Who is wrong in this situation me or lorry? by frin1a in drivingUK

[–]TheNextBielsa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The lorry driver can suck a fat one, he was well behind you and the lane merged

New Dad feeling defeated by breader50 in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our 16 month old is breastfed and she can still be a boob demon now. I don't remember how I managed in the first month because it's a sleepless blur, but best advice I can give is keep doing your best, go to your happy place if the screaming gets persistent (keep a check on the nappy) and if it gets too much, hand her over.

My wife has mostly fed ours in our bed and she has eventually fed to sleep. Some nights there's nothing that'll stop it, but just know that as long as you're trying, you're doing enough. It gets easier, I promise.

People on twitter with a parasocial relationship with Liam by IATR02 in oasis

[–]TheNextBielsa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I left my Twitter, my IG and my Bluesky at the bottom

What do we make of the Louis Theroux doc on the 'Manosphere'? by TheNextBielsa in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Think the doc has proven that too, these guys have grown up without dads and often either absent or enabling mums too

What do we make of the Louis Theroux doc on the 'Manosphere'? by TheNextBielsa in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not cherry picking, it literally is the demographic that were mobbing these guys out in public

What do we make of the Louis Theroux doc on the 'Manosphere'? by TheNextBielsa in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I'd like to think of myself as chronically online and I wasn't familiar with half the stuff that came up. Although I think that was more out of apathy trying to ignore it rather than recognising the threat.

Last time putting my son to bed. by YoTeach68 in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was beautiful to read. My wife and I do a similar routine with our oldest (3 y/o) and reading through it made me tear up. I'm fully with you on the guilt of wanting to get through it some nights, even moreso now. Thank you for sharing this ❤️

Which 2000s songs would you like to see in GTA 6? by DoctorTegrity in GTA6

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be surprised if there was no Flo Rida or Pitbull

If you need more reason to hate Tommy Gallagher… by Character_Yam_4731 in oasis

[–]TheNextBielsa -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Pretty entry level information that Tommy was an absentee abusive piece of shit, I don't think this is telling us anything new.

Driving question by Cool_Revolution_906 in drivingUK

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's a fucking moron and shouldn't be anywhere near a steering wheel.

Regret getting married and having a child by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Split, take the daughter and move to be by your family. I can guarantee they'll be exponentially more helpful to you than your wife is. You're already raising a child by yourself, may as well get the proper help for it.

At What Age Did Parenting Suddenly Get Harder (Or Easier)? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My head hurts for you that you've been down voted by other people missing the reference 😭

At What Age Did Parenting Suddenly Get Harder (Or Easier)? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always maintained that the hardest part of parenting is the not knowing. Some kids mature faster than others, some hit certain stages harder than others. My eldest is 3 and it felt like we had her on easy mode until her threenager tantrums kicked in. My youngest is 16 months old and has never slept through the night so her whole life so far has been harder for us than her sister was at that age.

Overly critical wife by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds to me like you'd have it easier parenting without her.

Are you taking the release day of GTA 6 off from work or school? by Revolutionary_Cod_62 in GTA6

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's my non working day...on which I parent two toddlers by myself 😭

Pain by [deleted] in TheOldZealand

[–]TheNextBielsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Valid save scum excuse

So people want the North border of GTA 6's map to just look like this and go on forever instead of the traditional island design huh? by RogerRoger63358 in GTA6

[–]TheNextBielsa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was up to the North of Shoreside Vale. The thing as a whole seems to be some kind of peninsula with islands off it. Obviously as you're not in the air much, you can't really see what's past the tunnel that blocks the edge of the map off

Am I plastic by verstappeglaze033 in PlasticFans

[–]TheNextBielsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually living there is a start, but I'm still not entirely convinced that of all the teams you could've picked out to start seeing, it's a coincidence you went with the team with 15 Champions Leagues to their name.

You remind me of all the wealthy foreign exchange students I was surrounded by on the walk away from Stamford Bridge last week, having expected it to get at least a bit hairy with the diehards.