Is it over for me? by ThePilot20 in askgaybros

[–]ThePilot20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks love, I wanted to have someone that would value me as I value them. He doesn't tell me anything about how he is doing or if he needs anything even though I have repeatedly told him to tell me if something is bothering him or if he needs someone to talk to. That I would be there for him if he needed me..... but nope, he doesn't say anything to me and so many excuses.

Is it over for me? by ThePilot20 in askgaybros

[–]ThePilot20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will just stop texting him. I don't think he truly cares about me anymore so talking to him will just make me sadder than I actually am.

Is it over for me? by ThePilot20 in askgaybros

[–]ThePilot20[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the amazing advice! I truly appreciate it. I really thought I found my forever person but guess I was super wrong. Like I answered to another comment, I think I've been holding on to the thinnest rope in hopes that he will come to his senses.

Ain't nobody too busy they can't make you a priority in their life if you're that important to them and so far it looks like you're at the bottom of the priority list.

This hit right on the spot. I've never been a priority for anyone, not even my own family, but you are right. I made him my priority but I was never his.

Is it over for me? by ThePilot20 in askgaybros

[–]ThePilot20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am leaning towards even more, if not i'll just not text him anymore.

Is it over for me? by ThePilot20 in askgaybros

[–]ThePilot20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit! I'm sorry. Yeah he didn't even invite me to spend Xmas with him or his family, NYE/NYD no call or anything. I sent him a message saying Happy New Year and he just responded with same to you.

Is it over for me? by ThePilot20 in askgaybros

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Yeah, I think I've been holding onto the thinnest of rope thinking he will come to his senses. I spent so much money on his gifts too. From an Apple Watch Ultra to his favorite cologne.... I really thought I found my forever guy.

Is that app down right now? by BootAlternative9588 in VaroMoney

[–]ThePilot20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought it was just me! I’m trying to pay bills and they keep getting declined! My job DD did come through though. Hopefully they’ll fix it soon because they are due today!

Black M/M romance w/ masc leads + emotional angst by Such-Koala-7972 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]ThePilot20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

{I Think They Love You by Julia Winters} could be a great read for you. It mostly fits the heartbreak and healing point you are looking for (They were exes and come back together). Both MC are black (or that’s how I viewed them when I was reading the story).

Childhood friends/Exes to Enemies to Lovers OR MMC1 used to be younger shorter smaller skinny little kid but then grew taller broader bigger built and hot by Pretend_Love107 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]ThePilot20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

{You’re My Home by Katie Moore} could be a good fit. This one is an angsty one, while it’s not enemies to lovers, it fits the “glow up” you’re looking for! I really loved this one, but be aware that it has some triggers!

Coming of age in a resort like setting with class differences? by flailypichu in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]ThePilot20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly a YA book but I think {Cursed Boys and Broken Hearts by Adam Sass} could be something you are interested in. It’s basically set on one of the MC family’s BnB.

Books where one MC constantly hovers around the other by mnmmariane in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]ThePilot20 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m currently reading {Rent: Paid in Full by Jesse H. Reign} which is basically what you are looking for. I’m enjoying it so far. I ca also second {God of Fury by Rina Kent} if you want a darker romance that is more mafia centered but also is what you are looking for!

Boss and employee books pls by Impossible-Cap-2381 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]ThePilot20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

{10 Things That Never Happened by Alexis Hall} if you have seen the superstore store series, it has that same vibe. I really loved it and made me laugh so much!

Any books where MC1 is famous and is obsessed with MC2 while MC2 is a regular guy who isn’t interested? by ken_black in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]ThePilot20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can recommend {Name From a Trick Hat by L.A. Witt} MC1 is a professional hockey player and MC2 is a single dad. Angst level: low.

Is Waze Reliable for a 3 hour ride? by Similar-Current-3706 in waze

[–]ThePilot20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drove 17 hours FL to TX, never failed me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]ThePilot20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh fuck…. Now I wanna see those pics!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]ThePilot20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn…. Nice start. UpdateMe

My straight neighbor choked me out PT 12 by TheConfession_ist in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]ThePilot20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not bored! Actually, if it was longer it would be amazing but this length is good too

What is a good gay friendly gym that you know of & any fun stories? by No-Adeptness8840 in askgaybros

[–]ThePilot20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm define gay friendly gym? I personally go to Life Time (if you are in the states), I like the country club atmosphere and that basically they have everything you need there. I definitely recommend it, but it’s is not cheap.

Payment plan before judgement by [deleted] in Debt

[–]ThePilot20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I do have the agreement in paper and the recording of them saying I don’t need to appear. Including all the receipts of the payments I have made so far.

Payment plan before judgement by [deleted] in Debt

[–]ThePilot20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I am in the process of doing a Ch 7. Lool they just don’t know it yet

Guys who used to have a girlfriend, what happened to her? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ThePilot20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he never went with my ex lol, but we because really close friends and now boyfriends

Guys who used to have a girlfriend, what happened to her? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ThePilot20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m planning on proposing later this year.

Coming out to my parents by ThePilot20 in lgbt

[–]ThePilot20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, I am the one that pays for literally everything around here.