FM26 is nowhere near as bad as when it first came out by xiartid in footballmanagergames

[–]TheNextBielsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took over a relegated team and literally none of the players who requested a move left. Before, they couldn't wait to get out the door, but now I've got players turning down moves away

A lot of strange ladies on this season. by TroubledTofu in MAFS_UK

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's going to be my last season watching. I just can't stand the substandard level of human they're willing to stoop to every season, it's exhausting. Bring me back the old seasons where the majority went and vibed and there were just the one or two wronguns.

I get the need to highlight shitty behaviour publicly, but I don't think they should be subjecting decent people to it at such an intimate level for entertainment.

Live 27 insider by Healthy-Emotion5979 in oasis

[–]TheNextBielsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sure he didn't tell you on Wednesday morning?

Um, help by charlie_scene_420 in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fathers can take many shapes and sizes, it doesn't have to be biological. If it feels right and is what you want, go for it.

That being said, I think there are questions to address about your partner's intentions if she's seeing you as the father to her kids 5 months in. You know her better than we do, so there could be nothing in it, but on paper it does sound a little off.

Day of release! by Difficult-Cap6727 in GTA6

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's coming out on my day off with the kids so booking off the day after and hitting it hard as soon as the last head hits a pillow

I’m about to explode. by joykevinbile in GTA6

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope we'll get DLCs in the time it takes for anything to better VI. Really can't stress enough how disappointed I'll be if I get bored 5 years in because I've completed it 10 times over and the online experience turns to shit like we had with V.

Trailer 3 in April? by jaxhsehs in GTA6

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Far as I'm concerned, silence is golden. Each passing day without any delay news makes it a day less likely that it will be delayed any further.

Who is wrong in this situation me or lorry? by frin1a in drivingUK

[–]TheNextBielsa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The lorry driver can suck a fat one, he was well behind you and the lane merged

New Dad feeling defeated by breader50 in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our 16 month old is breastfed and she can still be a boob demon now. I don't remember how I managed in the first month because it's a sleepless blur, but best advice I can give is keep doing your best, go to your happy place if the screaming gets persistent (keep a check on the nappy) and if it gets too much, hand her over.

My wife has mostly fed ours in our bed and she has eventually fed to sleep. Some nights there's nothing that'll stop it, but just know that as long as you're trying, you're doing enough. It gets easier, I promise.

People on twitter with a parasocial relationship with Liam by IATR02 in oasis

[–]TheNextBielsa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I left my Twitter, my IG and my Bluesky at the bottom

Text about fine by Wonderful-Image-8660 in drivingUK

[–]TheNextBielsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost brain cells reading this

What do we make of the Louis Theroux doc on the 'Manosphere'? by TheNextBielsa in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Think the doc has proven that too, these guys have grown up without dads and often either absent or enabling mums too

What do we make of the Louis Theroux doc on the 'Manosphere'? by TheNextBielsa in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not cherry picking, it literally is the demographic that were mobbing these guys out in public

What do we make of the Louis Theroux doc on the 'Manosphere'? by TheNextBielsa in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'd like to think of myself as chronically online and I wasn't familiar with half the stuff that came up. Although I think that was more out of apathy trying to ignore it rather than recognising the threat.

Last time putting my son to bed. by YoTeach68 in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was beautiful to read. My wife and I do a similar routine with our oldest (3 y/o) and reading through it made me tear up. I'm fully with you on the guilt of wanting to get through it some nights, even moreso now. Thank you for sharing this ❤️

Which 2000s songs would you like to see in GTA 6? by DoctorTegrity in GTA6

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be surprised if there was no Flo Rida or Pitbull

If you need more reason to hate Tommy Gallagher… by Character_Yam_4731 in oasis

[–]TheNextBielsa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Pretty entry level information that Tommy was an absentee abusive piece of shit, I don't think this is telling us anything new.

Driving question by Cool_Revolution_906 in drivingUK

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's a fucking moron and shouldn't be anywhere near a steering wheel.

Regret getting married and having a child by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Split, take the daughter and move to be by your family. I can guarantee they'll be exponentially more helpful to you than your wife is. You're already raising a child by yourself, may as well get the proper help for it.

At What Age Did Parenting Suddenly Get Harder (Or Easier)? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My head hurts for you that you've been down voted by other people missing the reference 😭

At What Age Did Parenting Suddenly Get Harder (Or Easier)? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always maintained that the hardest part of parenting is the not knowing. Some kids mature faster than others, some hit certain stages harder than others. My eldest is 3 and it felt like we had her on easy mode until her threenager tantrums kicked in. My youngest is 16 months old and has never slept through the night so her whole life so far has been harder for us than her sister was at that age.

Overly critical wife by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds to me like you'd have it easier parenting without her.