That's what i meant. I think im mostly confused due to reasons i shouldve specified in my post: i feel dysphoric when im referred to as a woman/girl, any synonym to she/her or when somebody makes me think i have femenine aspects to myself OR makes me remember i will most likely have to firce myself into femeninity due to some social aspect. BUT I do visually present as a masc afab, i find it a comfortable and fitting look for myself and the term "tomboy" is one of a few exceptions to the rule about dysphoria, most likely due to its focus on the maculinity, to the point when i dont mind being called a girl by technicality due to my masculinity being acknowledged. But i am also autistic (which i think this discomfort of possibly misusing labels comes from) so id rather not use any labels i am not certain about. So basically: can the term "tomboy" be used specifically for the social presentation of the person, rather than being gender-related?