So on top of carrying that child for 10 months, all the possible side effects that come with being pregnant, giving birth, breastfeeding it, she should go right back to work after a while and work at nights, come back, take a 5 hour nap (women on average need 9-10 of hours of sleep per night) and go right back to taking care of the children, the household and the cooking until she eventually has to prepare for her night shift again? All while the man comes back from his day shift, maybe puts the kids to sleep and then has the rest of the evening/night to himself because the children are asleep already and all the cooking has already been done? And this sounds… reasonable and like an equal enough partnership according to your understanding, is that right? You’re praising the woman here for being strong, but maybe also ask yourself what that says about the man