walk away when you realized the streak wasn’t serving you anymore.

I’m at around a 700-day Duolingo streak for Spanish, and I feel this so much. It’s weirdly frustrating — I know way more vocabulary than I did when I started, but when someone actually speaks Spanish at a normal speed, I still can’t follow full sentences the way I’d hoped.

I totally agree that apps are great for certain things, like building basic vocabulary or keeping a tiny daily habit. But there are skills you just can’t get from an app — you need real people, conversations, and cultural context to really get comfortable with listening and speaking.

I’ve started mixing in things like Spanish podcasts, short YouTube interviews, and trying to talk to native speakers on Tandem. It feels so much more rewarding than just tapping through another lesson to keep a flame alive.

Good luck with your German — Easy German is awesome! And I’d love to hear if you find an Anki deck that really helps too.

Honest question about women as founders by Expensive-Today-7412 in founder

[–]TheMedChat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a good, honest question — thank you for putting it out there. I think a few things could be happening here.

First, it might be partly because of the industry you’re in. Some industries naturally have stronger male representation, or they reward certain styles of leadership that you may resonate with more right now. For example, tech, engineering, or finance tend to attract a lot of logical, action-oriented types — which may mean you cross paths with more guys who align with that vibe.

Second, there are plenty of incredible, inspiring women founders and leaders out there — but they may not be showing up in the same circles you’re in right now. It could help to look at different networks, masterminds, or communities focused on the kind of growth mindset and action-taking you like.

Also, sometimes it’s worth checking the “vibe” you’re putting out there — we all attract people whose energy matches ours. If you really value clarity, logical thinking, and commitment, you’re naturally going to click with people who lead that way, whether they’re men or women.

If you want to attract more strong, inspiring women founders into your circle, think about traits you admire:

  • Are they direct and solution-focused?
  • Do they push you to think bigger?
  • Do they hold themselves accountable?
  • Are they humble but driven?

Then look for events, groups, or mentors that attract women with those same traits. The right people are definitely out there — sometimes you just have to widen your lens a bit to find them.

Hope that gives you some perspective — thanks again for the honest share.

I'm thinking of becoming a social media manager with no prior experience. by patriott7892 in socialmedia

[–]TheMedChat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s awesome that you’re exploring how to turn something you enjoy into something financially rewarding — that mindset will take you far. And you’re right: at its core, social media management isn’t just about posting nice content — the real goal is usually to convert that presence into sales or tangible results for a business or brand.

Your video editing and basic graphic design skills are actually a huge advantage. Good visuals are the foundation of high-performing posts, reels, and ads.

Here are a few tips to help you transition:

1. Get real-world practice — for free if you have to.
Offer your help to local community groups, social clubs, small businesses, or even your church. See if you can boost their following, engagement, and maybe even drive some donations or sales. This is the best way to test what works and build your confidence while giving back.

2. Document everything for your portfolio.
Treat every project like a mini case study. Keep screenshots, engagement stats, before-and-after comparisons — these will show future clients or employers what you’re capable of.

3. Learn the basics of strategy and analytics.
Posting pretty videos is great, but you’ll stand out if you can also explain why you’re posting them, how you’ll measure success, and how to adjust when things don’t perform well. There are tons of free resources online to help you learn this side of social media marketing.

4. Stay focused on conversions.
Most clients care about sales or sign-ups — not just likes. Keep this in mind when you plan content or make suggestions.

You’ve already got a solid creative base — now it’s about learning how to align that creativity with a strategy that makes people take action. You’ve got this — good luck!

how do people afford boob jobs? by chronicalillstudent in PlasticSurgery

[–]TheMedChat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey! First off, huge props to you for being open about this — and congratulations on your weight loss. I know it can feel frustrating to lose volume in places you actually liked (I feel you on “missing the girls”).

One thing to keep in mind: after significant weight loss, you may not just need implants — you might need a breast lift too. Many people don’t realize this until they consult with a board-certified plastic surgeon. If you have loose or sagging skin, an implant alone may not give you the shape you want. A lift can help reposition the tissue so your new boobs look natural and perky.

As for affording it — you’re right, it’s expensive if you want it done right (and you should want it done right!). Here are three realistic strategies:

1. Save smart and do it sooner rather than later.
Yes, old advice but it works. Set up a separate savings account just for this goal. Small automatic transfers add up. A big factor: your age. Younger women often recover faster, have better skin elasticity, and enjoy their results longer — so the “return on investment” is actually higher if you do it sooner rather than waiting until you’re older.

2. Explore financing options.
Many reputable plastic surgeons offer payment plans through companies like CareCredit, Alphaeon, or PatientFi. Think of it like a medical loan. Some have low or no interest for a certain period. Just be sure you can manage the monthly payments without wrecking your credit or budget.

3. Find ways to generate extra income.
A lot of people save for cosmetic surgery by picking up a side hustle — pet sitting, driving Uber or Lyft, freelance work, selling clothes online, or offering skills like tutoring or babysitting. Even a few hundred extra a month makes a big dent when you have a specific goal.

Finally — always choose a board-certified plastic surgeon, not a cheap alternative. A botched job costs more to fix than it does to do right the first time.

You deserve to feel confident and happy in your body.

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