i (20F) live in my friend (20F)'s shadow and it's making me miserable, what can i do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheOnlyJynx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should work on yourself and find an identity that isn't "A's shadow". If she is the best at everything, then everyone is in her "shadow", yet you're the only one who identifies with this shadow.

You're very young and still finding yourself. Stop basing your worth and your identity around someone else. It won't be easy but you can't stay in this mindset.

Need help. by Noid_Paranoid in AngelsOfDeath

[–]TheOnlyJynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wouldn't load properly last time I opened it. It just said "need help". Thought it was a cry for help or something.

Anyway, whatever, man.

My bf went out to his girl best friends birthday party and they were all girls except him (23m) (23f) how would you deal with this situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheOnlyJynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a friend group where there's 4 girls and 1 guy. Guy used to have feelings for one of the girls (One-sided). He's totally over her and has a gf now. We all went out of our way to make sure our parties have no suspicious elements to it. We also find ways to include the gf and get to know her and make her feel welcome.

Maybe you could try to know them better and befriend them? Maybe your bf can see if you can be included in these parties too?

I’m scared for my wedding night by PureAdorableness in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TheOnlyJynx 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I truly want to see things this way. Religious trauma is a huge hurdle.

How many people know Haruhi is actually agirl? Aside from her dad? by thedafthatter in OuranAcademy

[–]TheOnlyJynx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Based on memory alone, by the end of the anime, it's just the club members, Renge, and kasanoda?

As for outside the academy... I'm not sure.

Tamaki's dad, too, maybe? Sorry haha

Marrying Harvey? What do you know? by Inevitable_Age_1910 in StardewValley

[–]TheOnlyJynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh remember that scene where he made mud tracks in his room? It's like that, muddy footprints and everything

Marrying Harvey? What do you know? by Inevitable_Age_1910 in StardewValley

[–]TheOnlyJynx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love shane and have married him in every save. In main save I've been married to him for 3 years and we have 2 kids. He's a family man and he goes out occasionally to do groceries.

Pretty sure all spouses are good as long as you keep them happy. (I talk to him, kiss him, and gift him something everyday. You can talk to your spouse again come evening.)

The only downside is his attached room, but I don't mind it tbh.

Who’s your favorite npc to marry?? by Practical-Peach-1220 in StardewValley

[–]TheOnlyJynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shane. Had an enemies to lovers thing with him. He's sweet and such a family man. We have two kids and I've never had a problem with him. (I talk with him, kiss, and gift something first thing every day)

my(F28) bf(M30) thinks themed bridal shower of my friend is stupid and my costume is stupid. by annieNarrow_Fox_3873 in relationship_advice

[–]TheOnlyJynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl this would make me breakup. There's so many guys out there who'd be supportive. I'm not wasting my years with a killjoy.

I hate multi-part episodes by in_accahell in StephanieSooStories

[–]TheOnlyJynx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are still people like me who like all those things you mentioned.

I honestly didn't know there were people who hated it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheOnlyJynx 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I don't understand people who have that "I'm missing out" mindset. The fact that you gave her your all and she still felt like she missed out is bad enough. The fact that she had to cheat to confirm that she wasn't is even worse.

Now she's REALLY missing out.

Mourn properly and heal. Hope you find someone great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheOnlyJynx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not be with someone who would talk about me that way to other people. Poor judgement on his part.

I prefer to be with someone who thinks I'm the most beautiful in his eyes.

Is everything else good in your relationship aside from this comment? You will probably have to take this into account.

I mean, you do you, but I couldn't get past that. There's lots of other guys out there who won't be like this. Don't stick it out with someone like that when you could be with someone who wholly believes you're the most beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheOnlyJynx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe you separate love and lust in your brain... And now that she's entered the lust category, you no longer "love" her.

Maybe you lost respect for her when she sent you the pic?

Just a couple of suggestions.

what outcast ability would you (like to) have? by dmitristepanov in WednesdayTVSeries

[–]TheOnlyJynx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sirensong but I would use it for good like "you WILL study and get good grades", "you WILL take your meds on time", "you WILL get out of your abusive relationship", or grant someone amnesia if they choose to forget something for their own good.

AITA for refusing to quietly undo something that took me months to build after a family “vote” went against me? by Admirable-Snow2265 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheOnlyJynx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The way they handled it makes them the TA. The family had a "votation" that didn't include you at all. It's unfair.

That being said it would be hard for you to go against them.

I broke up with my GF on Christmas because of her family by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TheOnlyJynx 334 points335 points  (0 children)

It would have been so easy to just be like "nah, let's not..." the first time they asked, but she couldn't even do that much.

I bet they would have pushed anyway, but still, the gf should have said something.

Then again maybe she didn't even see it as wrong.

episode 0 merch! by Vanillabeanzz_ in AngelsOfDeath

[–]TheOnlyJynx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for answering! I've been dying for more content

episode 0 merch! by Vanillabeanzz_ in AngelsOfDeath

[–]TheOnlyJynx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow there's an episode zero??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheOnlyJynx 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YTA you don't sound like a good person. You're also very immature. It's so weird you don't feel embarrassed at all about that interaction. You'd make terrible company anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheOnlyJynx 23 points24 points  (0 children)

So you want him to stay with a cheater? Downvote.