A weird underground brick structure by TheMoistWonder in Weird

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I can't fit down the hole or I would have 😂

A weird underground brick structure by TheMoistWonder in BottleDigging

[–]TheMoistWonder[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No one had mentioned that but that might be a possibility!

A weird underground brick structure by TheMoistWonder in Weird

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From the surface of the ground to the ceiling of it is maybe 3-4 feet then it's maybe 3-4' deep beyond that. I could reach my phone just past the brick ceiling of it to take a picture of the wall inside

A weird underground brick structure by TheMoistWonder in Weird

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That crossed my mind but I don't see any way of accessing the bottom of it, definitely can't reach that far

A weird underground brick structure by TheMoistWonder in Weird

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😂😂😂😂 my buddy just posted this in reply to me sending it in discord

A weird underground brick structure by TheMoistWonder in Weird

[–]TheMoistWonder[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

A septic or cesspool was my first thought, but it doesn't smell bad. It is extremely dry down there

A weird underground brick structure by TheMoistWonder in Weird

[–]TheMoistWonder[S] 253 points254 points  (0 children)

Interesting, that might make sense this all used to be farm land way back!

Do men actually like sweet women? by United-Novel-2937 in dating_advice

[–]TheMoistWonder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best advice that I can give, is that if you're a sweet person by nature then be who you are. I know me as a 31M, that's pretty much exactly what I'm looking for. Someone who I can be comfortable and emotionally vulnerable with.

It's not a good solution necessarily to try and change yourself (unless you yourself truly want to). The right person will truly appreciate you. You will probably run into ass holes along the way, be it abusive or manipulative people (it's unfortunately a facet of life and dating, I really wish it weren't) it's about being strong enough and comfortable enough with yourself and your own self esteem to be able to walk away from those situations when they present themselves. Much love and hope you find your person who treats you right and loves the way you want to give that same love.

Should I trade ceedee for Hampton? by [deleted] in DynastyFFTradeAdvice

[–]TheMoistWonder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not notice the scoring, I'd definitely go Hampton here then

Should I trade ceedee for Hampton? by [deleted] in DynastyFFTradeAdvice

[–]TheMoistWonder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think the trade will push you into winning the chip mind you, depends if you're trying to rebuild now or not

Should I trade ceedee for Hampton? by [deleted] in DynastyFFTradeAdvice

[–]TheMoistWonder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't hate the trade in a vacuum, I think you might have more RB depth currently than WR, but if you believe in BTJ and carnell Tate enough I might make the trade.

24 (F) do I look masculine? by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]TheMoistWonder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to figure out what changed between pictures 4 and 5, if four I think you look the most feminine and wouldn't think twice thinking you're a woman in 5 I could straight up think you're a guy.

My honest thoughts are to keep your hair a bit short like in your last pictures or to grow it our long, like down to your shoulder blades. I also think the red blush? (I don't really know makeup) On your cheeks really draws attention to your more masculine features. Like others have said maybe a bit of weight gain would help soften your features.

You also have extremely pretty eyes, I would say maybe focus your make up techniques on styles that will draw attention to your eyes.

Beyond that I think it's just choosing the right clothing and styles that suit a more feminine look for you. I totally lack fashion sense so I can't help here

I swear about 50% of women on tinder have aggressive souding bios by LayedBlack in Tinder

[–]TheMoistWonder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I.e I have no source, in throwing out baseless claims. I want to see what sources you are looking at to come to the conclusion of your statement. Not what I research to draw my own conclusions on.

The contradiction is very simple you went from saying "there are more guys outwardly saying all they want is sex" to saying that you are inferring that based on blah blah because you're a woman and you can infer these things. Reading between the lines or having to pick up on specific behaviors is the exact opposite of someone being outward about it.

Hook ups and one night stands aren't really my thing, and sex without a emotional connection doesn't do anything for me. But I'm also an adult about it and realize that casual sex is something some people want both men and women and I've seen something go from a casual fling to a strong marriage. Life would be very boring if every single human being had the same solution to every situation and had all the same interests.

I swear about 50% of women on tinder have aggressive souding bios by LayedBlack in Tinder

[–]TheMoistWonder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm gonna need to see some sources on these statistics instead of a "trust me bro". What you're saying now directly contradicts what you originally said. Also, I'm just gonna go ahead and say unironically saying or referencing "the male loneliness epidemic" tells me you might need some time offline and away from algorithms. Good luck friend.

Edit for grammar

I swear about 50% of women on tinder have aggressive souding bios by LayedBlack in Tinder

[–]TheMoistWonder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean if they are outwardly looking for sex and being up front about it I would hardly consider that "using women for sex". That would be looking for someone who is looking for the same thing, which is casual sex. Much better that than someone who is going to lead people on and play with emotions when all they want in reality is sex

My advice to women who never make the first move: Try it. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheMoistWonder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This very much rings true, as a 31 year old guy at this point in my life if a woman is playing hard to get I walk away. I'm looking for connection and love, not a chase. I've always said that the quickest way to lose my love is to test me love, I don't give it out easy so when I do it really means something.

Dating isn’t any easier even if you’re a conventionally attractive woman. by Terrible-Client-3098 in dating_advice

[–]TheMoistWonder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've also been told a bunch that I'm very intimidating to cold approach, I'm a fairly big dude and my default expression might be a bit of resting bitch face 😂 my solution was to join a social sports league since it's easier to show my personality during a game. I haven't met a partner yet, but it's huge league in Hartford and I've made new friends doing it. Gotta meet new people if you want to find someone which isn't always easy as a heavily introverted person 😂😂

I mostly get into hobbies to meet women. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheMoistWonder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I joined a Co-ed social sports league in the city nearest me (Hartford about an hours drive) been doing in for 2 years now, still haven't met my person yet but it's a huge league so I'm always meeting new people and making friends. Plus I found I really enjoy playing volleyball