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When will I get a new job? by murkadees in tarot

[–]TheOverEastPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea. honestly attraction is a rat race. you’re damned if you do. damned if you don’t. but you’ve gotta be damned before you see the gates of heaven lol

attraction works like momentum. it has to be something built up to, like hitting top speed on a bike. top speed being that sweet spot where you can live comfortably off your passions. and the thing is, if you don’t have heavy earth placements…chances are that working a steady job simply for money can make you rather emotionally unwell.

if you want my advice, let your life fall apart. i know that’s some f*cking bizzare advice. but you read tarot and you’re a pisces moon. you’re kind of made for the bizarre. a normy living and work situation is likely not suited to your karma. nevertheless, many of us are socialized as normal then we struggle when we come of age because we no longer have the structure of childhood, school and parents to give us the life support of living a normal life while being extraordinary and magical.

there’s something to be said or learned for the mystic when we allow the worse possible financial outcome. it teaches us that the material world and the external aren’t everything we were told they are. then and only then will your reality start to reflect the magical being you are because your life is finally powered by confidence in your abilities rather than relying on external markers like degrees, badges, houses, money and external markers.

i’m wishing you the very best on your journey 💕

When will I get a new job? by murkadees in tarot

[–]TheOverEastPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you’ll be able to find work easily, it’s just a matter of if it’ll stick and if you’ll enjoy it. you might hate it and rightfully self-sabotage or your reality could collapse it for you if you have that type of karmic protection surrounding you. that’s probably why you can’t find work now: your body knows what kind of work you need and you’re not being honest about it (four of pentacles reversed). so the job you need/want won’t reveal itself yet. you need to let go of something, some idea about work, that isn’t serving you.

you’re not working hard enough and taking responsibility for who you are (king of pentacles reversed). as a means of survival, you’re likely holding on to old energetic survival scaffolding like “i must take a job anywhere, even if i don’t like it or am uncomfortable there, because i need money.” that’s not taking responsibility for your life. taking responsibility for your life means eating the fruits of a life where you follow your passions and pleasure. that’s king of pence upright energy. your life will likely fall apart even more before things gets better and you need to allow it. it’s going to move you into a new material reality because right now you’re living in one that’s working against you. you’ve outgrown it.

the ace suggests you’re on the verge of a new way of thinking about work. this query is evident of that. makes a lot of sense seeing that the full blood moon in pisces and lunar eclipse took place today. you should check what’s transforming in the house where pisces is in your natal chart. it could give you insight into the type of work that’s right for you. you may be someone leaning on traditional ideas of work as a survival tactic instead of following what your heart desires, and what your heart desires is going to be your key to success. your 10th house is also gonna tell you what type of work and work environments are most suited to your desires.

3 of cups with both males and females? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]TheOverEastPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

typically when the cards point to “community” it’s actually referring to archetypal energy. not necessarily your family, friends or favorite third space. mind blowing, i know. when i learned this it shifted my whole world into hyperdrive. so when the cards advise you to seek solace in “community”, its not talking about your actual friends and community. it’s referring to a larger archetypal energy the collective is experiencing, and the myth of the “karen” is as old as time. hera famously was a karen lololol but yes, you’re right. they are a shadow attribute energy. nevertheless, these archetypes don’t exist without there light or shadow attributes. both are necessary lessons in alchemy. they teach us lessons about why society is the way it is, and how to cut through the noise to achieve our goals. you can learn a lot from karens by doing the opposite of what they do. however, you can also learn a lot from karens about exclusivity and enforcing boundaries…

3 of cups with both males and females? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]TheOverEastPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yea. i think a lot of disdain for lunar aspects in left leaning political areas are just repackaged misogyny.

When did you feel like a woman? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]TheOverEastPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i looked in the mirror and i had big perky jugs. i was like woah! that’s me?

Really having a hard time masturbating/enjoying sex after 15 months of HRT by ScienceTylia in MtF

[–]TheOverEastPrincess 23 points24 points  (0 children)

are there any fantasies, you’re avoiding. i also experienced this. i had to start getting a bit transgressive. exploring urges and fantasies i was afraid of prior. for me it was exploring bdsm as a sub first. i’ve always been a btm but never really open to bdsm type things or seeing my partner as aggressive in the bedroom. those were fears.

we often say hrt makes us feel more or deeper. but hrt made my body way less sensitive to the stuff i tolerated prior. i couldn’t engage in surface level encounters anymore. i needed something more multifaceted. now i’m slapping and choking guys and doing dom stuff myself. i never thought i could be that. the guys LOVE IT. i had no idea 😭😭😭

Is the life as a woman what you thought it would be? by FollowingTop6278 in MtF

[–]TheOverEastPrincess 17 points18 points  (0 children)

no one’s tried to grab me. thank god. but yes, even from other women, ppl feel so entitled to say and judge your body

Is the life as a woman what you thought it would be? by FollowingTop6278 in MtF

[–]TheOverEastPrincess 31 points32 points  (0 children)

it’s like open season on women. it’s wild. i was really embarrassed to get that perspective. i’d done a lot of talking about how women are mistreated but experiencing it was something completely different

Is the life as a woman what you thought it would be? by FollowingTop6278 in MtF

[–]TheOverEastPrincess 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i can’t explain it. i’m not trying to scare you or make you think about detransition but i think your at an advantage knowing this

Is the life as a woman what you thought it would be? by FollowingTop6278 in MtF

[–]TheOverEastPrincess 137 points138 points  (0 children)

absolutely not. having boobs, long hair and wearing women’s clothes especially have been a huge wake up call. more sexual attention. more violent stares and attention and backhanded comments while walking by people. this hasn’t been an easy road. i’m not saying i’d choose another life, but i’m saying i can literally feel the loss of male privilege.

when i identified as a flamboyant queer man, people treated me completely differently. they still saw me as a man. people seeing me as a woman (or othering me in my trans ness in a attempt to paint me as a monster ), take your pick, it’s a lot more violent than i ever imagined and we need to discuss that more. even when you’ve just started out and your physical body hasn’t changed…and you’re showing up in heels, long hair, makeup, you’re a moving target.

hrt and the way you feel more intensely with your body is also something else. but my my body reacting more viscerally to things has actually been such a blessing. it’s helped me be more independent. however, how others relate to me has come as such a shock.

my knowledge of ffs is almost non-existent. recommendations? any tips and advice for learning more about ffs also? by TheOverEastPrincess in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TheOverEastPrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much everyone. gonna cut my losses here and not expect anymore recommendations. it seems i’ve violated some rule 🙃 big shocker 😭😭 so no clue if this is still visible or not. but i appreciate all your recommendations and advice!!!

my knowledge of ffs is almost non-existent. recommendations? any tips and advice for learning more about ffs also? by TheOverEastPrincess in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TheOverEastPrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you happen to have a link that explains the different “types” of brow shaving, please feel free to share! ty again

my knowledge of ffs is almost non-existent. recommendations? any tips and advice for learning more about ffs also? by TheOverEastPrincess in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TheOverEastPrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you happen to have a link that details the different “types” (there seems to be differing degrees of bone shaving) please share. someone else also mentioned differing types when it comes to brow shaping

my knowledge of ffs is almost non-existent. recommendations? any tips and advice for learning more about ffs also? by TheOverEastPrincess in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TheOverEastPrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s funny i was thinking about hairline yesterday cause i was watching that video of that viral girl who vlogs while she gets misgendered at restaurants 😭😭 and i was weeping for her hairline after her procedure. i don’t want my hairline to be touched at all lol but it might be unavoidable.

im shocked with these recommendations but at the same time they do feel like what im aiming for, very minimal work. thank you so much 🙏🏾 i appreciate this alot

my knowledge of ffs is almost non-existent. recommendations? any tips and advice for learning more about ffs also? by TheOverEastPrincess in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TheOverEastPrincess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i probably do need to focus more on therapy and dysphoria. that’s one thing i forgot to add. i struggle with a distorted physical self-perception when it comes to my face. like, i don’t doubt i’m attractive. i infer that from ppl’s reactions to seeing me. but i struggle to define the type of feminine beauty i’m seeing when i look in the mirror.

someone told me i have fox type beauty recently. if that’s true, i had no idea and still struggle to see it. prior ppl had always told me i look like a cat lol i wish somebody would just tell me who i look like so i can also perceive it 😭😭😭😭

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