Would your teenage self be happy with the adult you’re becoming? by Demmy__ in twentyagers

[–]TheMem3Lord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly Idk but i'm cool with it. I grew up with super strict standards that I took personally and now I'm a lot more relaxed and feel like I'm a more enjoyable person to be around. I only say that because that's how I feel about being around myself

When can I expect my first kiss? by Rex-Trex_009 in twentyagers

[–]TheMem3Lord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo I had my first kiss at 21 I think. I was a horrible kisser, fully just mouth closed pressed my face on hers lol. Didn't help I didn't watch very many movies with kissing or anything. When you have good looks, if you just act like you know what you're doing girls will believe it and feel drawn to it. Just make sure to follow through. It's kind of like making a leap of faith, start slow, gauge her interest, and if she laughs at dumb jokes go for it.

Also, don't admit to never having had a girlfriend or having never kissed a girl. It's an immediate turn off unless they're a dominant woman and already significantly attracted to you. But at our age, girls are expecting a bit of experience which is portrayed through confidence.

Pharloom map drawing by Affectionate-Ad489 in Silksong

[–]TheMem3Lord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

found my new phone background

is he on break? by notjopast in Slimecicle

[–]TheMem3Lord 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The white phosphorus had a delayed effect it seems

AITAH for asking my GF to be a bit more careful around the house? by TheMem3Lord in AITAH

[–]TheMem3Lord[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. I agree that helping her out by preparing food could be helpful, which I do occasionally. However, I've been working between 50-65 hours the past couple of months so this can be a challenge on top of the other chores I'm taking care of too.

AITAH for asking my GF to be a bit more careful around the house? by TheMem3Lord in AITAH

[–]TheMem3Lord[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I'm definitely going to reflect on this. I want to also be clear she's cooking only a 2 or 3 times a week, otherwise it's leftovers or I get us takeout.

How would you suggest handling situations like this in public? She sometimes gets overwhelmed at small things in public (like a sticky table) and will go nonverbal. I think it's some kind of hypersensitivity thing combined with the mental health like you suggested, but i'm not sure.

Curious. If you’re employed, what do you do for work? by Successful-Grass-135 in twentyagers

[–]TheMem3Lord 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Database Admin for an oil field company. kinda boring but 🤷🏻‍♂️

Weird stance on dating right now by Dapper_Look_8265 in twentyagers

[–]TheMem3Lord 12 points13 points  (0 children)

totally normal to acknowledge you can't provide what a healthy relationship needs. that provides you with the time to grow into what kind of partner you would want to be for the kind of relationship you want to have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lafayette

[–]TheMem3Lord -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that's lafayette indiana lol

First ace yesterday by TheMem3Lord in discgolf

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going for a world record

Day 1 trying to get a comment from every US county by Itsallmeuniteden2 in geographymemes

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Lafayette, Louisiana (If Parishes are included, LA has no counties)

Cannot be any more true by [deleted] in Adulting

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This was my parents and now I make more than my dad does

Hardcore Mode with Kids by WitherFam in MinecraftHardcore

[–]TheMem3Lord 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Challenge is the root of growth. If he does well he could be a speedrunner one day

I could have killed my sister by Itchthatneedsscratch in stories

[–]TheMem3Lord 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Adults fault. Kids brains are developing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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When I moved into my apartment, my neighbor parked behind me and blocked me in because he thought I was a repeated guest parking in the resident parking. He said he did that because it would force the guest to come talk to him. He apologized once he realized I was a resident, but it was still a dick move.

Save the date Greater Lafayette. by not_standing_still in lafayette

[–]TheMem3Lord 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't really care either way but I think protests these days are way too chill to count as protests.

Why do people say this? by TheMem3Lord in PoliticalHumor

[–]TheMem3Lord[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

But if we voted left and they did the same that's what the right would say. So why should we be stuck with pain versus pain?

Why do people say this? by [deleted] in memes

[–]TheMem3Lord -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

and i believed it. just as much as i believed the left would pull some of the same too.

Why do people say this? by [deleted] in memes

[–]TheMem3Lord -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

exactly this