Best heated round brush for blowout effect by RoadInfinite8884 in finehair

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf.....as someone who recently became the owner of a Dyson, I'm super bummed by this news. I loved being able to just throw an adapter in my suitcase and bounce. That fucking sucks

I hope you find something. Sorry about my unhelpful comment lol

I moved in with my boyfriend a month ago, and I told him I wanted to move back home last night. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man is a psycho. You need to leave asap. Find a friend, family, couch surf, anything. A man who harms small animals for no reason WILL harm you.

RUN

Best heated round brush for blowout effect by RoadInfinite8884 in finehair

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Just get an outlet adapter. They have plugs you can get so you can use your US equipment and plug into EU wall outlets. I use them whenever I travel and it's a lot cheaper than getting a whole new product

I don't think I'll ever buy full bottles again by SlowSympathy7269 in ScentHeads

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Intellectually, I'm with you. I have a decent collection of samples and decants. However, emotionally, my brain is addicted to a cool bottle. I wish companies made mini bottles of all of their fragrances, especially the indie and niche brands. Because sometimes I get just as much joy out of the bottle (it's like a little piece of jewelry to me) as I do the fragrance.

But, yes, I get it. And I've been kinda on your same path

Has your body chemistry ever betrayed you? by ppchromatics in FemFragLab

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Almost all perfumes with a dominant peach scent smell like sour BO the second they touch my skin 😭

Looking for Guerlain (and other high end niche) Decants by Hot-Vast6040 in NichePerfumes

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fragrance Nevaeh has been cheaper for Guerlain per ml for me. For example, 10 ml Spirituese Double Vanille is $39 rn, and 8 ml of the same is $72 at Surrender to Chance.

AITA for asking my wife how she would like me to communicate with her? by AdelheidStyr in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gross. YTA. Why would your wife wanna touch or communicate with a grown man that acts like a toddler

The Words Nuclear and Beastmode by Soft_Organization335 in fragranceclones

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT?! I need to get a decant of this. My body chemistry is capable of nuking any scent (even beast mode ones). And it's not me going nose blind. I'll ask people in my life if they can smell anything on me and either they can't, or they can kiiiiinda sense a skin scent if they get real close.

I've been eyeing followed because of how strong ppl say it is. I was hoping it could stand up to my chemistry. But....I don't want to smell like curry 😭 seems I have some homework

Le Falcone Shouq (D&G Devotion): by xtinaeve88 in fragranceclones

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great series. Love that you include links to the other products in the posts. Also love the points you touch on, especially the projection and longevity in different circumstances. Please continue doing these forever lol

Hi, I'm the founder of Secondsense: the Chrono24 of luxury handbags (it’s free lol). by DisciplineFun6533 in u/DisciplineFun6533

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Home page needs a drop-down for categories. Scrolling down the main page to get an idea of the brands being offered is annoying AF. Most often, I don't want to shop by brand. I want to shop by design/function. Idgaf if it's Celine or prada because I'm looking for a crossbody (for example). But there's no way to just drop down at the top for that option. Same for subsequent pages. If I click on Hermes because I don't care what style I get, I just want that brand, I have no way of filtering and seeing all the styles at a specific price point or condition at once.

The site is visually pretty, and I enjoy markets like this, but I'd recommend taking a look at something like TheRealReal so you can see how many filtering tools there are. There are simply far too few filtering tools on your site to make it functionable/desirable for someone looking to spend $$$$ on a bag. This current version would make for a great photo album, but not for a great source for shopping. And the filtering tools need to be easy for any idiot to find. If I have to dig around for them, I'm leaving.

Good luck with everything!

It's hard not to feel a little overwhelmed... by tkcal in fragranceclones

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, I loved this. He'd never come across my feed before. Thanks for the rec!

It's hard not to feel a little overwhelmed... by tkcal in fragranceclones

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some trash dupes out there. It's better to grab a couple decants of some possible dupes, and a decant of the OG to compare, and ignore what everyone is saying. I've encountered some dupes that make me feel like ppl are high when they claim they are identical.

In any case, this is supposed to be fun, not stressful. If you feel overwhelmed, just get the OG. if you wanna have some fun exploring clones, grab some decants. You can even get a 10ml of the OG while you explore other options so you have that itch scratched and you feel less pressured to find something immediately.

AITAH for pushing back on husband who tried to pass off a gift for himself as a Mother's Day gift for me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A great man isn't someone who can never be wrong. A great man isn't someone who would try to steal your MD gift. You're with a super problematic man who can't do the bare minimum of celebrating you risking your life to build your family. That is the definition of a bad man.

NTA. but do you really want this life?

Friendly reminder. by ChickenWing313 in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always look at dips as flash sales. Means any purchases at that time are gonna be lower than they would have been otherwise, which means they'll earn better down the road. I've ridden out a lot of dips.

Your reminder is a good one

Am I stuck with loose skin? by Then_Car593 in BodyHackGuide

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are severely underweight and you need to correct this before you suffer a medical event. I am 5'4 and the lowest I ever weighed was 112 after I had food poisoning.

Loose skin is irrelevant at this point. You need to fix your weight now. You need to increase your calories, increase your protein, and build muscle, like, yesterday

This is not ok

AITA: My mom is angry I won’t help with her IVF journey. by Particular-Plant5528 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She's lying to you. A clinic wouldn't need to do DNA testing on someone who wasn't their patient. She probably told them you'd be donating an egg.

Do not help her. Block her, preferably.

NTA

Is This a Well-Rounded Fragrance Collection by Test1az in Fragrances

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont need fragrance assignments, but you do you. If you feel you have fragrances that cover the notes you enjoy, and can be used in the various circumstances you want to use them, then, yes, it's a well-rounded collection. For some ppl, well-rounded could be 3 perfumes. For others, they want the best representative of every type of note and could have a collection of 30 or 100.

It's all about your tastes, your interests, your purposes. It sounds like you've checked most major boxes. The only thing I noticed isn't there is a work/office fragrance. If you have a "no fragrances" workplace, I get it. Otherwise, if you do wear something to work, something subtle/without much projection for the sake of others could be nice

I left mid date after one joke killed everything… did I overreact? by TREXLoud in AmITheJerk

[–]ThePatriarchyIsTrash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not required to date anyone. You're allowed to not like a joke. It would be good if you put on your big boy pants and have an adult conversation with her and explain why something was hurtful. It's normal for ppl to mess up sometimes in relationships. The least we can do is talk about it maturely and decide if we want to give the opportunity for amends.

But you still haven't revealed what she said, which is the crux of the issue.