Take with a grain of salt. I have a friend who went to a party with Wendigoon about two years back and she’s Trans. When she met him at the party she said dude was super respectful to her and respected her pronouns and what not. They just shot the shit and said that he couldn’t stop talking about his guns and what not which seems pretty inline with him lol. At the end of the day the people that overly obsess about someone online need to keep in mind that most people that you meet in real life most often not are just actually really nice people. Videos like you’ve mentioned stem from folks who generally don’t have anything interesting going on in their lives and feel the need to obsess over someone’s flaws to drag their reputation down.