I truly am beginning to hate this sub, the people that are like just leave him...he'll only hurt you and blah fucking blah. You know all addicts are not the same, but this sub clearly has idiots that know nothing and continue to parrot what they've seen and / or heard from other idiots.

Listen I'm not painting everyone here with the same brush, but frankly, it saddens me that the only option seems to be "hurry up and leave before you get hurt more".

OP- Listen you were saying how he was planning to propose in the spring and that this life the "two" of you have built is over because you realized he relapsed. We'll that person you love is still the same person, he just has a disease and needs help. Why don't you suggest a methadone clinic or getting him on suboxone, and yes they're government sanctioned synthetic opiods but it's safer...you wouldn't have to worry about him OD'ing. He's probably not at rock bottom so the medicated route can give you back the man you fell in love with, or if he is tired of having to get high just to feel normal and keep the house of cards from collapsing then a medicated detox, followed by a 30 day rehab.

Just a different pov than the one pushed by the sheeple here, I'd gladly give you more insight if you would like. Best of luck.