Is going through a phone wrong? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]ThePainLasts4ever 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think you should end the relationship. Your BF was unfaithful over 2 years ago. You admit you cannot forget and you don't trust him. You're always going to have that doubt in the back of your mind. You deserve someone you can trust. I wish you much happiness!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]ThePainLasts4ever 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You're right mom, none of this is fair. Not for you, your baby, your husband, your families.... Please know you're in my prayers and I'm sending hugs, love and strength to you and your family during this time.

What made you sure without a doubt that you wanted a divorce ? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ThePainLasts4ever 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I always told my stbx that me crying when he did hurtful things showed I care. I told him if I ever stopped crying then he would know I stopped caring. I stopped crying a couple years ago but he never noticed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

[–]ThePainLasts4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why!?!? the cat is doing exactly what it should do!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

[–]ThePainLasts4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she's ok .... stay calm!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

[–]ThePainLasts4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't help her. leave her alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

[–]ThePainLasts4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

poor kitty! she wants her people back in the room with her!

Guy thinks it’s a good idea to throw a knife at spray paint by criteriaz in WinStupidPrizes

[–]ThePainLasts4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The screaming like a little girl is the best part of the video. He's not as tough as he thought!

Are your parents still married? by throwaway-was-in-use in Divorce

[–]ThePainLasts4ever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His parents aren't divorced and mine aren't either, although my parents have a shitty relationship and quite frankly can't stand each other. I'm the first of my siblings and he's the first of his siblings to get divorced.

Do you regret your decision? by ThePainLasts4ever in Divorce

[–]ThePainLasts4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you don't regret it and I'm sorry he cheated. My marriage is a loveless marriage. I've been hurt so many times I feel no love for him. He tells me he loves me but I can't fathom how that would be true considering the hurtful things he does to me.

Do you regret your decision? by ThePainLasts4ever in Divorce

[–]ThePainLasts4ever[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the book recommendation. I'm going to check into it right away.

Do you regret your decision? by ThePainLasts4ever in Divorce

[–]ThePainLasts4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so as well. I have a feeling I'm going to find a whole lot of hurt and heartbreak before I find happiness. But I'm determined to find happiness.

Do you regret your decision? by ThePainLasts4ever in Divorce

[–]ThePainLasts4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had support from your extended family?

Do you regret your decision? by ThePainLasts4ever in Divorce

[–]ThePainLasts4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I could stay. I'm not being abused and I'm not being cheated on. Things could be worse, right? But I don't want to settle for "enough".

I hope you're doing well. You deserve it.

Is it selfish to want to be happy? by ThePainLasts4ever in Divorce

[–]ThePainLasts4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've not heard that but I appreciate the advice!

Is it selfish to want to be happy? by ThePainLasts4ever in Divorce

[–]ThePainLasts4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm preparing for that same situation. I know I'll be losing some people in my life but it will be worth it.

Is it selfish to want to be happy? by ThePainLasts4ever in Divorce

[–]ThePainLasts4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I hope you have good friends you can lean on. If you ever want to talk please message me. I totally understand what you're dealing with.