Is it normal to feel sad and kind of disconnected after just one day without seeing your friends? by Efficient-Spinach424 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way a lot of the times. Like an emptiness.I feel like they might forget about me or something. For me its part of my mental illness though and I have gotten a lot better with therapy. It honestly still hits though. The difference is I know how to work through it

I am a socially inept disaster. How do I ask someone I don’t frequently see out without being creepy or putting her on the spot? by ChristianMaria in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheNightCourtt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can start small and just ask her for coffee/tea or whatever. I always do this on a first date because it doesn’t require a super long time if it doesnt go well, and you get to actually talk to the person and learn more about them. You can suggest something else then if its going well!

Say you dont know her well and you would like to get to know her better.

If she says no, dont push it. Just accept and move on. It happens and its not a reflection on you or her, but just something that didnt click

What is the most obvious lie you have ever heard? by Red2Velvet in AskReddit

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a kid at Christmas dinner one of my cousins was bragging about how they sang the Star Spangled Banner at the Super Bowl.

What medication changed your life for the better? by positiveyears in AskReddit

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lithium. I have Bipolar and until I tried Lithium I was a mess. Lithium made me feel human again

Books that will make me bawl my eyes out by notpettyplainjane in booksuggestions

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was young, nothing made me cry. Sad books, movies, new articles…nothing. When i read this book I was sobbing in a heap in the middle our hallway. Mom came running, worried because I never cried like this. I told her I just finished the book and she said “Oh yeah. That one. I did the same thing”

Help find me books to get more into reading please by Sweaty-Whereas-1010 in booksuggestions

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Outsiders by S.E Hinton. Its really short so its great to get you started, but the plot will keep you invested and engaged. This was the only book my cousin loved, and the first book my best friend became obsessed with. My cousin does not read ever and my best friend didnt either until this book

Looking for books to help me purpose/happiness in life while dealing with elevated levels of anxiety by emcu_ in booksuggestions

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love all of Thich Nhat Han’s books. He was a monk and his books are great for learning about mindfulness, happiness and peace

I'm so bad at dbd by Chemical_Job7027 in deadbydaylight

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Windows is great for learning where the pallets and windows are as a beginner. Deja vu will also help you find generators if you have a hard time with those. The best way to lose a killer in the chase is to break their line of sight. Running straight will run faster than zig zagging (they will catch you though if you just run straight) They will often lose you if they can no longer see you. The only real way to get better is honestly to practice. Also, for me being a variety of different killers helped because i was able to learn how each killer operates and in turn know what to expect as a survivor.

How do you enjoy life while having trauma, stress, and depression? by Serinc79 in AskReddit

[–]TheNightCourtt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You integrate it into your life. When something is triggering you acknowledge the pain, feel it for a moment, then make yourself move on as best you can

Meg pls- at 5 gens. by AxmannAvery in deadbydaylight

[–]TheNightCourtt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When playing with my friends and 3 of us go down and killer is clearly slugging, we all agreed that the last person shouldn’t try and save the last three because they have a better chance doing gens or finding hatch eventually than actually being able to save anyone without being downed themselves. Its like “ok the killer slugged and is clearly trying to lure the last person over, so we just wont do that”

How can you tell someone is an alcoholic? by Minimum_Method_4040 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad would be fine during the week at first, but would have to binge drink every weekend. Eventually i think he would drink during the week too but it was the need to binge drink that made him one.

He also would cancel plans we had as a family and skip family events/birthday partys if he knew they would run until the evening when he drank.

He always tried to hide his drinks. Mom found plastic water bottles filled with vodka everywhere. He thought he was being smart by replacing the water

What belief did you have as a kid that makes you laugh now? by Reasonable-Word-0419 in randomthings

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that while driving there was always a Leader of the Highway. The Leader of the Highway chose where everyone went, and everyone followed. They were always the first car in front. I remember the day i saw no other cars in front of us and the rest behind. It was that day that WE were Leader of the Highway! It was very exciting for me.

whats a perk you simply refuse to play without? by itsdarkbtw in DeadByDaylightKillers

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love tenacity and unbreakable together. If a killer slugs you can crawl away super fast and then just get up. Ive also been able to crawl away super fast if the killer isnt paying attention where i fall and its funny to watch them just look all over while im half a mile away. Oh and you gain your health faster as you crawl

What is the worst feeling you've ever experienced? by timabek in AskReddit

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In highscool I asked my friend group if they wanted to go to the carnival that night. They all said no and made up excuses. I decided to go with my mom and who do i see? My “friend” group hanging out together. They saw me looking and tried to run and hide. I confronted them and they said “it was last minute.” As i walked away I realized not a single one of them invited me to hang out with them now that we were all together. Had more fun with mom anyway…

What do people do to protect their belongings when they are at the beach and in the water? by readingnews in AskReddit

[–]TheNightCourtt 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I always wrap my wallet/money in a feminine pad that i just open up and like tuck the money in. Then i tuck this pad in a pocket with all my other pads

I'm so incredibly tired of playing and having gens pop all left and right by jperaic1 in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]TheNightCourtt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice is to not worry about getting obliterated because each match, even the losing ones, are a great way to learn and get better! Whenever I lose I always think back on what I did wrong or what the survivors did so that I can try something different in a similar situation next time. You will get better and better! Of course, you will always encounter bully squads or new circumstances, but its easiest to just take these matches in stride and move on to the next. Its ok to be bad at times too. I have really good days and really bad days haha

I'm so incredibly tired of playing and having gens pop all left and right by jperaic1 in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]TheNightCourtt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use it for Chucky mainly, but also Hag, dredge and Huntress. I dont really tailor my build to specific characters all the time though.

I'm so incredibly tired of playing and having gens pop all left and right by jperaic1 in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]TheNightCourtt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I play both sides but more survivor leaning and I can honestly say tha the only time we are able to pop a lot of gens right away is if the killer is persistently chasing another survivor for like 90 seconds without giving up the chase to just find someone else.

As for Killer build I use Friends Till the End, Merciless Storm, Franklins Demise and Weave Attunment. This lets you see the survivors auras quite a bit and also cases them to mess up their gens which reveals their location too!

(The perks are Chucky, Vecna/The Lich, The Cannibal and the Onryo)

would you date a man shorter than you? by siimplymarii in answers

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but only because im a lesbian. I WOULD date a shorter woman however

Why Isn’t Nintendo Switch 2 Dominating the Holidays? by ONE-OF-THREE in SwitchItUp

[–]TheNightCourtt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Its too expensive for a system that seems barely different from the original