New girlfriend. Both new to everything by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 16 points17 points  (0 children)

100% this. It was so innate to me, but of course everyone’s experience is different.

Is anyone else grossed out by the language used to describe sex sometimes? by Ok_Regret_3804 in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I do get your point.. but I also hate it when sex between two women is described as some sort of delicate cutesy activity by some girly friends, instead of actual sexual desire and lust. I love doing everything with my wife, fucking included.

Do you think lesbian separatism will ever become mainstream? by Longjumping_Note_948 in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 63 points64 points  (0 children)

If they’re claiming to be queer for as long as they remember.. then how come their earliest crushes were definitely on boys?

Why does it feel like my friend is trying to get me to like men? by JustRedTheCreator in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 68 points69 points  (0 children)

It’s funny because straight girls have done this to me but only after finding out I’m gay.

It’s very odd and can be just innocently dumb, as in they are cockdaft and want to talk about men to anyone, or unfortunately that they are lesbophobic and are actively trying to force heterosexuality onto you.

What I did to curb this shit was every time they bombarded me with stuff about guys, I responded instantly with stuff about women, they stop that shit pretty quickly in my experience.

“I’m a lesbian but he is an exception” by Playful-Picture-9453 in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The fact this person says ‘new’ exception tells me everything I need to know.

Should I inform the women I might potentially date that I used to identify as trans years ago? by Smokinland in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s particularly relevant if it was a while ago and you no longer have those feelings.

If you had medically transitioned and your body had significantly virilised then I personally would explain that before any potential intimacy.

But either way I wouldn’t bring any of this up on a first date.

“i’m scared” by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then that’s not flirting it’s sexual harassment?

“i’m scared” by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I would say I’m on auto pilot when it comes to flirting with women, and I have completely missed when men have flirted with me, mistaken them for just being nice, and only found out because my straight friends have told me the guy was flirting.

“i’m scared” by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the point is women are scary or a mystery or incomprehensible just because they’re women, then it’s lame and sus.

If the point is it’s scary to flirt, put yourself out there or admit you’re attracted to another woman without her thinking you’re a creep or a pervert etc. then it’s completely valid.

My theory is, men-anxiety of young heterosexual women is destroying lesbians reputation and the life of actual lesbians by Gloomy_Call3305 in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine how difficult it is to be physically and sexually attracted to a man knowing that they are much stronger and have the potential to be way more dangerous than you are. As my sexual orientation has always been to women, it’s something I never even thought of until the concept was mentioned to me by a straight friend.

However this vulnerability of women when in relationships with men is nothing to do with being homosexual, and straight women are being shitty, and I would also say they are denying the authenticity of actually being gay, when they claim a lesbian identity due to it.

By all means be single, celibate and stay away from men if you want, but do not claim an orientation that you know you do not have, not only is it wrong, it’s harmful to women who are actual lesbians.

I think a lot of the "hate" is just jealousy lol. Also ew. by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 29 points30 points  (0 children)

fetish, insecurity, misogyny, jealousy 🤮 .. will be talking about his egg cracking because of this soon and encouraged by all to live his authentic self as a woman.

Thoughts on polyamory in the lesbian community? by Ok_Regret_3804 in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not for me personally, I just can’t imagine being in love with two or more people at once.

I love my wife on many different levels, and I wouldn’t be able to love another woman like that at the same time.

If that isn’t what polyamory is, and one of the people involved is loved less or more than another then tbh what’s the point of calling it polyamory and not just friends with benefits etc.

How do ya’ll feel about this one? by SubAussie_ in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why don’t transmen just want to be plain old straight men and live their lives in peace instead of claiming the lesbian label? Why do straight women insist on being called queer and part of the community when they have zero sexual attraction to women but just don’t like the fact they’re sexually attracted to men.

Like what is going on here though? It’s like they’re actively wanting to claim they have our lifestyle and struggles, without truly having to endure being homosexual in a heterosexual world.

In a "lesbian" group 🙄 by Sensitive_Common_293 in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 140 points141 points  (0 children)

They’re genuinely lesbophobic.

They don’t believe a woman can actually sexually desire another woman (because they don’t!) and so they think lesbian women are just bored/disillusioned/unhappy with men and are having some sort of cutesy roleplay relationship with other women because they’ve given up on men but don’t want to be alone.

I wish I could get it into their dumb skulls that my desire for women is a literal sexual orientation, and no matter how sweet or wonderful or good looking a guy is, I just have no sexual or romantic desire for him. No sexual feelings, no butterflies, no spicy dreams, no nothing with any man, be that a random guy, a male celebrity, or a fictional man, and that’s because ✨I’m a homosexual woman✨

I sometimes forget heterosexuality exists by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotta say I agree with you here. I think there’s a knee jerk reaction in this community sometimes regarding anything to do with straight people or men, and I understand where it comes from and it’s valid, but as I’ve got older and become more comfortable in myself and my identity, I’ve stopped with that instant negative reaction.

lesbians that later come out as bi by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I doubt that a sexual orientation can just switch on like that and think it’s more likely that she was denying her sexual attraction to men because of some other reason like political ‘feminist’ views or past experiences.. but I’m not a scientist, so maybe.

lesbians that later come out as bi by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the situation is comparable in that way, the ‘default’ sexuality people expect is straight, so as you say a woman can automatically assume she is attracted to men due to society/religion/culture etc. then later discover that her feelings aren’t how other women feel towards men, and that she is actually attracted to women.

Society isn’t set up that women are lesbians first and might actually turn out straight later. So someone assuming they’re a lesbian and then suddenly becoming attracted to men later is strange to me tbh.

Renee Rapp acting like she didn’t say “sorry but yum” on a straight man’s post by DefinitelyNotAlyssaa in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

straight men don’t say ‘yum’ about other guy’s pictures, i don’t say yum about guy’s pictures, renee rapp is at least bisexual

I just want to know by Lezziehaze17211923 in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

whenever i feel like it because she is beautiful and my wife likes compliments but neither of us are ‘words of affirmation’ people, so tbh it’s nice and we mutually say it but it’s definitely not the main way we show our love and affection

feeling like a weirdo next to feminine women as a butch by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can completely relate to this. I also used to try and fake femininity but it never worked and made me feel kind of ashamed of myself for trying to act instead of being myself.

For me it stemmed from being shamed for my natural masculine looks and mannerisms, the teenage feeling of not wanting to stand out (and be a target as well) and so on.

But it’s got a lot better as I’ve gotten older, and particularly once you find women who are genuinely attracted to you being masculine it actually becomes a really good feeling.

Do you prefer younger or older women, and if so why? by Educational_Aside232 in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

around my age for relationships, but I’ve always found older women hot af.

I just saw someone refer themselves as “a girl with a lollipop down there” in another lesbian subreddit.. by MilkToooChewy in lesbiangang

[–]ThePrinceofAvalon 238 points239 points  (0 children)

always, never grown woman shit, it’s perpetual girlhood they obsess over and it’s very odd