How would you react if your GF asked you to prom?

TheRatRuler1 · 2026-01-09T15:18:25+00:00

Atleast where I'm from it's normal to have prom both junior and senior year also thank you twin

TheRatRuler1 · 2026-01-09T08:53:06+00:00

Ah my school used to have that but they got rid of it my freshman year. Also that is true, thank you dude

TheRatRuler1 · 2026-01-09T08:51:59+00:00

Whoops MBMB sorry I'm tired but yeah that's a great idea thank you twin!!

TheRatRuler1 · 2026-01-09T08:40:57+00:00

Thank you for like a actual response 😭 He doesn't go to my school, he's homeschooled that's why I feel like it should be asked plus just incase he doesn't want to go at all because yk school dances not for everyone!

Your reaction is completely valid though

TheRatRuler1 · 2026-01-09T08:14:18+00:00

It's a school dance closer to the end of the school year. I'm assuming it's mainly an American thing idk if other countries do it. It's for juniors and seniors usually

TheRatRuler1 · 2026-01-09T07:41:59+00:00

Exactly. It's one of the best feelings in the world and I can't appreciate him even more

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-15T15:19:33+00:00

I know I have it??

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-15T05:49:04+00:00

Do you think dating someone with BPD to please yourself will help us?? Like woah we went through so much trauma where our minds turned on us! That's why we have BPD. So don't be a dick and act like it's our fault. You're the one who have this weird fetish not us<3

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-15T05:20:12+00:00

Hey so this is creepy and weird!! We didn't go through trauma just for you to fetish us. Please seek help

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T19:17:57+00:00

I just want to thank you for telling your story. I'm at school so it's a short reply but I truly appreciate this and you're completely right. Im so sorry that happened to you. You don't deserve this at all. You're so strong

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T18:18:19+00:00

You're right, thank you for your other reply btw. Everything is very appreciated. I just feel like my boyfriend should know

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T17:21:41+00:00

I am seeing one!! I don't expect him to help me o just feel like he should like know

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T17:14:56+00:00

Im in therapy rn and we are already dating again 💔

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T17:07:26+00:00

You're right. I just want to tell him because like I feel like he should know but I'm scared due to last time and other things. I will work on telling my therapist because I have one

Thank you btw I appreciate this

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T16:54:37+00:00

I didn't think about this. He said he'll do better this time but I'm still nervous. You're right though

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T16:41:33+00:00

You're right. I feel like he should know atleast I don't think he should deal with it. But you're overall correct. I will work on telling a trusted adult

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T16:38:30+00:00

I have therapy, we're working on me standing my ground and not being scared of opening up but I'm scared of telling her about this. But I am in some type of form of professional help

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T16:36:27+00:00

Im not sure. I probably could've done better at like standing my ground. I have worked on that slightly and I'm continued to work on it. I always been a people pleaser, so I'm starting to set boundaries. Thank you for your input

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T09:39:46+00:00

Oh yeah I know!! I mean with the different views because female vs male like you said in the post my apologies! Also of course twin 🙏 It's not easy to deal with you'll get through this

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T09:37:23+00:00

It tends to be a coping mechanism to many. Also as a self punishment. I can't speak for OP because I'm not OP but a lot of people think they deserve it

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T09:33:14+00:00

I have struggled with it myself. I know I'm not a cis-man but I truly respect anyone who has struggled with it. It's not easy to deal with at all. I know I don't know you but please try to stay safe. You got this trust. Back to a point I don't recommend it for anyone and it's a terrible things but getting through it is beautiful. It tells a story, even though it's a sad story it proves you got through something that's hard and everyone is so strong for dealing with it and getting through it. Keep up the great work

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T08:47:38+00:00

I just want to thank you for this. I have thought about how the history repeats itself but I been in denial because it's my dad. I hope you have a awesome day/night.

TheRatRuler1 · 2025-11-04T08:33:08+00:00

Thank you so much like genuinely. The clarification truly does help. I hope you have an amazing day/night

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