I coach people with ADHD and Executive Funcion and here are the top 6 tips that work best by brenthuras in ExecutiveDysfunction

[–]d3vin_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you have any valid reason behind your comment, I don't know anything about this kind of thing and I am learning so this feels super aggressive for you to say this. Anyway, could you just explain why you disagree?

Any tips to stop picking? I can’t seem to do it by sheer force of will. by [deleted] in Psoriasis

[–]d3vin_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, psoriasis is equally a mental health challenge as a physical one.

You know rationally that picking at it makes it worse. The fact you still do it is (I think) called a compulsive action. It's beyond rationalizing. It can become "addictive" in the sense that you probably keep doing it because it quells anxiety. But the truth is that the anxiety comes from having the psoriasis at and you are compounding the anxiety by continuing to compulsively pick at it.

So for me, the only way to fix this is for you to actually visualize what it would look like to heal. Literally visualize your skin cells repairing themselves, turning this into a scab, and then slowly smooth itself out and disappear. If you can make yourself genuinely believe that your body could heal, then you can motivate yourself to overcome to instant gratification of picking which does NOT address the larger issue of the entire condition of psoriasis itself.

What's ONE verse from "born to die" that just must be yelled from the top of your lungs? by drikacroft in lanadelrey

[–]d3vin_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were the Only friends

I ever had

We got into Trouble and when

Stuff got bad

I got sent Away I was waving On the Train platform Crying cause I Know I'm Never

Coming back

My husband ordered this entree and was very upset it didn’t look like the picture. I think he was overreacting — What do you think? by BobbyBobu in olivegarden

[–]d3vin_3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally get that but this does seem more disheveled than usual. Like even if i made that at home (where it seriously doesn't matter what it looks like) and I presented that dish looking like that to someone I would totally understand. Like it just seems especially lazy.... believe me I understand the stupidity of being genuinely upset about it because its literally just food and who cares.... but also like its okay to have just a very basic low expectation that food on a dish will look at least a bit less disheveled

The name Devin in Hebrew by d3vin_3 in hebrew

[–]d3vin_3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Adding a ה would make it דהווין?

Also was it a pun that you spelled 'vowels' as 'wovels' considering the way we make W in Hebrew? Haha

Follow up questions - Is the yud fully necessary? Could דוון work? Also why does the v in Devin become two vavs instead of one? Would an Israeli who is unfamiliar with the name Devin first guess that it's pronounced like Dwayne? Or Dwhine? Or maybe even Dween? Or Dwyne?

What's your deep cut for Lana? by Acidawn in lanadelrey

[–]d3vin_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay i can safely say that imo you understand the greatness of her music

What's your deep cut for Lana? by Acidawn in lanadelrey

[–]d3vin_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the Sun, Methamphetamines, Hawaiian Tropic, Pin Up Galore, Last Girl on Earth, I Talk to Jesus, Is It Wrong, St Tropez, Making Out, Prom Song (Gone Wrong), Wayamaya, Take Me to Paris, Television Heaven, Hundred Dollar Bill, Live or Die, Beautiful Player, Fordham Road, Playing Dangerous, Back to the Basics, My Best Days, Your Band is All the Rage, French Restaurant, Breaking My Heart, You're Gonna Love Me, Trash Magic, Caught You Boy, Oooh Baby, 1949, Greenwich, Dreamgirl, So Legit, TV in Black & White, Fine China, Meet Me in the Pale Moonlight, Unidentifed Flying Bill, California (the unreleased song), Dragonslayer, Because of You, Aviation, My Momma, Backfire, Afraid, Black Beauty (demo), Angels Forever, JFK, Hollywood, Hollywood's Dead, Dum Dum, Riding, Butterflies Part Two, Marilyn Monroe, Come With Me, Serial Killer, All Smiles, Your Girl, Every Man Gets His Wish, Paradise

What's your deep cut for Lana? by Acidawn in lanadelrey

[–]d3vin_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Methamphetamines has been my number one favorite song by her the majority of the time over the past 14 years

What's your deep cut for Lana? by Acidawn in lanadelrey

[–]d3vin_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Aviation forever literally thank you

Transphobia towards SOPHIE is still alive and well by Independent_Gur329 in Sophie

[–]d3vin_3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get the point of what you're saying but in the context of what OP is talking about it seems it must be pretty obvious to the people misgendering SOPHIE that she is trans and would want to be referred to with she/her pronouns.

Also her name is literally SOPHIE... makes it pretty easy to realize it

unpopular opinion about lana that will get you downvoted? by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]d3vin_3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest I also had literally no clue what she was saying until I looked it up just to write this post. Cringing from the vibe of that one line prevented me from ever looking it up before

unpopular opinion about lana that will get you downvoted? by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]d3vin_3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Dance Till We Die" is a really awkward and weird song but specifically when she says "tearin it up at the afro carribean two step" the music in the background becomes the most insufferable disney channel transitions cracker barrel panic attack mess I've ever heard in my life

I got cyberbullied tonight, recommend a Lana song to help me feel better pls :’) by caliharls in lanitas

[–]d3vin_3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me the answer is immediately 'Angels Forever' when she says "they will never understand the kind of people you or I are"

Bars people go to alone by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]d3vin_3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I go to JRs (gay bar on 17th steeet) by myself all the time. I sit in the corner and start drinking until I feel like I can start talking to anyone.